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dumelani

62 / F / straight / Single

Johannesburg, South Africa

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Aries
Education
college/university
Job
Hospitality / Travel
Income
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English, Afrikaans, German

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I am considerate, loving, and kind-hearted.

My Self-Summary

Life is a gift from God and I want to enjoy unwrapping it every day! Sunsets, sunrises, mist and moonlight are special - so are thunderstorms, sitting on beach and just watching the waves, talking to and.... really listening to someone, playing with a puppy or a kitten and surprising someone with a little gift, a hug or a kiss 'just because'. I enjoy interacting with others and people make my world go around. My life is busy but never too busy to find time to meet someone new. Laughter is important even though life is quite a serious business and laughter at oneself is vital. I can do that! Giving time to a needy cause, a charity or the seniors amongst us is always a pleasure. Loyalty, integrity, kindness and being genuine are equally important to me.

Like most people, I look for friendship, getting to know someone, trusting we will find common ground and can share with one another. Don't judge me by a picture! Get to know me! You may just be surprised!

What I’m doing with my life

Enjoying every day of it as much as I can. My mom always said the devil was an idle person's pillow so my hands are never still. Neither is my mind and that's what keeps me active, interested and motivated.

I’m really good at

Listening, listening and... hearing! I'm also pretty good in the kitchen and although I don't do windows and, cleaning up is a chore I don't mind getting stuck in! I could probably iron the neigbourhood's washing if only someone sat and chatted to me whilst I was doing so!
I'm pretty good at solving problems and happiest when I can motivate someone to see the glass as half full rather than the opposite.

The first things people usually notice about me

My helpfulness, my kindness and my willingness to go the extra mile. And... when they get to know me, the funny side of me.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books : Not fussy really but my favourites are Dan Brown, Sydney Sheldon and James Clavell.
Movies : Sci-fi usually but a good drama will do too.
Music : Light classics and dreamy gentle instrumentals
Food : Anything but organs! Chinese and Italian rate high on my list.

The six things I could never do without

My faith, my dog, lots of loving, friends and friendship, my comfortable slippers and... the odd chocolate or two!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Meeting new people, what I can do to help others less fortunate than myself, how the chaos in the world will play itself out, whether I will be be part of life after death, finding ways to learn more or at least be more tolerant of that which I don't understand and wishing I had a magic wand to "fix" all the sadness and misery!

On a typical Friday night I am

Relaxing and unwinding

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Nothing comes to mind right now

You should message me if

You want to take a chance and get to know me or even if you simply want to talk!