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25 Carrboro, NC Genderqueer


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 27
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Sales / Marketing
Likes dogs and has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I like to cook, and snuggle my cats, and binge watch the same tv shows and/or weird movies on netflix.

I like going to places with outdoor seating, with another person and a book, and floating between comfortable conversation and reading as it happens.

I like board games and trying to out-weird each other with Youtube videos.

I like the thought of traveling, but the actual act short circuits my brain and I want to figure out how to make that stop.

I am the best ever at "I" statements.

Other stuff.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Reading self help books and pumping myself up for a lot of wildly necessary life changes.

I'm a receptionist at a little locally owned salon, owned and operated entirely by women, and I've never loved a job more.
I also recently started as a server at a new restaurant in town which is quite fun and a different pace from reception work.

It's all a lot. But I think it's a good lot.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being quiet.
Accidentally burning myself.
Starting art projects, but not finishing.
Forgetting people's names.
Collecting owl things.
Loving every cat I come in contact with.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair.
The size of my eyes.
My teabag tattoo.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Lovers Dictionary
Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs
Rent Girl
Let's Explore Diabetes With Owls
Baby, Remember My Name: An Anthology of New Queer Girl's Writing
I Was Told There'd Be Cake
How Did You Get This Number?
Would You Still Love Me If I Wet The Bed?
Running With Scissors
Holiday's On Ice
Every Day
Sharp Objects
Literary Sexts
Miss Peregrine's Home For Peculiar Children

Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium
Black Swan
Hard Candy
Remember Me
Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog
Sunshine Cleaning
The Lovely Bones
(500)Days of Summer
God Bless America
Daydream Nation
Cabin in the Woods
The Brass Teapot
The Other Woman

Grey's Anatomy
American Horror Story
Parks and Rec
Orphan Black
New Girl
Ugly Betty

Stars, Metric, The XX, Dessa, Regina Spektor, Ingrid Michaelson, Queen, Kimya Dawson, Jaymay, Odesza, Kate Nash, He Is We, Heathers, alt-J, La Roux, The Pierces, Lights, Meg and Dia, Tegan and Sara, The Postal Service, The Blow, Milo Greene, Jenny Owen Youngs, Owl City, Julia Nunes, Florence + The Machine, Rilo Kiley, The Weepies, Sara Bareilles, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Joan Jett, Bella Ruse, Glass Animals, Mountain Man, P!nk, The Pixies

Indian, Irish, Japanese, Thai, Italian, American, my own creations
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A journal.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The state of the mental health stigma in our world and how little old me can get my claws in and change some things.

Racism and sexism and ableism and how I can use my existence as a white, able bodied, feminist to somehow make a difference.

Language, and the stringing together of words, and the people that got to decide what words mean, and how I am endlessly envious of those people.

The universe and the possible purposes of humanity, and I stress myself out.

Myself, and the fact that I am, and we all are, universes, or souls, or whatever you may believe, trapped inside a body and I am frequently weirded out while laying in bed and suddenly hyper aware of my hands of all things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking for my housemate and myself.
Breaking up a fight between my cats.
Trying not to fall asleep before 9pm.
Binge watching documentaries or the same season of a show I've already watched twice before and wondering what "normal" 24 year olds are up to.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have cried over the mortality of my cats.
You should message me if
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You wanna.