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earthyurban

36 Brooklyn, NY Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 31–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:44am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Okay), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Short version: Looking for "hippie heart, athletic body" -- someone health-conscious, outdoorsy, who exercises - family & community oriented, that also has a creative & artistic soul..

I am a writer, in addition to other things I do, so it's pretty essential that you be the thoughtful, deep & reflective type, on some level.

Likes dance music and hiking around, being active outdoors is a plus.

Also, I love languages, I'm good at them, & it would be great to mate/date/relate with people who speak another language. I would love to learn a non-western-european language someday.

Must be willing to consider living outside of NYC, & by that I especially mean somewhere a bit warmer. I'm originally from the South, & I love the sun, so I'd say - a place like Austin, North Carolina, or abroad somewhere... even California, Hawaii or Bali - would be great :)

Me: Have got some entrepreneurial energy & an adventurous spirit going into 2015....

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Truth be told, I'm often home - being quiet, reading/researching on & off the internet, practicing music, working on various projects... spending time outdoors during the day.

But I also enjoy going out & being social here & there... for coffee, tea, yoga, dancing, dinner, wine bar, comedy, jazz, brazilian music, indian music, techno, hiking, biking, sailing, skiing, rooftop parties, traveling, networking - etc.

Definitely want more community in my life, & am working towards creating that.

Am very much into living the healthiest life possible. Obsessed with the outdoors & living 'close to nature'. I love plants, want to learn more about them. I do drink some, but definitely not every day, or even every week/month.

Studied abroad & have traveled internationally in the past. I speak a healthy smattering of the Latin languages.

I've always dreamed of a great romance, & - it's been a long journey, but nowadays am feeling optimistic that it's possible, even probable, to find it...!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working, exercising, working on an online business, getting organized, trying to organize a music practice routine & all-too-often procrastinating on that! Though am getting closer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
:-) smiling - appreciating silence - having deep conversations - being imaginative & silly
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People say I have "beautiful eyes" & "a great smile". I've been told I look young for my age & have "presence". Have been told that I'm always smiling, though I do not necessarily feel like this is the case......... Have been told I'm hard to read, at times... & also 'sweet' :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books: non-fiction mostly
movies: documentary films mostly - though i used to watch a lot of foreign ones
shows: absolutely fabulous
music: brazilian, eastern european, techno, deva premal for yoga - really into above and beyond, 'emotionally intelligent trance' all of a sudden! (as of november 2013)
food: healthy, tonic herbal infusions, green smoothies, interesting fermented goodness - don't worry, I like 'real food' too
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
dark leafy greens
water
sunlight
love/affection
some form of movement meditation (yoga, tai chi, samba, dancing)
a means of self-expression
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
. space . & time.... how not to waste energy, the best way to be in this life, this world...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
maybe staying in, maybe going out... maybe working.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a deeply spiritual person, & have had experiences of 'energy', etc.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
See above. Someone who is funny, challenging, smart, sweet, good-hearted, family-oriented... & also has a sense of the artisanal - ? (I read a story recently about a couple who fell in love contemplating the sediment structure of a bowl of miso...)

Responsible in every area of life. Plans, shows up on time, has good boundaries - that old fashioned stuff is important. Character, I guess is the word. Believes in working on themselves, communicating at a high level.

Wants a relationship with the right person, & to really make it a priority.

Finally, I do well with 'goofy' - ie: a sense of joy, imagination. I've noticed that just talking & talking doesn't cut it for me. At some point in interactions I need to take a break from the talking & just... relax, let go... look around, enjoy the silence... or laugh, play...