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25 Carrboro, NC Genderqueer


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 25
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Average build
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Most of the time I would rather be in my bed, watching some weird movie I (sort of?) accidentally clicked on netflix.

I don't like bars, except on the rare occassion. I do like coffee shops a lot, even though caffeine gives me anxiety since cutting soda out of my life (this doesn't mean I don't try, mind you. Once I have one latte, I never want to stop. Don't get me started on tea.)

I have two cats, and they mean absolutely everything to me.

I am not very good at asking questions, but I want to know everything about the people I care about, and love hearing stories. Even the "mundane" ones that are just about how your day was.

Sensitive, maybe to a fault.
Introverted, to the point that a lot of my friends hate me a teensy bit.

Successful women make me really emotional (See: Sara Bareilles, and Julia Nunes, for very recent examples)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Reading self help books and pumping myself up for a lot of wildly necessary life changes.

Working two jobs to save up, while I make up my mind for what comes next.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being quiet.
Accidentally burning myself.
Starting art projects, but not finishing.
Forgetting people's names.
Collecting owl things.
Loving every cat I come in contact with.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair.
The size of my eyes.
My teabag tattoo.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Lovers Dictionary
Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs
Rent Girl
Let's Explore Diabetes With Owls
Baby, Remember My Name: An Anthology of New Queer Girl's Writing
I Was Told There'd Be Cake
How Did You Get This Number?
Would You Still Love Me If I Wet The Bed?
Running With Scissors
Holiday's On Ice
Every Day
Sharp Objects
Literary Sexts
Miss Peregrine's Home For Peculiar Children

Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium
Black Swan
Hard Candy
Remember Me
Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog
Sunshine Cleaning
The Lovely Bones
(500)Days of Summer
God Bless America
Daydream Nation
Cabin in the Woods
The Brass Teapot
The Other Woman

Grey's Anatomy
American Horror Story
Parks and Rec
Orphan Black
New Girl
Ugly Betty

Stars, Metric, The XX, Dessa, Regina Spektor, Ingrid Michaelson, Queen, Kimya Dawson, Jaymay, Odesza, Kate Nash, He Is We, Heathers, alt-J, La Roux, The Pierces, Lights, Meg and Dia, Tegan and Sara, The Postal Service, The Blow, Milo Greene, Jenny Owen Youngs, Owl City, Julia Nunes, Florence + The Machine, Rilo Kiley, The Weepies, Sara Bareilles, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Joan Jett, Bella Ruse, Glass Animals, Mountain Man, P!nk, The Pixies

Indian, Irish, Japanese, Thai, Italian, American, my own creations
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Intersectional, fully inclusive feminism.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Recently, I've been going through some pretty personal things and as a result I am pretty hard focused on mental health, and all of the twists and turns it can take and the stigma surrounding it and what it means for each individual person and how every person's experience can be so vastly different, even while suffering through the same exact thing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching something, or reading something, or sleeping early.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have cried over the mortality of my (still relatively young) cats.
You should message me if
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You wanna.

(If you've watched the fucking movie, Honeymoon, and what to tell me what the fuck happened cause it's been like two months and I can't stop thinking about it, but I still don't know the answer.)