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eatenhigh

31 / M / straight / Available

Richmond, Virginia

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White, Other, Undeclared
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
—
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
—
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Hospitality / Travel
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Poorly)

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My Self-Summary

I'm usually kind of shy when i first meet someone, and have a tendency not to speak unless spoken too. I'm trying to fight this and be more extroverted, because one night I was sitting down at the bar and i don't remember how the conversation started, but it concluded with the realization that if every one spoke only when spoken too, it'd be a very quiet world and we'd all have a tendency to think no one liked anyone else.
I sometimes hold grudges against people until they do something to make amends on their end, I'm not sure if this is wrong of me to be that way, but who wants to always be treated badly by someone? I am very forgiving though once someone has changed what they did.

I try to be humble, and it really embarrasses me when i do something good and people talk about it.

What I’m doing with my life

I have a regular job in a small restraint/bar. I also work for my self-painting, but not a lot of people are really buying right now. I've decided i will do at least one new painting a day anyway.

I like walking especially in the parks if I can get someplace walking I'd rather do that than save 15 minutes by driving. It leads more time to enjoy the journey.

I’m really good at

I'm a good listener if you can catch my attention. I’m good at making a fool of myself for the enjoyment of everyone.
I'm not good with spelling.

I'm bad at giving up.

The first things people usually notice about me

My beard, my hair, and the fact that I'm in my own world.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Lately i have been trying to read every thing Philip K. Dick wrote, in his writing he'd combine human drama, comedy, with a science fiction twist, and a little bit of action for extra measure. even though he died over a quarter century ago, the dialog in his stories reads like something your closest friends might say even now.

I watched "Meat Balls" the other day and I came to the realization that I really love Bill Murray in every thing I've ever seen him in.

Van Halen picks me up when I'm feeling down.

I like pretty much every food, I even tried a dog biscuit once that was mighty fine!

The six things I could never do without

I think I could deprive myself of a great deal and still be alright.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How to make myself a better person. I don't understand why some people don't seam happy with themselves, but don't put forth the effort to improve themselves either. What am I missing?
How I can do what is both practical and ethical at the same time.

On a typical Friday night I am

making fat cash

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm one of the few people who that still doesn't have a cellphone, and I don't want one either.

You should message me if

You could use a friend, and want to be mine.

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