Tall order here. Self description. How does one summarize an entire
lifetime in a short essay? Well here it goes. I was married for
almost 17 years. Divorced in October 2010. I am hoping to get it
right this time. If I could describe some of my personality traits,
I would use the following adjectives: Determined, Loyal to a fault,
challenging, persistant, devoted, results driven, flexible,
respectful,honorable and every much the southern gentlman.
I know what I am looking for. And, I will know when I see it. I
believe in giving it all in everthing I do. That includes my
personal relationships. I give 100 percent of myself in everything.
And I know that is what I am asking in return. Before anyone
questions what this means. I realize life happens. So 100 percent
does not mean 100 percent of the time. I will leave it at
Finally, I am looking for that one woman that will want to devote
herself to me, and me to her. I am not into games. I am not looking
for just a quick hookup or FWB. I can do that if felt like being 20
or 30. One thing I know for certain, life will not stop so that you
can partake in those activities. In summary, when there are more
days behind us than in front of us, then it is time to step up and
go for it.
What I’m doing with my life
I would like to thank someone who pointed out to me that this part
needs revision. So here it goes. I made a drastic change in my life
and I plan on making even larger change. First, the move from the
only state that I have know all my life was drastic. Now, I am
going to step out even further and open my own Environmental
consulting firm. I consider this drastic because of the global
economy. But, the timing is right and I think it is what some of
the larger firms are looking at. It is time for me to start taking
charge of the rest of my life. I have been an employee for 31 years
of my life. It is time for me to be my own boss. Look out 2013.
I’m really good at
I am very good at not be very good at anything. It takes years and
years of practice to be as good as I am at not be very good at
anything. Maybe that makes sense?
Actually, what I am good at is, thinking outside of the box. I am
good with numbers and science. I am very bad at spelling, writing
and grammer. I spent a fortune while in school having my reports
and papers proofread and revised. So, if it appears I do not have a
grasp of the English language, then you know why.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm tall, I got blue eyes and red hair. Well it used to be red
until the grey started coming in. Yes, I am not vain. I refuse to
blend the grey away. Took 45 years to get em.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anything by Tom Clancy, Robert Ludlum and Steven King. I am also a
big fan of most fiction works. I also love to read reality based
fiction as well. I try to read for the entertainment value.
Most all movies. If I had to choose a couple. The Rainmaker, Radio,
Troy, Glory Road, The Hunt for Red October, Crimson Tide, The Firm,
Top Gun, Star Trek, StarWars, Battleship plus so many more.
I find that I do not watch to much TV. But when I do it is NCIS,
Law and Order and CSI.
This depends on my mood and what I am doing. Examples: Working out
and driving my Stang. I listen to Rock. If I am relaxing it will be
soft rock or love songs. ( I like to sing to those songs) If I can
find a good Country Western bar, well you can guess that one. Yes,
I can do the two step. I own REAL cowboy boots and a hat. And I
have been on a couple of bulls.
Food: I am a guy, I can eat most anything.
The six things I could never do without
A bible, a good book, my tea maker, remote control, my phone( my
entire life is on it) and a bbq grill.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
When can I quit revising my profile. Have I readied myself do the
dating world. Am I being true to myself. Am I being honest with
those around me. Why do we feel the need to stay closed off. Am I
willing to open up my personal feelings.
On a typical Friday night I am
Uhhhhh. Duhhhhhhhhhh. If I am on here, stands to reason I am not
out doing anything on Friday night. Perhaps it should read. If you
had a date on Friday night, what would you do?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hummmmmmmm. This a loaded question. What do you choose to admit to
that is appropriate enough to not be banned when posted on a public
site. What is a man to do. Guess best leave this question alone.
Like the line from top gun, " I could tell you, but then I would
have to kill you!" this is very top secret stuff. National
You should message me if
If you believe that there are many soul mates out there. And you
think I am the right soul mate for you.