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eastbay_510m

40 Oakland, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 27
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian, Pacific Islander
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Scorpio
Education
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello Ladies,

Let me be different and jump into how I see virtual dating would work for me.

For those with short attention spans(LOL) I'll throw out a
Acronym.

G - Get to know you

D - Dating

R - Relationship (that's if we are solid dating..LOL)

(G)et to know you. Pretty straight foward don't you think. I can tell you about me online but I feel that's more like a resume. I'd like to think of myself as a living breathing person than as words.

(D)ating. To me dating is getting together and getting to know each other in person not the person with a profile on a dating site, cause I like to think you are more than that. Spending time with each other and get a feel of who you are in person. I have no expectations and neither should you but you already have the basics handled like being happy and optimistic great head on her shoulders or uses head and shoulders for her shampoo..J/K, a lady that likes to laugh.

(R)elationship. Ladies, that's why
I put up the Acronyms in order. GDR. If we have the first two fall into place then it's possible to move to the Relationship. See there's a method to my madness.

I would tell you more - but it I'll stick with my GUNS and stay with the first part of my crazy acronym.

"(G)ET TO KNOW YOU..."

Couldn't help using the Acronyms...LOL I got the idea from work.

Don't be shy - let's get to know each other and meet in person and not this virtual world and lets see if we "connect"

Signed

-Me
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it!!!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being Optimistic

Happy

Night Owl...until it turns midnight then I turn into a pumpkin :)

Listening to people
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I look slimmer when they last saw me. I do keep in shape by being active like self defense training once a week and salsa dancing two to three times a week. But meh, I'm not rocking a six pack more like a keg. LOL
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books - Last ones I read were non-fiction war stories like Marine Sniper and House to House.

Movies - Don't really go now a days but I do like hanging out with my Niece when a cool Disney Film is showing. Favorite one we saw was Despicable 2. Saw this awesome movie - THE SESSIONS. Here's the trailer. Great Movie shot here in the bay area. Oh and for you Cal Bear alums he went to UC Berkley. "GO BEARS!" Now can I get "BEAR HUG?" J/K

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zymGiLJBpB8

Shows - Haven't been to any lately. Last one was I saw was Avenue Q. Saw Miss Saigon in London long long time ago, in a galaxy far far away...Oh and saw Paul McCarthy play at ATT park.

TV Shows - The Wire, Boardwalk Empire, Sons of Anarchy, Breaking Bad (still catching up), Game of Thrones, Start Trek DS9 and Voyager.

Music - Salsa/Boogaloo, House, Soul, R&B, Old School Hip Hop, Top 40, Love the music selections on Pandora. Pretty much everything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family
Water
Food
Shelter
Music
Dance
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
BE DO HAVE

Body Movement as it applies to Dance, Self Defense Training, and how humans move.

Stopping myself to be in the present.

Thinking about the quote "Understand the rules before you break them."

Thinking about concepts/thoughts like above and how they apply to the bigger picture and life. A philologist - you know a pretender of philosophy. LOL
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You'll find me relaxing after a work week. When the weather is great go to Off the Grid and eat here in Oakland or at Fort Mason in SF or dancing Salsa at a monthly dance social.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-Looking to hang out maybe go to Off the Grid depending on the weather.
-laid back and fun
-Getting together and know more about each other (in person)
-Being Spontaneous like streaking in the middle of the night J/K. Maybe a small Road trip or a hike in the Marin Headlands on a sunny day.
-A sense of Humor.