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27 M Rochester, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:25pm
Asian, White
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), French (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I had this idea in mind of what I'd like:
You'll call me out when I'm being lazy and tell me to get off my butt if I want the laundry done
I'll call you out when you're being lazy and tell you to get off your butt if you want the laundry done
We both reserve the right to be lazy if we want to (but not always -- I mean come on)

We'll hang out and have a nice time being lazy and cuddle on a couch, doing anything or nothing because it doesn't really matter that much, right? An exchange happens:
One of us breaks: "Alright, well the laundry's not going to do itself, so I guess I've got it."
"Ahhh crap. Well, I can't let you do it alone..."
"Laundry isn't really a two person job... what *exactly* did you have in mind that you were actually going to... ya know, *do*?"
"Uhhhh..." - An awkward bit of confused face. Try to force an adorable grin, hopefully packed with enough innocence to pass?
"Okay, well, you can get out of the way now." A smile in return.
"I think I'll go do the laundry."
"Well, damn! Looks like it'll do itself after all! I think I'll wish for it to dry and fold itself next!"
"Don't push your luck."

Personality type: INFJ
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a trainer and manager in the customer support department of a major video game publisher. Getting here has taken some hurdles, but I'm pretty happy where I am right now.

I spend every Saturday with my friends in search of the next new and fun adventure - a taste of art at a gallery, a taste of wine or beer - whatever random thing sends the last week off and welcomes the new one! That is, once we're done recovering on Sunday... haha. Outside of work, I just want to see what else I can carve out of life and live it.
I’m really good at
singing. Everyone has heard better, but I'm good at what I do. I still can't stand the sound of my own recorded voice, though. I have acquired a guitar, but I am not so good with it yet. Someday...

paying attention to detail. I seem to remember a lot of things that aren't necessary. It's weird, but comes in handy sometimes.

remembering things. I don't want to confuse this with saying I have a good memory, though I'm not quite sure how to make the distinction

The first things people usually notice about me
I'm generally louder? My voice just carries very well, I don't mean to be
People usually notice that there's something "not quite white" about me. I have a shade of yellow because I'm half Thai. Not quite white. Haha, see what I did there?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: What Dreams May Come, Big Fish, 50 First Dates, Soldier, Iron Man, The Hangover, The Waterboy, Moulin Rouge, How to Train Your Dragon, Tangled, Up, I am Legend, Zombieland
Books: The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Here Comes Your Man (my cousin wrote it, love it)
Shows: The Walking Dead, Modern Family, Parks & Recreation, The Office, Scrubs, Continuum, Orange is the New Black
Music: My most favored stuff consists of artists that fit my voice set (so I can sing it!): John Mayer, Jason Mraz, Death Cab for Cutie, The Script, Yellowcard, Lindsey Stirling, Boyce Avenue, Peter Hollens, Mat Kearney
Games: I love story/character driven games like Mass Effect, Dragon Age, The Witcher 2, The Walking Dead, Skyrim, Assassin's Creed, Tomb Raider - but my roots go back to Mario (even though I preferred Luigi) and TMNT. Yeah, old school :)
The six things I could never do without
All those things that are required for high level functionality (oxygen, food, water, shelter, sleep, etc). Yeah, that counts as one.
My phone, only because it guarantees I have music

I like to think I can get by with just that.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
who I am, who I want to be, how can I get there, am I getting there?
why I do things
why other people do things
whether I've done the right thing

if chivalry is dead, who killed it?
On a typical Friday night I am
recovering from the work week - have a beer, throw something on Netflix, maybe toss up some music and sing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I still have and occasionally use a deadjournal.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–29
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
- you're ultimately looking for a fellow adventurer
- a guy having things together (stable job, own place, own car) is appealing to you
- you want to know a good guy, want to have a conversation, and have a certain appreciation for proper grammar, spelling, etc.
- you have an appreciation for nerdy things and a love for music. Points for being able to sing!
- you got to this point without skipping and you're still like, "whoa, COOOOOOL!" - or something less dramatic and still positive :)