Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a really nice person who is friendly to many people, but
ultimately devoted and loyal to the person I'm attracted to and
feel most comfortable with. I am not high maintenance at all, I'm
independent, but can let you lead- as long as you're not
controlling. I'm smart, realistic, practical, opinionated but
funny. I'm down to earth so you don't need to pompously impress me.
If our values mesh, all the better.
I am politically aware and my ideology is most in tune with being a
Conservative Republican and I watch FOX and believe it is fair and
balanced. I know that it is rare for a New Yorker with a Jewish
heritage (not religious). Don't mistake me for a liberal's view of
what a Conservative is. I just believe in lower taxes, limited
gov't, personal responsibility,morality and ethics,individualism
rather than racial & religious agendas to divide, against waste
in gov't spending, control of our borders, focusing on the criminal
and mental health as the problem, not the guns and just common
sense policies which we have ridiculously gone away from and are
destroying our country.
If you are into the astrology thing (which is either just fun or
has some merit), I am Aries with a Libra ascendant. So the
adventurous impulsive Aries spirit is tempered by the Libra quest
for balance, justice and love of beauty in all things. I'm a combo
of both and balance IS how I live (no extremes either way).
I am most myself in jeans, but can glam up for an occasion in
classic style (you won't be embarrassed). I'm generally regarded as
attractive and younger than my age, petite & curvy, no- that is
not a term for fat or heavy- I have curves where they should
I need to feel chemistry, and blue,green eyes/ salt and pepper hair
and a decent build have made me look twice. But- there are
attractive warm brown eyes (like mine) as well. Throw in a nice
smile and we may have something here. If you are comfortable with
tools and handy, that's a big plus I've always admired.Neat beards
or mustache ok, but that Woodstock hippie thing is kind of old.
Being dependable, responsible and organized are very highly
regarded. Proper grammar and spelling is a plus- sorry, "Don't no
nobody" is a turn-off.
Please be a gentleman- if you're prone to making lewd and creepy
remarks upon first introduction or meeting, skip me. I 'm looking
for something more respectful than a sexual encounter. Just setting
parameters so there are no misunderstandings.
My needs are pretty simple- someone I can connect with romantically
as a companion, friend and partner. We don't have to do everything
together (I have friends for that) but shared times and
conversation together would be nice. I'm not desperately looking
for anyone, so there is no sense of urgency to find just anyone- it
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm keeping busy and content in all areas of my life and being
grateful for the smallest of good things I've been blessed with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
just being myself which is responsible, practical, independent, and
loyal. Totally happy with who I am as a person. I love good
conversation, a sense of humor and an easy going but confident
person to share it with.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Long curly blonde hair, easy smile and warm eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books-Love reading anything worthwhile on any topic- fiction,
non-fiction, biographies, history. Love the feel of being in a
library surrounded by books and knowledge. I'm not a snob who can
rattle off a list to impress anyone. Last book read was The Shack
which was understood if you had a knowledge of the metaphysical
world (also an interest). Joined a monthly book club which
introduces me to books I might not have read.
Movies and shows- drama, comedy, musicals, romance,
classics-anything well-written or entertaining. Phantom of the
Opera is a favorite. Current movies aren't too good- just cursing,
nude women, car crashes and slim story line.
Music- not a groupie or lover of any one kind or artist. Like all
except rap (oh wait- I do like some Eminem songs). All depends on
the mood I'm in at the time- prefer lite FM but top 40, classic
& progressive rock, smooth jazz, show tunes are good too. I do
love all Barry Manilow songs and see him in concert- very humble
& underrated composer, singer, & pianist.
Food- Generally, most foods but I am very picky about how it is
prepared. Prefer grilled or baked over fried foods. No Mexican or
Indian food- I know, I'm not trendy, but I can not stand the smell
or taste of those wicked spices- and hold the garlic if possible
(yes, it is in almost everything, but it does alter the breath).
With that said, I do like Italian food, American, French, Chinese,
etc. Love anything with lemon or balsamic vinegar. I was brought up
eating out a lot but I can put a dinner on the table and I'm not
opposed to food at a diner.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family/friends/pet(s), Unconditional Love (hugs/kisses), Natural
beautiful surroundings, gentle breezes, tea or decaf coffee while
reading or watching something, something to do (whether a big
project or running an errand)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to resolve any issue or problem. I'm resourceful and pro-active
in getting things done efficiently and beneficially for myself,
family and friends.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dining out, seeing a movie/show or playing Bingo with friends
Catching up with paperwork or errands at home, watching tv are fine
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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The hair color isn't the natural one I was born with, but the curls
You should message me if
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my profile interests you as to what type of person I am (details
can be elaborated on later);
If you come somewhat close to what I described (you don't come made
to order, but it gives you an idea);
you are not looking for a mother figure (too young) or being my
father figure (too old);
you would like to converse and see where it leads
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