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echoes613

34 M Amityville, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:00pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey, hey, hi there...

Let me start by saying I will read your profile and questions if you read mine.

I think we can all agree that no one on this site has any idea what they're doing.

I swear that my pictures are exactly what I look like on any given day.

I am pretty awesome and cooo, if I do say so, and I will treat you like you deserve to be treated.

I'm a t-shirt and jeans kind of guy, but I clean up quite nicely.

My mother raised me right in that I know how a woman is supposed to be treated and I know my way around the house. My father raised me right in that I also know how to fix and build things.

Not only is my profile long winded, but my emails can be sometimes as well. I like to come across at least somewhat intelligent when trying to talk to you. I also write like my personality, if that makes any sense.

I don't have much hair anymore but I do have an awesome shaped head.

Much of this profile is meant to be read with a least a hint of sarcasm and wit, for I occasionally think I'm witty.

I like doing stuff. I like going out. I like staying in. I like expanding my horizons. I like doing new things. I like doing the same old things. I'm very easy going and understanding.

I like women....
...that think for themselves
...that are intelligent
...who are funny and can appreciate different types of humor
...who can take a joke as well as dish one out
...who are creative or artistic
... that are independent
...that are free spirited
...who embrace their flaws as well as mine
...who don't mind a little old fashioned chivalry and romance
...etc

I'm looking for the spark that everyone keeps talking about.

Let's do fun stuff together!
Let's do boring stuff together!
Let's get off this damn website!
Let's go exploring!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now, I work with developmentally disabled adults, creating programs for the people that live in group homes. I love my clients; they are amazing. But I'm pretty much at the end of this part of the journey and I'm ready to move onto something else. Hopefully soon, but in the meantime, it's paying the bills....somewhat.

My real passions are music and film. I play guitar, bass, piano/keyboards, drums and I sing. I write and record my own music and I am currently in the process of trying to find places to play out.

I made an independent film when I was in my 20's. Took a chunk out of me mentally, physically, and financially so I've been taking a break from indie film making since, but I recently started writing again. Just finished a horror script that I'm excited about. I'm in the process of doing research for the next script I want to write as well.

One day I'd like to open up my own independent movie theater,
or coffeehouse/bar with a stage,
or a recording studio,
or a place that has all of these things in one kickass building.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
off the top of my head...

being myself (took a few years, but I'm getting pretty good at it.)
playing music
writing
cooking
making sandwiches
hearing a song and figuring out how to play it within 5-10 minutes
pop culture/music/movie/general trivia
driving

I'm sure there are other things I'm good at, but for the purpose of this site, that's good for now.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm kinda tall, so it could be that. I've never really asked anyone this. Maybe my eyes? They're silvery blue. One of my earliest memories is from pre-school when my teacher had all of us identify our eye color in the mirror. I was adamant that my eyes were grey. My teacher then informed me that they were indeed blue. Agree to disagree.

Almost all of the women I've gone out with from this site have said I'm better looking than my pictures. So take that for what you will. I guess I don't take a very good picture.

Other possibilities....
Demeanor?
Bald?
Bearded?
Earrings? - Update - Recently stopped wearing my earrings.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books - I have too many other hobbies which doesn't give me much time to read books unfortunately. I do like Stephen King though.

Movies - I consider myself a movie buff. I'll watch just about anything in any genre. It'd be pointless for me to list the movies I like.

TV - I watch only a small handful of TV shows. I'm definitely more of a movie guy. Me and TV have an odd relationship. Favorite shows are The Simpsons (all time fav); Law & Order (original and SVU); Community; Arrested Development; South Park (the last few seasons were crap tho); Modern Family; Bill Maher; How I Met Your Mother; 24; Archer; Last Week Tonight with John Oliver has become one of my new favorite shows

Music - Music is a passion of mine. Favorites are Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, Radiohead, Metallica, Tool, Sunny Day Real Estate, The Beatles, Alice In Chains, Nirvana, David Bowie, Queen, Nine Inch Nails, Foo Fighters, Chili Peppers, The Rolling Stones, Arcade Fire, Mumford and Sons, Fleet Foxes, My Morning Jacket, anything Mowtown (this is my bar for whether anyone has good taste in music. I mean, how can you NOT like Mowtown?) and more...

Food - I like food. Let's get some food. My favorites are Italian, Chinese, Japanese and Mexican. I don't really eat Indian or Thai as it makes my heart burn in not a good way.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
This section left intentionally blank because it's stupid.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Clever little ditties to put in this section.

- We are never going to be 100% match. There are going to be some things we disagree about. There are going to be some questions that we've answered differently. I'm not perfect. Neither are you. There is no such thing as perfection. Can't we all just....get past the word 'dealbreaker' and actually talk to each other like human beings? Let's embrace our flaws and form something amazing together

-Is it, like a thing, that young women of today have a picture of themselves in mid-jump with arms outstretched? Something I've noticed while going through profiles. It's quite charming and cute.

-Whenever I see a really bad commercial, I wonder if that's what they went with, how bad were some of the rejected ideas?

-How douchebags of both sexes have made the dating scene quite difficult for good guys to find good gals and vice versa.

-Why I continually watch Law & Order SVU marathons that show the same episodes I've seen countless times. Oh wait! I know why! It's cuz they're awesome.

-Apparently many of you are against the idea of guys posting 'shirtless bathroom selfies' even if the guy is in good shape. If a guy in average shape with a slight gut were to post of these types of pictures ironically, would you see how awesome of a joke that is? That guy clearly exudes a fuck-ton of confidence. Trust me, I'm tempted to test this theory out...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Celebrating the end of the week in typical Friday fashion
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
...is buried deep within the question portion of this profile. Maybe not deep, but it's in there. It's potentially a deal breaker for many of you. I'd hoped it wouldn't be, and that you'd be able to look past it and see me for who I am, but it apparently is. What can you do? Que sera sera.

Obviously this is contingent on whether or not you answered said question.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-You want to.

-You made it this far and weren't turned off by any of the above information

-You got some of my humor that I flavored throughout this profile without me having to use emoticons or to say 'lol' at the ends of sentences.

-You want someone who will treat you how you deserve to be treated.

-You think this is one of the sexiest songs ever written... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K-FQL-tJ3ic
or this one....
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6RHTb-WE4zo
and you wouldn't mind randomly slow dancing to either one for absolutely no reason, wherever we happen to be at that moment.

-You play an instrument or are a creative/artistic kind of person.

-You are on Long Island or in Queens, Brooklyn, or Manhattan. Staten Island and The Bronx might be just a tad too far. I do have a car, so traveling to you is not an issue for me.

-You are shorter than me.

-You actually went through some of my questions.

-When you click on 'Unacceptable answers' in the questions section and there aren't pages and pages of unacceptable answers between us.

-You want something serious.