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earthman_pal

43 / M / straight / Single

Seoul, South Korea

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I am warm hearted, a Scorpio, and adventurous.

My Self-Summary

I wrote this when I was in a strange mood one night---I was up really late and I could not sleep. I was in kind of a manic mood. I should change it. I love the English language, especially novels, but poetry often rushes into my mind. ( I like Robert Frost, Yeats, etc.) I love movies. visual. I have learned that I am fairly good with speaking Chinese. My best friend is from Taiwan. i grew up in Canada. I am self-taught for Chinese. My reading and writing for Chinese is not very good. I have to work on improving that. I lived in China for 2 years. I visited the Great Wall 4 times, the Forbidden City 2X, Tai Mountain 3 times, and so on. I have lived in Korea for 2 years. Young children are interesting Buddhas/teachers to me. They are so funny sometimes....I think that I was Asian in past lives.---maybe...........I enjoy historical places.....ancient temples, palaces, such as GyeongBokGoong.

What I’m doing with my life

I am teaching English, and waiting for a time of in-between-ness to evaporate, fall away from sticking to me, or get knocked away from me, in a powerful energy strike. Witches, please assist. He he he he. I belive in God, but as the philosopher said. The finite mind can not understand the infinite. ( I believe in the Goddess also).

I’m really good at

speaking Chinese( for a Westerner), sometimes, I am funny.........ha ha

giving open people a warm feeling towards life.

being a good friend..................

I am usually good at being myself..........people usually know if I like them or not......................

I am a Jack of all trades, master of none..........I am good at that....ha ha ha ha ha.........

The first things people usually notice about me

stocky body, (as some Scottish lads visiting my home country of Canada said to me: Jesus Christ , Mark, you are
built like a brick shithouse). I was light heavyweight in Judo.

genuinely warm, friendly personality......

curious about life......

a BIG ENERGY

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

( i have many books in Canada, China, and South Korea--but I never force myself to read a good book if I am not in the mood)
I am rereading "The Solace of Open Spaces", by Gretel Ehrlich.
It is nature and autobiography. She is a well educated city gal and chose to live on a ranch in Wyoming. It is beautiful writing. She is a very cool lady.

I like reading about spiritual ideas, from all over the world, especially Taoist philosophy, and connecting to nature.......
Yukio Mishima's "The Confessions of a Mask", I just finished reading "Night" by Elie Wiesel, and "The Da Vinci Code" ---that was a fun read..................I like reading Charles Bukowski sometimes, he is funny, and so down to earth (but somewhat of a misogynist, I know)
The Pursuit of Happyness, many action movies (Jet Li),
comedy, romance,

Korean love story movie-Christmas in August, Akira Kurosawa movies, The Last Emperor, I love Zhang Yi Mou movies....
..........I liked "Dogma" that was clever.
I enjoyed "August Rush".....positive is good........YES MAN---funny, that man is crazy, you know , Jim Carey is Canadian, like me, but America gave him his deserved large audience ! ^^
movies.....I like the Korean food, but I miss Chinese food.....

MUSIC.........................many varieties,pop music, Alternative..
I like "Arvo Part-Te Deum"..................Peter Gabriel....so many kinds of music........

The six things I could never do without

CANADA (my beloved home country)(multi-culturalism)

ASIA

DREAMS (literally and figuratively)

sufficient funds

the BRAIN, the MOST COMPLEX BIOLOGICAL SYSTEM
in existence, (please think about that for a few moments.)

movies, photographs------BOOKSTORES !!! FRIENDS...............

I spend a lot of time thinking about

................................................hmmmmmmmmmmm

On a typical Friday night I am

RESTING............................. or visiting with friends

-- wishing I had more money....

enjoying movies or books..............

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

you know, it is probably the same as it is for most people...........

You should message me if

if you want to.....................duh