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30 South Dartmouth, MA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 21
Straight, Sapiosexual
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am on here mostly looking for friends and interesting conversation. I just got out of a committed relationship, and have no interest in another until I do some work on myself. I am completely down for new friends and hanging out, FWBs, and casual sex, and I might even consider some short term dating. However, my criterion for each thing is different.

Friends? I am looking for open minded, intelligent people that care about the world, and want to have in depth conversations, on basically any topic, nothing is taboo, and there are no physical qualifications.
FWBs? Assuming more than one hookup, you need to be attractive/fit/a little curvy, sexually open minded and interested in exploring new things/getting better in bed. Sex is a skill, and it can be honed, though honest communication is the most important part. I would prefer someone that is also fun to hang out and talk with.

Casual Sex? Once again, attractive/fit or slightly curvy, disease free, always use a condom, preferably down to try new things and experiment.

!!If I message you and you say on your profile you have no interest in FWBs or casual sex, I respect that, I am not going inquire about those things, and have no expectation that your position will change. I am primarily interested in friends, good conversation, and doing interesting things, as I said. !!

Short-term dating? You need to be a combination of the traits listed in Friends and FWBs.

If I message you, it means I read your profile. If we like each other on here, and I don't message you, it is probably because your inbox is full. Please do send me a message if you like me. The worst that can happen is I politely respond that I am not interested. I will definitely respond though.

Now for the rest of my self summary:

Too much and not enough and nowhere in between. I fit no molds and never have. I am interested in bioengineering, sustainability, and robotics. I am interested in public art, composting, and urban gardening. I love giving massages and I make jewelry when I can, mostly from copper and its various alloys. (I just started etching, it is so damn cool! What is even cooler is that you can use the same chemical to reveal the crystal pattern in cast metals as well) I love steampunk and button up vests (my collection has grown rather nicely in the past year). I dance everywhere all the time, especially in line at Chipotle (the guys and gals there love it). I am a fairly physical person (I have done tango, swing (west, east, and lindy), salsa, capoeira, aikido, yoga, taikwando, karate, competitive freestyle mogul skiing) but I don't like the gym ( not sure why, just feels kind of unnatural)

I grew up mostly in Utah (not a Mormon) and Massachusetts, and I used to ski or snowmobile a mile and a half to my car everyday in high school. Gave me a very different idea of what constitutes a difficult commute than most people. I am a nerd and proud of it. I also like to draw. Climbing things is also a lot of fun. I once climbed a wall upside down. I also climbed The Alamo on Astor Place in NYC more than once. I overuse the word 'also'. I once donned ArcAttack's chainmail suit and danced with half a million volt sparks hitting me. That was fun!

I try to be nice to everyone, and am always slow to judge others. That being said, I can also be brutally honest, or tactlessly honest, with others, and inadvertently hurt people's feelings. But I only normally do so because I care. Try to have a sense of humor about anything, and when things get too sad or too serious, my first inclination is to inject some absurdity into the situation and lighten the mood.
I have a tendency to break into random accents, especially quasi British ones, sometimes for hours on end. I also have a tendency to unintentionally mimic the accents of the people I am talking to if their accent is strong enough.
What I’m doing with my life
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I spent the last two years and half doing freelance web design work and moving around the world. Spent the last two months recovering from knee surgery. Now that I have moved back to Massachusetts I am looking for more permanent work while seeking to improve myself in all the areas I am weak and learning new skills. Currently doing various digital design products, learning to program on Android and iOS, teaching myself the basics of neuroscience, and taking a machine learning course while also expanding my web business.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Driving a snowcat, giving massages, skiing. Also being ridiculous, very good at that. Dancing in public and not really giving a damn. Bouncing ideas off of other people and jointly creating new ideas and solving problems. Keeping my cool. Clearing paths, running heavy equipment. Dodging around people. taking things apart and putting them back together.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably that I am dancing. Or my vest. Maybe my smile? When I was younger I used to ask people what their first impression of me was. On a bus ride at age 15 I met a man who assumed I was in art college.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Mars Trilogy by Kim Stanley Robinson (everyone should read these books), Ship of Gold in the Deep Blue Sea, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Nighttime, The Tripod Series, Dragonriders of Pern, Ender's Series by Orson Scott Card, anything Terry Pratchet or Terry Goodkind, The Sandman Series by Neil Gaiman, and so much more. I somewhat obsessively collect electronic books, on pretty much any and all topics. I currently have more books than it is possible to read in a normal human lifetime, and that makes me happy.

Stardust, Princess Bride, Big Hero 6, Guardians of the Galaxy, The Illusionist, The Prestige, Snatch, Lock Stock & Two Smoking Barrels, Team America, Exit Through The Gift Shop, Scott Pilgrim Vs. The World, Serenity, Treasure Planet, Super Troopers, Chitty Chitty Bang Bang, and more

Lie to Me, Castle, Dollhouse, Firefly, Human Target, Doctor WHo, Sherlock, Stargate, Downton Abbey, Sherlock, Elementary, Arrow, Breaking Bad,

Caravan Palace, Skrillex, the Bollox, Mumford and Sons, Cherry Ghost, Arc Attack, Old Crow Medicine Show, Trampled by Turtles, Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros, The Dropkick Murpheys, Flogging Molly, Flobots, Modest Mouse, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Aerosmith, Collective Soul, Led Zeppelin, Noir Desir, Nek, Modena City Ramblers, Imagine Dragons, kind of anything and everything, but especially genre crossovers, like the acoustic version of Heyah.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
music and Dance
Intellectual stimulation
making things
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to get more plants and vegetation into cities. Seriously, can you imagine all the boulevards and rooftops lined with trees and plants, possibly the walls as well? What about aerial foot paths between roof tops, like the Highline in NYC, creating a city wide raised park?

I also think a lot about how to encourage people, specifically children, to get involved in making things and develop an interest in math, science, and technology.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't have one. I like to dance, have fine dinners with good friends, go to movies or events, or maybe just sit in with a book or show. Maybe some midnight kayaking or paddle boarding now I am in Massachusetts.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I once walked from W23rd to Webster Hall in NYC wearing nothing but gold short shorts... in Novemeber.
You should message me if
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You are smart, creative, and looking for interesting conversation. I am willing to talk about ANY topic. If I don't already know something about the topic, I will do research and learn more.

If you find anything about my profile interesting. I wouldn't recommend going on match percentage with me. I have answered waaaay too many of those questions, and did so quite a while ago, so they don't necessarily reflect my current views, opinions or desires. Don't like my position on something but otherwise think we would get along, then ask me for clarification on my answer :)

If you happen to know what BAHfest is.

If you want to dance, or to go hiking, kayaking or biking.
If you know of some crazy little pocket of Massachusetts or Rhode Island that most people don't. I am up for adventures of any sort, or maybe every sort?

If you want a FWB or hookup and you meet the criteria laid out in my summary. I know how to use pretty much every part of my body to make things enjoyable. I am mostly up for anything except pain infliction, verbal degradation games, and I am not going to describe what I want to do to you without a bit of conversation first. In this field, I prefer actions over words, because it can take lot of words to describe a single action, and a short novel to describe everything I would like to do ;).