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28 San Francisco, CA Androgynous, Non-binary, Trans Woman

Androgynous, Non-binary, Trans Woman

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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 12:07am
Queer, Pansexual, Sapiosexual
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Trans, geeky, switchy, andro/femme, non-binary-ish. Relationship anarch. Lots of hair dye.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I accidentally ended up here a few years ago on the way to grad school after spending several years researching a neurodegenerative disease in a lab. I've been working for various startups as a software engineer ever since.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I've been playing piano for a very long time, and have practiced kenpo, aikido and modern arnis.

I'm pretty solid at video games and anything logic-heavy (I'm consistently in the top 1-2% of ranked hearthstone players).

Math. Science. Disregarding social folkways. Being what's wrong with America. Incomplete sentences.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Snow Crash, Musashi, The Song of the Lioness Quartet (really anything by Tamora Pierce), 1984, A Clockwork Orange, Piers Anthony novels, Ray Bradbury novels, Lloyd Alexander novels, Of Mice and Men, Jennifer Government, The Great Gatsby, The Phantom Tollbooth, The Selfish Gene, Whipping Girl, Practical Object Oriented Design in Ruby.

Lately I've been reading far more non-fiction - books on software design and language, history, globalization/economics/politics etc. Chomsky is amazing (Manufacturing Consent blew my mind).

Pan's Labyrinth, Lawrence of Arabia, Good Will Hunting, Gattaca, Equilibrium, The Godfather (I + II), Princess Mononoke, Kill Bill (I + II), The Matrix, Blade Runner, Ghost in the Shell, The Princess Bride, Birdman, Zoolander.

Steven Universe, House of Cards, Firefly, Avatar, The Daily Show, South Park, Futurama, Black Books, Doctor Who, MST3k, DS9, Voyager, Venture Bros, Arrested Development, The Wire

Legend of the Galactic Heroes, Kill La Kill, Madoka Magica, Trigun, Death Note, Higurashi no Naku Koro ni, Sailor Moon.

Ben Folds, Nine Inch Nails, The Cure, Anamanaguchi, Elliott Smith, Imogen Heap, The Shins, Death Cab for Cutie, Pendulum, Billy Joel, Deadmau5, Madeon, Zedd, She, Radiohead, Daft Punk, Pink Floyd, Nujabes, My Chemical Romance, DJ Okawari

Earthbound, Lufia 2, Chrono Trigger - pretty much the all the standard awesome SNES RPGs. Weird Japanese nonsense like Goemon or Mister Mosquito. Cave Story, Digital: A Love Story, Braid. Hideo Kojima stuff like Snatcher or Metal Gear Solid.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
consent, anti-androgens, sisterhood, empiricism, cuddling, the internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
gaming/esports/speedrunning, lgbt stuff, nootropics, science, programming
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a party, cuddling someone, or obsessively coding.
You should message me if
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You identify as an intellectual, queer, kinky, and/or an autodidact, and are in the bay area.

You want to play board games or some pen and paper.

I'm generally kind of shy to reach out to people, so feel free to contact me.