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59 • Mill Valley, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 39–66
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Apr 16
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from Ph.D program
- English (Fluently), French (Okay)
I'm from canada and spending several months working in the Bay area. I'm now settling into Mill Valley. And I’d like to meet a woman within a pleasurable distance.
For me, key words might be active, fit, versatile, explorer. I’m also passionate about music and dance, non-materialistic, interested in politics and science, and sex-positive.
In a woman, I am attracted to a healthy energy, curiosities and passion. I’m comfortable with most backgrounds and ages, though conservatives take me more effort. I especially appreciate spirited women, women who are prepared to say and do what they really desire.
I try to reply to all messages, though sometimes I'm a little slow.
Longer term, I’m, as they say, in transition, exploring ways to a career shift, a more rooted and healthier home place, and more creative time.
On movies, most genres except horror (I get enough elsewhere). I like a variety in comedy/satire (A Fish Called Wanda, Vicky Cristina Barcelona, Burn after Reading, Much Ado about Nothing, Gauzon Maudit), music (The Last Waltz, Mo’ Better Blues, Amadeus, Genius Within) and political/drama (Bertolucci, Costa-Gavras, Pontecorvo, Stone, Watkins, Weir).
For shows, my favourites have been dance and musicals, especially Les Misérables, West Side Story and Rent. I don’t do TV, just remaindered lesser known shows like the canadian series The Newsroom and Slings and Arrows.
For music, I love most of it beaucoup. These days I listen more to jazz (Davis, Coltrane, Evans, Brubeck, Desmond, Jarrett, Metheny). I also get into classic rock (The Band, Doobies), Motown (Gaye, Wonder) and folk (Seeger, Dylan, Mitchell, Bragg, La Bottine Souriante). But I keep coming back to classical, especially back to Bach.
For food, I'm mostly veggie and lean to mediterranean, mexican and indian.
my two wonderful daughters
rugged landscapes, big sky, hot springs
dark chocolate, good baguette, wine, avocados, gjetost
progress in science
... the order varies.
a practicing or aspiring dancer, musician, artist or writer
an itinerant yogini or tantrika
a climber (of mountains, not socially)
a sex-positive feminist or activist
an investigative journalist or scientist, someone really curious
the spirit moves you...
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