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29 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Apr 14
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and very serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Science / Engineering
Seeing Someone
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Poorly), Cebuano (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Riding my bike from one hipster coffee shop to the next.

Also out to get the best out of life. The world is one big buffet and I want to try all the dishes. Free thinker, calculated risk-taker. Writing code, making music, dancing, and probably not sleeping enough.

I ended up in SF after growing up in the low lands of windmills, wooden shoes and similar endlessly exciting things. The Philippines and NYC have been my home for a while, and hopefully some day Buenos Aires will be too. But I love this city and don't want to leave any time soon!
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to fulfill a purpose while enjoying and experiencing the world.

At the moment that means writing code to fix the way people rent their home. In the future it will probably mean something related to personal health. I care a lot about nutrition.

I also run a small business that "prints stupid faces on cards", as a friend of mine likes to put it. I can explain... It makes people happy, believe it or not ;)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Racing around town from one hipster coffee roastery to the next.

Just making it to the train.

Executing spontaneous plans.

Just missing the train.

Setting course.

Eating ice cream sandwiches, apparently. Some people say eating 6 ice cream sandwiches in 10 minutes can't be done. You must never listen to them. They don't know what they're talking about.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I wear a hat and/or a scarf from time to time. I'm just European.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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In the literature section one of my favorite writers is Michel Houellebecq. His work is so awesomely controversial.

TV Shows? House of cards, and game of thrones. That's about it, really.

I like electronic music, but also jazz, salsa and classical when I'm in the mood for it. Joris Voorn to Mozart to Simon & Garfunkel to Ella Fitzgerald.

Thai green curry? Yum! Also, sharp cheeses. Also, mild goat cheeses. I could go on...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee shops, a passport, sarcasm, road bikes, intellectual stimulation, an open mind
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The deferred life plan, and why we keep falling for it.

Inefficiencies, and why they survive. Inefficiencies annoy me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends in a bar having philosophical debates, and laughing about life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I got a pedicure once, for no particular reason.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're an optimist. This is important.

Also, you're intelligent, driven, and ambitious. If you can't entertain a conversation without talking about TV or sports, we'd both get bored quickly. If you get excited discussing social equality, for example, though, please do message me!