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dune-femme

23 F Carrboro, NC

My Details

Last Online
Jul 29
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am in a very back and forth place, where I do not know why I even still have this profile, but on the flip side it is frequent amusement and OkC has been good to me in the past - I have met some of my best friends ever through this thing - so, here I remain.

Queer.
Unsure about pronouns anymore. So, ask?

Mostly diggin' female bodied and identified individuals but willing to potentially consider outside of that, for the time being at least.
Woo ever changing sexuality.

Uh.

I work at CVS, for now, but you probably already knew that.
I hate it, it's awful, but "at least it's a job" - I guess.

I really like cats, and owls, and dinosaurs.

And.. You aren't supposed to be particularly in depth on these things, so I'm going to stop typing now because I don't know what else to say.
What I’m doing with my life
I have very little idea, at the moment, to be entirely honest.

I want to go back to school in the next year or something, with a focus in Social Work to hopefully break into the mental health field because I am so effing sick of the stigma surrounding it all.
Rageragerage
I’m really good at
Cooking.
Being quiet.
Starting art projects, but not finishing.
Forgetting people's names.
Collecting owl things.
Loving every cat I come in contact with.
The first things people usually notice about me
"Why did you do that to your face???"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
B: The Lovers Dictionary, Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs, Rent Girl, Valencia, Let's Explore Diabetes With Owls, Baby, Remember My Name: An Anthology of New Queer Girl's Writing, Lucky, I Was Told There'd Be Cake, The Lovely Bones, I (heart) Female Orgasms, How Did You Get This Number, Would You Still Love Me If I Wet The Bed?, Box Lunch, Pages For You, Running With Scissors, Holiday's On Ice

M: Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium, Wall-E, V for Vendetta, Black Swan, Hard Candy, Zombieland, P.S. I Love You, Remember Me, Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog, Sunshine Cleaning, The Lovely Bones, (500)Days of Summer, God Bless America, Daydream Nation, Cabin in the Woods

T: Grey's Anatomy, Arrested Development, American Horror Story, Bones, Law&Order:SVU, Orphan Black, New Girl, Diners, Drive-Ins, and Dives, Dexter

Mu: Stars, Metric, The XX, Regina Spektor, Ingrid Michaelson, Queen, Kimya Dawson, Jaymay, Kate Nash, He Is We, Heathers, La Roux, The Pierces, Lights, Meg and Dia, Tegan and Sara, Milo Greene, Jenny Owen Youngs, Owl City, Julia Nunes, Florence + The Machine, Rilo Kiley, Sara Bareilles, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Joan Jett, Bella Ruse, Mountain Man, P!nk

F: I feel like.. listing food is obnoxious (for me, not in general)
I am open to trying most things.
I do not, under any circumstance, eat anything that comes out of the water - the last time I tried I had a panic attack which is weird, but I just don't do it, the end.
The six things I could never do without
Chapstick.
Cats.
Books.
A journal.
Feminism.
Conversation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think a lot about how much I hate that every person I come in contact with, in my generation, thinks that, "it's okay for anyone else to need help, but I am supposed to be able to handle myself." because of the stigmatization of mental health in this world, when this generation and the following ones are going to all need more and more and more of it with the way everything is going.

I think about language, and the stringing together of words, and the people that got to decide what words mean, and how I am endlessly envious of those people.

I think about the universe and the possible purposes of humanity, and I stress myself out.

I think about myself, and the fact that I am, and we all are, universes, or souls, or whatever you may believe, trapped inside a body and I am frequently weirded out while laying in bed and suddenly hyper aware of my hands of all things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably watching things on Netflix.
Or maybe working.

My schedule doesn't really stay the same to allow for "typical"
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have cried over the mortality of my cats.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 20–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to?
I don't know.

I have been told that I am an A+ conversation partner, and I'm very good at validating people when they feel like they're wrong in their lives, so if you find yourself needing those things..?

I also have recently, accidentally picked up drinking coffee, so I'm constantly looking for people to join me in continuing that slow spiral into madness or whatever.