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38 • Chicago, IL • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 16
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Other, and laughing about it
- Graduated from masters program
- Banking / Finance
- English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), C++ (Okay)
I am adventurous, others call me crazy. I will try anything at least once. I may not like it, but at least I would know for sure. I read books... (although not as much as I like to). I don't own a Kindle or an IPad, I tried sky dive before (best experience in the world), I swam in the red sea, watched sun rise on Mt. Sinai and sunset over the Great pyramid. If Iraq wasn't a war zone? I would be there to see what the oldest civilization have left us. I've been to 12 countries so far. I try, often fail to go to a different country every year on average, due to financial and time constraint. Yeah... work gets in the way of everything.
When I am not working and saving money for my next trip, I practice Aikido and Katori, I workout, I don't really like it, but I have to stay fit for my next trip.
politically, I don't know what I am. I think we call it independent, which means I agree with the right on some issues, and I agree with the left on some issues. I think the problem with current political party is, the left wants its followers to disagree with everything on the right and the right wants its followers to disagree with everything on the left (The my way or the highway problem), and that is screwing everyone.
Why am I here?? Mostly to meet new friends, between working and practice martial arts and sleep (I don't function well with a lot of sleep, who knew!!), I really don't have a whole lot of time meet new people.
I read, workout, practice Martial Arts (Aikido and Katori). I travel, I try, often fail because of financial reasons, to get to average one different country per year.
I am a little obsessed about TED conference webcast right now. I wish the world leaders are listen to these people.
Also I am obsessed about chess. When other surf the web during lunch hour, I play chess. I think I will get fired one day because of that even though I think I waste less time on chess than some people surfing the web....
I am fairly good at cooking, mostly Chinese food. I follow the recipe book the first time usually, but often make my own addition/subtractions later.
Besides that, I know a lot of things about a lot of random subjects.
Music: pretty much anything I am in the mood for.
Movies: By far God father I and II are my favorite movies. Office Space (I have gained a whole new level of appreciation about this movie after I started working in a cubical), Notebook, a timetraveler's wife (Yes, I watch chick flick sometimes)
Friends... I need my friends to play poker with.
Food... I really like to eat.
NPR... What can I say... The only good thing on radio
My glasses... If you are nearsighted, you know what I am talking about.
Travel... We are not meant to stay in one place...
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