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40 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 27–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Asian, Pacific Islander
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
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My self-summary
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Hello Ladies,

Let me be different and jump into how I see virtual dating would work for me.

For those with short attention spans(LOL) I'll throw out a

G - Get to know you

D - Dating

R - Relationship (that's if we are solid dating..LOL)

(G)et to know you. Pretty straight foward don't you think. I can tell you about me online but I feel that's more like a resume. I'd like to think of myself as a living breathing person than as words.

(D)ating. To me dating is getting together and getting to know each other in person not the person with a profile on a dating site, cause I like to think you are more than that. Spending time with each other and get a feel of who you are in person. I have no expectations and neither should you but you already have the basics handled like being happy and optimistic great head on her shoulders or uses head and shoulders for her shampoo..J/K, a lady that likes to laugh.

(R)elationship. Ladies, that's why
I put up the Acronyms in order. GDR. If we have the first two fall into place then it's possible to move to the Relationship. See there's a method to my madness.

I would tell you more - but it I'll stick with my GUNS and stay with the first part of my crazy acronym.


Couldn't help using the Acronyms...LOL I got the idea from work. Ladies if your company does that too then you'd understand...Haha

Don't be shy - let's get to know each other and meet in person and not this virtual world and lets see if we "connect"


What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it!!!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being Optimistic


Night Owl...until it turns midnight then I turn into a pumpkin :)

Great Listner
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I look slimmer when they last saw me. I do keep in shape by being active like self defense training once a week and salsa dancing two to three times a week.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Last ones I read were non-fiction war stories like Marine Sniper and House to House.

Movies - Don't really go now a days but I do like hanging out with my Niece when a cool Disney Film is showing. Favorite one we saw was Despicable 2. Update 9.10.2013 Saw this awesome movie - THE SESSIONS. Here's the trailer

Shows - Haven't been to any lately. Last one was probably 2 years ago. Saw Avenue Q. Saw Miss Saigon in London long long time ago, in a galaxy far far away...

Music - House, Soul, R&B, Old School Hip Hop, Love the radio selections on iTunes. Pretty much everything. I'm open and if I don't like or doesn't move me, just change channels. That's why we have fingers..LOL But right now feel like singing...

I don't care who you are
Where you're from
What you did
As long as you love me

Glimpse of Randomness, yup that's me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The BE DO HAVE principle

Why the prettiest people do the ugliest of things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You'll find me relaxing after a work week. When the weather is great go to Off the Grid and eat eat eat here in Oakland or at Fort Mason in SF.
You should message me if
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-Looking to hang out maybe go to Off the Grid depending on the weather.
-laid back and fun
-Getting together and know more about each other (in person)
-Being Spontaneous like streaking in the middle of the night J/K. Maybe a small Road trip or a hike in the Marin Headlands on a sunny day.
-A sense of Humor.