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  • Ages 27–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Asian, Pacific Islander
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Hello Ladies,

Let me be different and jump into how I see virtual dating would work for me.

For those with short attention spans(LOL) I'll throw out a

G - Get to know you

D - Dating

R - Relationship (that's if we are solid dating..LOL)

(G)et to know you. Pretty straight foward don't you think. I can tell you about me online but I feel that's more like a resume. I'd like to think of myself as a living breathing person than as words.

(D)ating. To me dating is getting together and getting to know each other in person not the person with a profile on a dating site, cause I like to think you are more than that. Spending time with each other and get a feel of who you are in person. I have no expectations and neither should you but you already have the basics handled like being happy and optimistic great head on her shoulders or uses head and shoulders for her shampoo..J/K, a lady that likes to laugh.

(R)elationship. Ladies, that's why
I put up the Acronyms in order. GDR. If we have the first two fall into place then it's possible to move to the Relationship. See there's a method to my madness.

I would tell you more - but it I'll stick with my GUNS and stay with the first part of my crazy acronym.


Couldn't help using the Acronyms...We use so many here at work it filtered to my dating profile. Oh Nooo!!

Don't be shy - let's get to know each other and meet in person and not this virtual world and lets see if we "connect"


What I’m doing with my life
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Living it!!!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being Optimistic
Night Owl...until it turns midnight then I turn into a pumpkin :)
Listening to people
Low Key
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm quiet. You know what they say about the quiet ones! Haha. Kidding aside I'm a introvert INFJ. Famous INFJ's - Martin Luther King Jr., Nelson Mandela, Mother Teresa, LOL Mel "f'ing" Gibson. I got it from this site so it has to be true like everything else on the internet...LOL
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Last ones I read were non-fiction war stories like Marine Sniper and House to House.

Movies - Don't really go now a days but I do like hanging out with my Niece when a cool Disney Film is showing. Last one we saw was Despicable 2. Saw this awesome movie - THE SESSIONS. Here's the trailer. Great Movie shot here in the bay area. Oh and for you Cal Bear alums he went to UC Berkley. "GO BEARS!" Now can I get "BEAR HUG?" J/K

Shows - Haven't been to any lately. Last one was I saw was Avenue Q. Saw Miss Saigon in London long long time ago, in a galaxy far far away...Oh and saw Paul McCarthy play at ATT park.

TV Shows - The Wire, Boardwalk Empire, Sons of Anarchy, Breaking Bad (still catching up), Game of Thrones, Walking Dead, Start Trek DS9 and Voyager.

Music - Salsa/Mambo/Boogaloo, Different genres of House/Deep House (not to be confused with EDM), Jazz and Jazz standards, Soul, R&B, Old School Hip Hop, Top 40.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

Body Movement as it applies to Dance, Self Defense Training, and how humans move.

Stopping myself to be in the present.

Thinking about the quote "Understand the rules before you break them."

Thinking about concepts/thoughts like above and how they apply to the bigger picture and life. A philologist - you know a pretender of philosophy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You'll find me relaxing after a work week. When the weather is great go to Off the Grid and eat here in Oakland or at Fort Mason in SF or dancing Salsa at a monthly dance social.
You should message me if
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-Looking to hang out and grab a bite to eat at Off the Grid depending on the weather.
-laid back and fun
-Getting together and know more about each other (in person)
-Being Spontaneous like streaking in the middle of the night J/K. Maybe a small Road trip or a hike in the Marin Headlands on a sunny day.
-A sense of Humor.
-A cutie from Hawaii and want to go on a date. JK - I was there 2/27 - 3/2. Loved Ohau, gotta go back soon!!!