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23 London, UK Gender Nonconforming, Man

Gender Nonconforming, Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–27
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:31pm
5′ 2″ (1.58m)
Body type
Mostly kosher
Judaism, and laughing about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello there, my name is Jack Oliver Aaron (abbreviate to "Jack" for ease of use).

Click here for a video questionnaire, wherein I talk about myself for over half an hour so that people from my online typology group can assess my personality.

If that sounds tiresome, I have written a very long profile for you to read instead:

I would say I'm a rather alien/abnormal/unusual/idiosyncratic sort of person. In fact there is little about me that I can say is normal other than my chromosome count... I think.

I am a philosopher, actor, singer, film-maker, socionist and HTML geek extraordinaire!

My favourite activities include listening to classical music/opera, performing arts, entering Wikipedia and going wherever the interesting buttons take me, bursting into song at inappropriate moments, entering into heated debates and niggling both sides with a smugly calm (calmly smug?) look on my face.

My Life History... WARNING - candid!!!

Began with blood and screaming and agony and some sharp scissors snipping my umbilical cord.... then the foreskin a few days later.

Progressed with helplessness, shame, insufficiency, intimidation, fixation, deprivation, education, paternalism and all the privileges a middle-class, Ashkenazi Jewish boy with mild dyspraxia can enjoy.

Tried religion... became an arsehole as a result.

Reached a turning point around 19 where I proceeded to cast out all virtues, ideals and beliefs from myself. Farewell Justice, farewell Compassion, farewell Humility, farewell Faith.... HELLO Egoism!!! MWAHAHA!!! Ironically, this caused me to become a much nicer person. No longer would I bother everyone with rigid principles and antisocial morality or a 'holier than thou' attitude.

I have taken many personality assessments over the years. The results have been compiled below...

For the Psychometrics and Astrology (I don't hold much weight in Star Signs but meh...) buffs out there, I am a Rational, Sanguine, Libran (NOTHING LIKE A LIBRAN!!! Should have been Aquarius...but the Sagittarius Ascendant fits), Metal Sheep that is, 100% Open, 4% Conscientious, 93% Extraverted, 15% Agreeable, 0% Neurotic, Egocentric SCUEI, 7w8-8w7-3w4 sp/sx ENTP Visionary, Intuitive-Logical Extrovert (ILE) of the Intuitive Subtype and has a score of 32 on the NPI and 30 on the PCL-R while possessing a Chaotic Evil alignment in Dungeons and Dragons and adopting an Unengaged, Laissez-Faire, Individualistic, Militaristic (ULIM a.k.a. Interventionist Libertarian) political stance, verging on Anarcho-Capitalism. I also have a Verbal IQ in the 99.9th percentile.

Perhaps the most important of these to me is being an Intuitive-Logical Extrovert in a theory called Socionics. It's a theory of personality and social dynamics that I am trying to make more well known in the West. The type profiles also describes me pretty well.

This one is more technical:
Portrait of an ILE

This one is more anecdotal:
A more casual description of an ILE
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Now I've just finished University, studying Philosophy at UCL an. My sister amybecca18 also goes to UCL.

Currently, I'm just waiting for my exam results to come through so that I can go and do a conversion to Psychology to help with my planned career.

I'm also busy running an online Socionics community as well as regular meetups in London.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm Intuitive

This means that I am best with concepts and the imagination, possibilities and potential. If it's abstract or theoretical then it's something I can easily grasp and talk about. I'm good at grabbing the big picture and speaking generally about topics.

As a result, details, day to day things, practical tasks and the like are draining for me. I can often forget to eat or sleep because I'm up doing interesting things. Self-discipline is something lacking too. I procrastinate and focus on the interesting, neglecting the boring.

I'm Logical

This means that I'm good with systems and structures, understanding how things work, naturally analysing and making sense of the things around me. It makes me good at explaining complex things to people in concise ways that they can understand.

As a result, I'm not nearly as good with the subjective. Often I can understand something but not come to an emotional opinion on the matter. Also, I'm not as good at instinctively knowing how other people are feeling towards me without them saying so. I might also say inappropriate things even with the best intentions.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The height (or lack thereof), the clothes (they're often colourful), the Micro Scooter I ride around London, the backpack with an old laptop in it, the hat on my head.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Intellectual Stimulation.
A logical explanation.
Humour (not the jelly in your eyeball).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My exploration into normative and metaphysical philosophy, how to spread my message of Egoism to the people.

What people's personality types are.

Why people don't reply to me very often on here.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Normally in, surfing the net. Occasionally having a philosophical debate with a friend on Skype.

Friday night is usually the family night of the week with all its usual bickering. Occasionally I get to escape though.

Other times, I go out to parties or clubbing with my friends and challenge other people to dancing duels resulting in me nearly being thrown out the club. I don't actually like clubbing and prefer it in once-a-year doses.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'd best keep my mouth shut for this... I'd admit anything if asked :)

Alright, if you want to find all my dirty little secrets, check me out on
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think I'm weird... in a good way :)

For Romance
You are the Yin to my Yang... More specifically, one of these:
Portrait of an SEI

Essentially what I'm looking for is someone who can cover my weak points. I need someone who is developed in the following ways:

Someone who possesses a strong sense of aesthetic, knowing how to cultivate a beautiful space and a relaxing atmosphere and perceptive to the point of knowing when I'm tired or hungry and understanding how to appease those problems. Practical skills such as cooking would be much appreciated!

Someone who is friendly, emotionally bright and socially diplomatic, who can smooth over disputes and keep people content and happy.

Someone who is relaxed and comfortable going with the flow, who is non-judgmental and who can adapt and support the spontaneous whims of another.

For Friendship
We are over 70% in similarity.