45 Oakland, CA
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My self-summary
I like that people from countries other than America and England are more direct and honest. In my experience they are more willing to say when they like something and when they don't. I find Americans (myself included a little) try to be nice and then build up resentment. I am coming to prefer direct and honest communication. No more guessing! Or wondering! Or exclamation marks!

I am content with my career and income, I earn enough money to have some free time and travel. I have had some very hard times in life and my priority now is to enjoy. I prefer being in relationship.

I'm active, I go to the climbing gym 3-4 times a week not because I am great at it, but because it's fun, and social. I ride my bicycle to work. Not far, and I don't break a sweat, but it keeps my body and my mind active. When you ride a bike in urban settings, you are either alert or dead. Be alert! The world needs more lerts...

I like someone who is determined to have fun, even in difficult circumstances. Because life has bad circumstances. I think someones experience says says more about their disposition, than their luck.

I like people who say 'yes!'. I like people who talk a lot, who smile and laugh a lot. I have my problems in life so that doesn't mean everything is easy. But I've learned how to be present. And not ruled by my emotions.

I don't want to have a relationship just to have one, or because I'm lonely. I want a great relationship and I am waiting for someone with whom it works well. Though I do tend to fall in love quickly with the right person...
What I’m doing with my life
traveling to Thailand
I’m really good at
Being vulnerable
answering important yet unasked questions
changing what I think based on new information
admitting I'm wrong
making adventres happen, whether it's going out for the night or a week
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
movies: Lathe of Heaven, Sarcasm, Weeping Camel
books: Dune, Geek Love, Barbara Kingsolver

Lana del Rey, dubstep, CocoRosie, the Knife, Krisna Das, Nick Cave

These days I am reading a lot of literature on the biological origins of consciousness and emotions.
The six things I could never do without
alpine wildflowers
colored earth
indoor plumbing, bonus for heated!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...what i want.
And I don't mean wondering what i want, i KNOW what i want.
I mean how to get it!
On a typical Friday night I am
out of town on an adventure
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i have a bald spot
(but, it's not from age, its from an injury! lol)
i think it's growing back
You should message me if
you want to have a good time. But don't take that the wrong way. Or do? hee hee