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23 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 8
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I am an empathetic, strange, and social night owl. I am a gender fluid person, with a friendly, (INFJ) personality, looking for connections in this wonderful city. I often stay up late to work on abstract paintings and other various art projects, and I immensely enjoy learning and conversing about art. I see myself as an ever evolving being, constantly trying to better myself and the world around me.

I spend my free time studying various topics, most recently white privilege, beauty makeup and social conditioning. I spend my summers working with 8-11 year olds, at a camp which specializes in helping children with behavioral and social difficulties/ or are on the autism spectrum. (One of my goals is to become a pediatric occupational therapist, with a specialization is sensory processing disorder.)

I currently live in an intentional community that considers itself a social justice project. I enjoy meeting radical people and discovering their contageous passion for changing the world. My strongest interests lie within gender and sexuality, specifically gender policing, social conditioning and inequalities between identity groups.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am currently employed (by day) at a store selling intellectually stimulating games and puzzles. It is enjoyable and leaves room at night for my second job. Plus I get to spend my hours playing games with children, and that is rewarding in and of itself. (By night) I am a freelance artist, with experience in abstract painting, photography, sculpting, jewelry, makeup and design. (I now also work at a bath and soap store as well.)

I love studying psychology, world religions, emotional regulation, politics, gender and queer theory, different forms of communication.....really learning in general excites me. I feel that self awareness, a sense of humor, confidence, and empathy are all extremely important, and I try to continually work on these attributes within myself.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My biggest passion is creating visual arts, specifically acrylic, abstract paintings. I love creating texture and visual complexities within my art, and am satisfied with what I have achieved.

I am highly empathetic, and enjoy using that to help people identify and cope with their emotions. This also makes me very understanding. I am easy to get along with, and love learning about/meeting new people.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People tend to comment most on my eyes and lips. (Or my makeup on bright colored lip days)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Reading---feminist and social justice articles, the out of sync child, crucial
conversatios, the book thief, the power of now, a great and terrible beauty, I am the messenger, the named, the ethical slut, tarot card books, the watchers, art technique books.....

movies-----coraline, pan's labyrinth, easy a, the help, paranorman, dangerous liaisons, cruel intentions, the house bunny, the haunting in Connecticut, the descent, avatar, Matilda, death becomes her and tons more

tv shows----bob's burgers, veronica mars, charmed, parks and recreation, will and grace, pushing daisies, being human, arrested development, supernatural, rupaul, futurama, 50 states of Tara, family guy, modern family, american dad, always sunny.....

music......purity ring, Bastille, bon iver, death cab for cutie, Mumford and sons, goo goo dolls, Florence and the machine, Bastille, coldplay, imagine dragons, third eye blind, vertical horizon, shiny toy guns....

Strong tasting foods.... Blue cheese, vinegar, onions, spicy and sour foods are my favorites.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My eyes
Sensory regulation tools
Serious play
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to better myself is what I most think about. What other people are thinking and feeling at any given moment, how to create a new texture in my paintings, how much longer I can stay up, My own values, opinions, emotions, sensory needs, religious beliefs, psychological studies, group dynamics, .....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I am alone, then I am most likely painting. If I am out of the house, then dancing, seeing a show, chatting over tea or an adventure would be a preferred use of my time
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My laugh changes, quite often. It also changes by taking on characteristics of the laughs of the people I spend time with. Currently is is an amalgamation of lots of different laughs, and occasionally sounds like I'm dying. Enjoy
You should message me if
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if you are looking for a quality connection, and would like to be understood. Also if you want to, it is pretty much as simple as that.