Hello...don't know what to say....i'm pretty open with everything so i have no problem telling you anything you want to know so ask me anything you want...wow there is a 100 character minimum...i hate minimum's...i wonder if i reached 100 yet.

I'm an assistant golf professional at a country club. So i basically work for rich people. And its the type of job where people always look at me with a weird face when i tell them what i do, and then they start assuming its completely different than it actually is...i basically do a lot of accounting and running a business and i spend a lot of time either working on a computer or talking to members and trying to make their days as happy as possible...i'm about as far from the norm of people who share my profession as possible....but they must like what i do because i've been at the same job for awhile...i really don't know what the future holds, probably moving on to something different...its getting to be that time i think. I work in essex county and i spend a lot of time up there but in the winter months i'll be down in oceanport for most of it, so i kind of have to residences at the moment.

Having an open mind, seeing and understanding other peoples point of view. Being very opinionated and expressing those opinions while excepting others. Being stubborn. Remembering the year a movie came out. Remembering weird and random things that happened 12 years ago and not remembering what i had for dinner yesterday. Anything to do with numbers. Making lists. Making a drink. Making someone laugh. Playing poker. Giving advice.

I'm not really sure...i've never asked...i usually smile at a person when i first see them, no matter who it is...so maybe its my smile.

books...i read a lot of biographies..the ryan white story has been my favorite since i've been about 12 years old. Bob dylan's chronicles, cash by johnny cash, brothers(the history of the kennedy's), pistol, one of a kind...the things they carried is a great book too that i recently finally read.

movies...there are so many, i see a lot of movies, i watch the oscars...i love good movies...old..the godfather, one flew over the cuckoo's nest, chinatown, the graduate, annie hall, on the waterfront, cat on a hot tin roof, the sting, the hustler, i'm a huge paul newman fan...newer...million dollar baby, mystic river, la confidential, the departed, milk, dark knight, rachel getting married, shawshank redemption, into the wild, there will be blood, high fidelity, wonder boys, 25th hour, fargo, almost famous, american beauty, magnolia, usual suspects, pulp fiction, goodfellas, dead poets society...there are so many more...

music...lots of different things...i have almost a 1000 cds and i love them all, if i don't love them i throw them out...my favorites i guess are bob dylan, dave matthews, beatles, railroad earth, the clash, the who, ryan adams, lucinda williams, rolling stones, bruce springsteen, tom waits, bright eyes, the dead, tom petty, neil young, kathleen edwards, pearl jam, wilco, old 97's, willie nile, from good homes, josh rouse, liz phair, ani difranco, aimee mann, rem among many many others...

food i like simple things, italian, cheeseburgers, nothing too complicated, simple and easy but i also love eating out at restaurants.

the people i care about
My cds(no ipod, yes i have to physically put a cd in a player)
my movies(which are still mostly vhs)
good competition
my thoughts
my sense of humor

i think about whatever is going on in my life.

there is no typical...it depends on so many things, what time of year...i could spend it at a bar with friends, a movie, in my apartment...who knows.

If you get to know me you'll find out i'm not very private, all you have to do is ask and i'll tell you anything you want to know as long as your sincere.

If you want to get to know someone who's pretty nice, a little sarcastic, likes to have good conversation and have fun.