e_and_r
26 Madison, WI
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My self-summary
We're a MadisonEast Side couple who enjoys good food, good times, and good sex. We're SSC, GGG.

We're in a happy, stable LTR where we enjoy all kinds of exploration together. We also have a shared girlfriend that we met here on OKC back in August, so we're pretty much off the dating market as a pair right now.

We love BDSM: he's a top and she's a submissive. We love shibari rope bondage, and we would love to show and share with you.

ABOUT Echo_location:
E. is 44, male, and straight. Way too easily amused, but capable of taking things seriously when needed. He's lived enough to know what he needs, what he wants, and what he can do without. He's situationally kinky, having been in some excellent vanilla relationships in addition to chipotle-chocolate with variegated sprinkles relationships. When kinking it up, he is quite firmly hardwired as a dominant, having last been tied down by a partner some 18 years ago.

ABOUT Rubaiyya:
R. is 26, female, and bisexual. Her interest in BDSM is psychological: developing and experiencing trust, and playing with perception. R is primarily submissive, but switches to service topping for sensation play.
What I’m doing with my life
He's a professional writer and she's in finance.
The six things I could never do without
E'S SIX THINGS:
- A good hat
- Boots
- Music
- A clean, twisty road
- A motorcycle to ride on said road
- A fine and fascinating lover

R'S SIX THINGS:
- Search engines,
- Pet cats,
- Scuba diving vacations,
- Shibari/kinbaku,
- the Penzey's catalog,
- a nerdy partner in crime
On a typical Friday night I am
We like to meet up with friends for drinks, dinner, and conversation downtown. Quiet bars, loud bars, dancing, the Terrace... anything goes.

On the weekends, you might see us at KGN, Grind, and NCN.
You should message me if
You're SSC, GGG, and we sound like a good match for you!

If you're not looking for a relationship, we're interested in same-room sex with couples and we're open to the idea of F/F play and soft swaps in future encounters.

A selection of our previous experience includes club fetish nights and a few swingers' events where we performed in a few public scenes.
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