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  • Ages 35-50
  • Near me
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My details

Last online
Nov 15
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Other but it’s not important
Post grad
Has kid(s) and might want more
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I grew up on the east coast (NY) and went to college in the middle of the country (Iowa). I love the bay area but miss New England's seasons - the smells and colors - wood smoke, apple picking and maple syrup candy. These crazy snow storms are making me super nostalgic.

I've seen a tornado and been through the eye of a hurricane.
I've floated on my back in the Dead Sea and watched the full moon rise above the hills of Jordan to the east (magnificent) only to have the experience interrupted by 4 IAF F-18s split the air above my head.

In the summer of 1977 my Dad and I were on the Long Island Railroad on our way to a Mets game when the great blackout hit. NYC shut down for three days. It was really hot on that train.

I remain to this day a pretty intense baseball fan (A's).

I'm getting back into skiing a finally bought a Tahoe season pass.

I hate the sound of mosquitoes buzzing around my room.

Eggplant makes my mouth feel prickly but I love babaganush.

I've mountain biked Nepal and Sri Lanka. I've been all over Europe, to Israel, New Zealand (2x) and to 48 states - all but but Alaska and N. Dakota.

I appreciate BRC as much for forcing me to shut down all electronics for a week as I love it for its self expression and the kindred spirits in my 40 person camp.

At 24 I drove from Key West to San Francisco in 45 hours (accompanied). Beaumont, Texas is an awfully long way from El Paso, Texas.

As for you:

You're a slightly goofy hopeless idealist cemented in realism.

You feel deeply and strongly about things. You have strong opinions and a passion for *something*. You want to share - to teach (me). You're creative and a little edgy. I love self-expression. Be comfortable in silence. Be comfortable being open and present.

Once in a while be comfortable eating with your hands. Once in a while be comfortable eating your own words.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being a dad.

Trying to figure out why my garage door opener is always on the fritz.

I work in technology. Most days I love what I do and get to work with a lot of really cool people. I spent six years working for a non-profit but succumbed to bills and such.

A few days a week run through the woods behind my house for meditation as much as anything else.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Admitting when I've screwed up.

Making people feel at ease - especially kids which is just as well.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've never taken a poll.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Kurt Vonnegut, John Coetzee, Jhumpa Lahiri, Michael Chabon, Jonathan Franzen. Dave Eggers.

I just discovered Keith Richards is good at this too.

I like physical books - the smell of ink. A bookmark.

Movies: John Hughes, Monty Python, Coen Brothers and Wes Anderson. I binge on Netflix.

I've gotten really good at going to the movies by myself - especially when it's to a little place by my house where I can sit on a couch and eat pizza.

Music: snippets - Led Zeppelin. Iron and Wine. Pearl Jam. Nick Drake. M. Ward. The Pixies. the Rolling Stones. U2. Smashing Pumpkins. The Beastie Boys.

Whenever I buy tickets to a show I buy at least 2 with no idea who I'm going to drum up. I figure I'll find someone.

Food? I have no idea what to do with this on account of the fact that I love food. I very much dig cheese, will kill for good fried chicken and love grilled asparagus. Mmmm - sushi.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Disclaimer: My kids aren't on this list. It would be akin to saying I couldn't live without my brain or heart. So here are 6 things I'd really rather not do without:

My pillow - I get all screwed up if I have to sleep in a hotel without it. Sleeping in a tent is a different story.

Good food.

the internet (yep. It's got something to do with my job. Besides, how would I check my OKC account without it?!)

My contacts/glasses

My amazing pack of friends

...ellipses, parentheses and other parenthetical forms - especially dashes.

(Not withstanding the brain, my heart and my kids.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to spend my stock-pile of frequent flier miles.

what I want to be when I grow up...
oh yeah, right...

Why I don't have any halfway decent pictures of myself.

Where you are (for real).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It's Friday night so I better figure this out lickety-split. It will probably involve my pack of friends, a pub, beer and Yahtzee. At least that's what's been happening for the last few weeks (when I'm on parenting hiatus).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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There's lots to admit in private but for now you'll have to be satisfied with this:

I absolutely suck at parallel parking. It's endlessly frustrating. How effing emasculating is that?!
You should message me if
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Message me if you want to get together and chat about this, that and the other thing while sizing each other up.