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27 San Francisco, CA Androgynous, Non-binary, Trans Woman

Androgynous, Non-binary, Trans Woman

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 7:57pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Trans, geeky, andro/femme, non-binary-ish. Relationship anarch. Lots of hair dye.

My dance card is fairly full in terms of romance and lovers, but I still enjoy dating and meeting new people.
What I’m doing with my life
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I moved here three years ago to join a startup after spending several years researching a neurodegenerative disease in a lab.

Since then, I've really just been enjoying everything that the bay area has to offer: brilliant, interesting people, amazing food, and incredible places to explore and hike.

My interests seem to alternate between building things (typically with software) and picking up random, odd new skills.

TL;DR cuddling with cute people and getting excited about extremely nerdy things
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I've been playing piano for a very long time, and have practiced kenpo, aikido and modern arnis.

I'm pretty solid at video games and anything logic-heavy (lately I've been playing a lot of Hearthstone).

Math. Science. Incomplete sentences. Being what's wrong with America.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Snow Crash, Musashi, The Song of the Lioness Quartet (really anything by Tamora Pierce), 1984, A Clockwork Orange, Piers Anthony novels, Ray Bradbury novels, Lloyd Alexander novels, Of Mice and Men, Jennifer Government, The Great Gatsby, The Phantom Tollbooth, The Selfish Gene.

Lately I've been reading far more non-fiction - books on software design and language, history, globalization/economics/politics etc. Chomsky is amazing <3

I tried to get into Murakami, since everyone seems to list him :\ only made it halfway through Wind-Up Bird, though maybe it's just not great commute material.

Pan's Labyrinth, Lawrence of Arabia, Good Will Hunting, Gattaca, Equilibrium, The Godfather (I + II), Princess Mononoke, Kill Bill (I + II), The Matrix, Blade Runner, The Princess Bride, Birdman, Zoolander.

Adventure Time, Firefly, Avatar, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, South Park, Futurama, Black Books, Doctor Who, MST3k, DS9, Voyager, Venture Bros, Arrested Development, The Wire

Legend of the Galactic Heroes, Kill La Kill, Madoka Magica, Trigun, Death Note, Higurashi no Naku Koro ni, Sailor Moon.

Ben Folds, Nine Inch Nails, The Cure, Anamanaguchi, Elliott Smith, Imogen Heap, The Shins, Death Cab for Cutie, Pendulum, Billy Joel, Deadmau5, Madeon, Zedd, She, Radiohead, Daft Punk, Pink Floyd, Nujabes, My Chemical Romance, DJ Okawari

Earthbound, Lufia 2, Chrono Trigger - pretty much the all the standard awesome SNES RPGs. Weird Japanese nonsense like Goemon or Mister Mosquito. Cave Story, Digital: A Love Story, Braid. Hideo Kojima stuff like Snatcher or Metal Gear Solid.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a fast internet connection
dolores park
a constant exposure to new ideas
black leather
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Queer theory. Evolutionary theory. Biology. Kinky sex. Privilege, gentrification and income inequality. Smashing the patriarchy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the gym, then either at a party or at home unwinding.
You should message me if
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You identify as an intellectual, queer, and/or an autodidact.