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24 Carrboro, NC Genderqueer


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 14
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Sales / Marketing
Likes dogs and has cats
My self-summary
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I am in a very back and forth place, where I do not know why I even still have this profile, but on the flip side it is frequent amusement and OkC has been good to me in the past - I have met some of my best friends ever through this thing - so, here I remain.

Unsure about pronouns anymore. So, ask?

Mostly diggin' female bodied and identified individuals but willing to potentially consider outside of that, for the time being at least.
Woo ever changing sexuality.


I really like cats, and owls, and dinosaurs.

And.. You aren't supposed to be particularly in depth on these things, so I'm going to stop typing now because I don't know what else to say.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Reading self help books and pumping myself up for a lot of wildly necessary life changes.

I just started as a receptionist at a little locally owned salon, run entirely by women, and I've never loved a job more.
It's just a stepping stone. But it's nice to finally have a job that I don't have to talk myself into going to.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being quiet.
Accidentally burning myself.
Starting art projects, but not finishing.
Forgetting people's names.
Collecting owl things.
Loving every cat I come in contact with.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair?
The size of my eyes?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Lovers Dictionary
Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs
Rent Girl
Let's Explore Diabetes With Owls
Baby, Remember My Name: An Anthology of New Queer Girl's Writing
I Was Told There'd Be Cake
How Did You Get This Number
Would You Still Love Me If I Wet The Bed?
Running With Scissors
Holiday's On Ice
Every Day
Sharp Objects

Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium
Black Swan
Hard Candy
Remember Me
Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog
Sunshine Cleaning
The Lovely Bones
(500)Days of Summer
God Bless America
Daydream Nation
Cabin in the Woods
The Brass Teapot
The Other Woman

Grey's Anatomy
American Horror Story
Parks and Rec
Orphan Black
New Girl
Diners, Drive-Ins, and Dives
Ugly Betty

Stars, Metric, The XX, Regina Spektor, Ingrid Michaelson, Queen, Kimya Dawson, Jaymay, Kate Nash, He Is We, Heathers, La Roux, The Pierces, Lights, Meg and Dia, Tegan and Sara, The Postal Service, Milo Greene, Jenny Owen Youngs, Owl City, Julia Nunes, Florence + The Machine, Rilo Kiley, The Weepies, Sara Bareilles, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Joan Jett, Bella Ruse, Mountain Man, P!nk, The Pixies

Indian, Irish, Japanese, Thai, Italian, American, my own creations
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A journal.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The state of the mental health stigma in our world and how little old me can get my claws in and change some things.

Racism and sexism and ableism and how I can use my existence as a white, able bodied, feminist to somehow make a difference.

Language, and the stringing together of words, and the people that got to decide what words mean, and how I am endlessly envious of those people.

The universe and the possible purposes of humanity, and I stress myself out.

Myself, and the fact that I am, and we all are, universes, or souls, or whatever you may believe, trapped inside a body and I am frequently weirded out while laying in bed and suddenly hyper aware of my hands of all things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking for my housemate and myself.
Breaking up a fight between my cats.
Trying not to fall asleep before 9pm.
Binge watching documentaries or the same season of a show I've already watched twice before and wondering what "normal" 24 year olds are up to.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have cried over the mortality of my cats.
You should message me if
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You wanna.