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53 F Studio City, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:39pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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Well, Hello there! :-) Piqued your interest, did I?

Welcome to my little corner of the world.

Here's my deal:
Consider myself to be a giving & fun-loving person, a terrific communicator, a true romantic and thrive on healthy relationships and aspire to keep them that way. I'm enthusiastic and reliable. Not flaky in any sense of the word (originally an east coast girl) and a firm believer in THE 4 AGREEMENTS. I own my behavior and expect the same in return; I will never lie to you nor cheat nor deceive - that's not who I am. Looking for the same value wise but not a carbon copy of the male version of me. Interests are wide and varied and ever changing - I want to meet someone who will teach me something new and show me a side of myself I did not know I had. I like to read, learn new things, go to the flicks, yoga, bike, swim, skate & kick sand ( I also used to be a certified scuba diver back in my 20's and would like to explore that again if you're game--love a good snorkle at any rate). I'm artistic and creative and that goes everywhere I go. Love to meet someone who appreciates the arts, good food, fine wine and doesn't say one thing and do another... you also must have a sense of adventure and love to laugh, find camping fun and are the out-doorsy sort. You especially know how to treat a woman, chivalry is not dead, and you have the knowledge that whatever you give out comes back to you ten-fold. You are passionate, affectionate and playful. You are young at heart and you take care of yourself to stay that way.

I'm also a mom to my 11 year old son. Would like to meet someone who understands that I have responsibilities but I'm also willing to move mountains and make time for the right guy. ;-) Anything is possible; for where there is a will, there is always a way.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Getting back to my writing/illustrating career and putting all the ducks in the rows. Creating a new life now that I'm older and wiser. Discovering what thrills me...and keeps that smile on my face.
Looking for someone who fits like a glove.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
storytelling, humor, making apple pie, dinner parties, self-awareness, figuring out what I want, knowing who I am, cultivating understanding, showing empathy, listening, talking it out, never letting the sun set on a quarrel, communication, kissing, cuddling, laughing, witty banter, visualizing, holding hands, hugging, encouraging, following my intuition, writing and illustrating, & being a great mom to my kid.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, my eyes and my voice and then surprise! My smarts and quick wit and then my strength and vulnerability. I also can banter with the best of them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite movie of all time is The Matrix because it's about waking up and becoming conscious and it tells the story brilliantly. I love action-adventure, comedy and drama and the classics. Was a film major so movies rank high on my list of entertainment as do books--esp. books made into films.

Love all the classic children's books which speak of great truths, like THE LITTLE PRINCE and THE VELVETEEN RABBiT and THE WIZARD OF OZ.

And I read a lot of spiritual type books, currently got my nose in THE UNTETHERED SOUL. I've had a lot of unique experiences that have required me to become more seeking.

I like most kinds of music but lately my sirius radio in my car is always on the electronic station. And I like to play it loud. ;-)
London Grammar - hey now arty remix currently playing as I type this.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
*my son
*a journal to write in and chronicle my life (since 13)
*freshly made almond milk in my vitamix, add banana and dates, cinnamon, and a splash of vanilla for anti-aging yumminess.
*honesty and integrity and values
*Self-awareness and introspection to evolve and become a better person, learning from my experiences. Everyone is here to teach us something especially in relationships.
*love, sex and romance
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the mysteries of the Universe and why we are here. Counting my blessings....
and how far I have come from where I first started.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Well, every other one I am seeking the moment. This is work!

I've done this enough times now to know what works and what doesn't. Weeding out the players is something I've also learned how to do.

Meeting asap to get out of here is paramount so we don't waste each other's time. YES, The REAL world; that's where life happens anyway--(unless we are in the MATRIX--which we are but that's another story) otherwise we are prone to flights of fantasy. Not good.

So I like to message HERE back and forth a few times to see if we have some rapport--then a phone call to see if we still have that fine rapport -- then Meet in the morning or afternoon for coffee. No, I won't meet you for cocktails. If you are looking for the love of your life do you think alcohol will make your perception better?(Later, I will have a drink with you--preferably a fine merlot or if it's still the daytime before sunset a pinot gringo. ;-))

*TEXTING *- I love a good text as much as the next person but when it's a substitute for real communication--I find it completely irritating and extremely ineffective communicating as so much can be misunderstood. Please don't use texting to have a conversation with me. Call me or better yet speak right in front of my face. Technology is killing real life interaction and people hide behind it.

Also; I'm 100% real and I expect the same in return. All my photos are completely current within the last day to 6-9 months. Please do the same. I don't like surprises and neither do you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is that if you won't reveal something here (WILLING TO ADMIT) you are too secretive for me. I'm not the CIA. It's not going to blow your cover. Why do you have a cover anyway?

I'm willing to admit that My Intuition is highly developed and I'm a bit psychic. Something like spidey sense.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 48–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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If you are impeccable with your word, don’t take anything personally, don’t make assumptions and always do your best.

Oh, and you actually made it this far and found out I was more than just legs, T & A.

...AND you wrote more than a line or two on your profile and have current photos. That's a real indicator of how invested you really are in all of this. YEP. I'm looking for someone who puts in the same effort as I do - otherwise I already know how it's all going to play out.

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