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27 San Francisco, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Trans, geeky, kinky, femme

I'm mostly non-monogamous, but love emotional intimacy as much as physical.

Queer, not bi.
What I’m doing with my life
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I moved here from the east coast to flail on computer keyboards after several years of removing brains from rats in a neuroscience lab.

Since then, I've really just been enjoying everything that the bay area has to offer: brilliant, interesting people, amazing food, and incredible places to explore and hike.

My interests seem to alternate between building things (typically with software) and picking up random, odd new skills. I'm getting surprisingly competent with a bullwhip.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I've been playing piano for a very long time, and have practiced kenpo, aikido and filipino stick and knife fighting.

I'm pretty solid at video games and anything logic-heavy (lately I've been playing a lot of Hearthstone).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Snow Crash, Musashi, The Song of the Lioness Quartet, 1984, A Clockwork Orange, Piers Anthony novels, Ray Bradbury novels, Lloyd Alexander novels, Of Mice and Men, Jennifer Government, The Great Gatsby, The Phantom Tollbooth, The Selfish Gene.

But also a ton of non-fiction stuff - lots of books on software design and language, and I love good biographies (Steve Jobs, Angler: The Cheney Vice Presidency, and Masters of Doom, about id software).

Pan's Labyrinth, Lawrence of Arabia, Good Will Hunting, Gattaca, Equilibrium, The Godfather (I + II), Princess Mononoke, Kill Bill (I + II), The Matrix, Blade Runner, The Princess Bride.

Adventure Time, Firefly, Avatar, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, South Park, Futurama, Black Books, Doctor Who, MST3k, DS9, Voyager, Venture Bros, Arrested Development, The Wire

Legend of the Galactic Heroes, Kill La Kill, Madoka Magica, Trigun, Death Note, Higurashi no Naku Koro ni, Sailor Moon.

Ben Folds, Nine Inch Nails, The Cure, Anamanaguchi, Elliott Smith, Imogen Heap, The Shins, Death Cab for Cutie, Pendulum, Billy Joel, Deadmau5, Madeon, Zedd, She, Radiohead, Daft Punk, Pink Floyd, Nujabes, My Chemical Romance, DJ Okawari

Earthbound, Lufia 2, Chrono Trigger - pretty much the all the standard awesome SNES RPGs. Mystical Ninja Starring Goemon. Cave Story, Digital: A Love Story, Braid. Hideo Kojima stuff like Snatcher or Metal Gear Solid.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a fast internet connection
dolores park
a constant exposure to new ideas
faux leather
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Queer theory. Evolutionary theory. Biology. Kinky sex. Social Issues. Where to get brunch this weekend.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing games, spending time with friends, out at an event, or quietly reading.
You should message me if
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If you're jwz or John Carmack.

But seriously, I love meeting new and interesting people - feel free to message me (preferably with something longer than a word), though my dance card is a bit full at times.

I'm always interested in intellectuals, queer people and autodidacts.