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46 M Southampton, PA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 28
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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Sometimes the perception's in the eye of the beholder can be quite misleading. So like Grandmom use to say, "never judge a book by its cover". I'm a disabled, divorced, single parent of a son who is now raised. He's a great guy who I'm very proud of. Now, since he's raised, I'd like to find a love interest to move forward with in my life. I'm not here to evoke a sympathetic heart because of my situation, I'm here to find a heart that I'm compatible with in spite of it. My name is Joe. I was partially paralyzed from a diving accident but have since adjusted to my situation and try to live my life as actively as possible, yes, in a wheelchair. I believe that things happen for a reason (all cliches aside) and that we can adjust to whatever crises are presented to us in life. I try to stay optimistic regardless of the challenges ahead and try to convey this attitude to the teens I work with. I drive an accessible van so I do get around pretty well. So please don't park in the handicapped spots if you don't have a placard, we are out there and would appreciate the courtesy. :-)
I would like a long term relationship eventually but am open to just dating as well to see if we really connect and see how things evolve. One thing I'd like to mention. If you send me a message and I fail to respond please don't take offense. It's most likely because I'm not interested. I've sent many messages to women who peaked my interest without them responding back and completely understand. I'd expect that same understanding to be reciprocated. Thanks for reading my profile.
By the way, took the Okcupid persona test and came out The "Slow Dancer" . Go figure that one out lol. ;-P
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in the counseling/guidance field with teens and enjoy helping others who have difficult challenges in life.
I’m really good at
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Cooking, Art, Fishing and Hunting. Technical Writing, Teaching
The first things people usually notice about me
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Personality, sense of humor and at the risk of betraying humility, attractiveness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Comedy, Rock music, some Country music, New Orleans cuisine, seafood, Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Wheelchair (well, I couldn't) ;-P
The Lord
(not necessarily in that order)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...why people think because someone's in a wheelchair they get stereotyped...I do have a son who was conceived after my injury... and there are individual differences associated with paralysis...come on people, stay up on things...sorry for the pun lol ;-P
Actually, I think more about living one day at a time...but was never one for cliches. ;-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with either family or friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Uttooo, don't wanna go there in public lol.
You should message me if
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You're open minded, compassionate, altruistic, family oriented, spiritual, enjoy the shore, camping, just hanging out, watching a movie or grilling and chillin. Sorry, not into the bar scene anymore but do enjoy Chickie & Petes catching a Phillies or Eagles game enjoying wings n things.