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34 / M / Straight / Single
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- Graduated from university
- Relationship Type
- English (Okay)
2) Creative expression: I sometimes express myself through photography, but usually I express myself through words. I like to create solutions to problems. This is different than intellectual stimulation, which is when the world teaches me something new. By "creative expression", I mean that I like to find ways to make the world better. I used to believe that if I had a solution, but nobody listened to my idea, then I had "failed." When a tree falls in a forest and no one is there, however, it does make a sound. When I realized that the tree makes a sound, I realized that I love creative expression just for the process, and it is not necessary that anyone else agrees with me.
3) Regular access to bathing, with hot water. (Also on my original list.) I am always in a better mood if I have time to take a hot bath in the morning. Besides feeling better physically, a bath/shower is my time to meditate and feel better emotionally.
4) Back scratches. Seriously. Wooden backscratchers don't count. The back scratches have to be sincere--not necessarily sexual--just sincere. (In fact, back scratches are rarely sexual for me.)
5) Good food) I hated the food in China, and there were countries I loved the food more than other countries (e.g., France = great). Right now I live in a gourmet desert, and it is stressful, so I guess good food. But, if we need to be more specific, then: meat. And if you want even more specific, then: bacon. I love bacon. (No, I didn't carry bacon in my backpack.)
6) Sexual intimacy. I don't mean just sex. I would not be happy if I only had sex but never had a connection with my partner. Sex can be a purely physical act, but great sex requires some sort of emotional connection or intimacy.
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If you are my soulmate send me a long message about you (not a few sentences) message can be english or turkish.
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