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45 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 22
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am direct, honest and genuine. I will tell you my feelings and thoughts, and what is working for me and what isn't. I hope you will do the same. If I am insecure about something I will tell you, instead of acting it out.

I like to do outdoor activities. I like waffles on the porch in the morning sun so I can admire my garden. I instigate adventure. I travel internationally and sometimes unintentionally. I climb mountains and haunt deserts. I'm an adventurous eater. I like gardening, climbing, and making jokes. I give good road trip.

What is most attractive to me is good communication Usually that means our ability to speak simply about how we feel. I don't require we don't have problems, but I do want to get through them healthily.

I like someone who has a good time even in difficult circumstances. I like people who say 'yes!'. I like people who talk a lot, who laugh a lot. I go home with the most beautiful woman at the party.

I want a relationship. I can't be with someone without having emotions for them.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have the time and the means to enjoy life.
It's better with shared with someone.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being vulnerable
answering important yet unasked questions
changing what I think based on new information
admitting I'm wrong
making things happen, whether it's going out for the night or a week
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
movies: Lathe of Heaven, Sarcasm, Weeping Camel
books: Dune, Geek Love, Barbara Kingsolver

Lana del Rey, dubstep, CocoRosie, the Knife, Krisna Das, Nick Cave

These days I am reading a lot of literature on the biological origins of consciousness and emotions.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Six Things I Would Prefer To Not Do Without;
alpine wildflowers
colored earth
playing hand drums
my emotions, because that's the whole point of it
indoor plumbing, bonus for heated!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...what i want.
And I don't mean wondering what i want, i KNOW what i want.
I mean figuring out how to get it!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out of town on an adventure
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i have a bald spot
(but, it's not from age, its from an injury! lol)
i think it's growing back
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you want to have a good time. But don't take that the wrong way. Or do? hee hee