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echolden

40 M Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 27–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:32am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Virgo
Education
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Good (insert proper time of day greeting that you are viewing this)!

Grab a beverage (it's okay, I will wait until you find one), sit back, and learn all there is to know (well not all, but hopefully enough knowledge to know if you want to talk to this guy or not. I sure hope you do, because I think you are pretty cool for clicking on my profile to begin with) about this echolden guy.

echolden's History in 200 words or less or How I stopped worrying about trying to wow you all with flair and just put down the nitty gritty details:

I moved to Seattle about ten years ago from NYC and am enjoying myself in Seattle. I grew up in a small town in Northwest Ohio and got the hell out of dodge as soon as I could. I love to watch movies, going on long walks and exploring the city (you see much more on foot!), eating at interesting places in this great city and trying new foods (current addiction: fried pig ears!), finding a quiet place to read, getting lost and finding my way back home (I get lost a lot, but never the same way twice), being still while watching the skyline (and listening to the rain at 4am), and finding a place to have a drink where I don't have to shout (i miss my old dive bars, it seems they all have become sports bars with a ton of LCD monitors...alas).

echolden quick facts:

I have been called quick witted, charming, kind, and a bunch of expletives that I am sure that were meant as a compliment.

I have a problem saying the following words:
- Salad and Solid
- Single and Signal

I am a sucker for a clever cat photo meme (hell sometimes a not so clever one).

At one point I was a World Records Holder (along with 5,785 other people) for worlds largest snowball fight. It was mostly ice, but still amazing to be in the middle of.

My philosophy on how to live life is taken from the main rule in improv comedy: "Yes, and..."

I will admit my mistakes which will haunt me until...

...I replay my entire day in my mind before going to bed every evening. This is a very humbling practice, sometimes one does not realize one is being an asshole until much later in the day.

I am positive that human evolution peaked when we started putting ice cubes in our drinks to water them down or cool them.

I have a gym membership, but often opt to go on crazy long walks throughout this city with a backpack full of books instead, bonus points if I find a place to stop and read from one.

I am loyal, probably too loyal.

I forgive easily, probably too easily.

I care, probably too much in this evil world.

I try not to censor myself, at least in written word, and let it all flow free.

ok, I lied, here is some flair. *sparkle* *fizzz* *crack crack pop* and for the grand finale <razzmatazz>
What I’m doing with my life
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I work with technology. It speaks to me almost and I can usually figure out what is wrong with it. Spent last year learning how to wrestle the 3d printer and now we are on to learning to fly quadcopters for aerial videography (it is amazing and frightening all at the same time).

I have been cigarette free for longer than Obama has been in the white house, but have recently have had the nice joy of e-cigs once and awhile (nice to have clothing smell like fruit instead of smoke. afraid to to it all the time, but it is nice to not feel the brain's constant scream for nicotine from time to time).

Taking really long walks with no purpose (until it hits the time to go home, then there is purpose to the long walk in reverse) except to explore the city.

I have come to terms with my non jetpack having society. A majority of Americans can't ride a bike without being an asshole, I would hate to see what assholery would happen with jetpacks! I will gladly exchange my dream for a jetpack with universal health care and free college education for all.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Solving problems. I am like a one man A-Team, minus the gold chains and the cigars. I do love it when a plan comes together though (I may pick up gold chains, if the plan is amazing enough). I will, however, never pity a fool. A fool deserves what they get.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
probably not much. I feel that people often read me wrong, I spend a lot of time in my head and forget that I need to project what I am feeling so people feel more comfortable.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Stranger in a Strange Land, The Master and Margarita, The Sirens of Titan (can't believe I forgot to put that in here the first time), The Outlaws Guide to Literature, Electric Kool-Aid Acid Test, Junky, The Rum Diary, The Grapes of Wrath, Mr. Nice. and Ready Player One (not for it's literary genius, but it filled a big void in my pop culture hole).

Currently reading: nothing at this time, would love a suggestion. I love learning new things. Current last favorite read was Pedestrianism, a book about an emerging sport in the 1880 where people did competitive walking. It was amazing history.

Podcasts: Harmontown, WTF, How did this Get Made?, and Nerd Poker.

TV: Bunk, Community, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Arrested Development, and Wilfred.

Hobbies: 3D Modeling (for Work and Play), puppetry, and researching how to make my crazy ideas real.

Movies: The Abyss, They Live, The Muppet Movie, Pitch Black, A Face in the Crowd, The Man Who Would be King, and Singing in the Rain. <--- is my short list, I pretty much love most movies, the last movie that I hated was Funny Games (It made me so mad, that I reported the disc lost from netflix, paid the penalty fee, and then took the disk outside and smashed it on the street).

Music: MGMT, The Rolling Stones, Ween, Of Montreal, Gang Gang Dance, The Velvet Underground, St. Vincent, CHVRCHES, The Wu Tang Clan, Chilly Gonzales...I like it all (well almost all of it, crap is crap no mater how you package it).

Food: I will eat anything but shrimp, actually most crustaceans kinda freak me out. I guess if you deep fry em, they may be okay, deep fried food is like natures way of gift wrapping a time bomb for your heart.

To sum it up all up: I like pretty much everything, or at least will give it a chance...even if I hate it...even if I hated it after giving it a chance last year...or the year before that...even if it still owes me five bucks, or said something mean about my mother at the last church social tea.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
iPhone ( even though I hit information overload at times, glad they put an off button on that sucker!), books of all shapes and genres, ice in my drink, comfortable pair of shoes, good friends, and cheese...lots and lots of cheese (with cheese sprinkled on top).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I could invent that would make me millions, and then googling the idea and cursing the person who beat me to it.

How to make puppets come alive in front of a camera. or Why are there so many songs about rainbows?

What my cat does at night while I sleep.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Decompressing or watching a movie. Most likely both at the same time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a mere mortal man and can not leap over tall buildings; but that hasn't stopped me from trying, or will keep me from trying again when the moment feels right.

I may let you down. It will always hurt me more than it hurts you.

I replay my whole day in my head before going to bed. It is amazing how much empathy one gains by seeing how much of an asshole they were that day without realizing it.

I also do not own a car, or plan on owning a car any time soon. I will however rent a car if needed; but I love the challenge of mass transit, and the peace a decent walk brings.
You should message me if
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You want to say "Hi", meet for a drink, or exchange wit, via email.