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45 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32-48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:21am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am direct, honest and genuine. I will tell you my feelings and thoughts, and what is working for me and what is not. I don't bother with lying. If I am insecure about something, instead of acting it out, I will talk with you about it. I hope you will do the same.

I like to do outdoor activities. I like waffles on the porch in the morning sun so I can admire my garden. I instigate adventure. I travel internationally and sometimes unintentionally. I climb mountains and haunt deserts. I'm an adventurous eater. I like gardening, climbing, and making jokes. I give good road trip.

I like to watch movies with my special someone. Or go for days or weekends to interesting festivals, or to the river, or to the beach or countryside. Or bowling.

What is most attractive to me is good communication Usually that means our ability to speak simply about how we feel. I don't require we don't have problems, but I do want to get through them healthily.

I like someone who has a good time even in difficult circumstances. I like people who say 'yes!'. I like people who talk a lot, who smile and laugh a lot.

I prefer a relationship and that starts with a date. Come with me
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have the time and the means to enjoy life.
Life is best shared
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being vulnerable
answering important yet unasked questions
changing what I think based on new information
admitting I'm wrong
making adventres happen, whether it's going out for the night or a week
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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movies: Lathe of Heaven, Sarcasm, Weeping Camel
books: Dune, Geek Love, Barbara Kingsolver

Lana del Rey, dubstep, CocoRosie, the Knife, Krisna Das, Nick Cave

These days I am reading a lot of literature on the biological origins of consciousness and emotions.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
alpine wildflowers
colored earth
my emotions, because that's the whole point of it
indoor plumbing, bonus for heated!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...what i want.
And I don't mean wondering what i want, i KNOW what i want.
I mean how to get it!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out of town on an adventure
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i have a bald spot
(but, it's not from age, its from an injury! lol)
i think it's growing back
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you want to have a good time. But don't take that the wrong way. Or do? hee hee