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eclecticwombat1

32 Indianapolis, IN Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–39
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Education
Job
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Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I grew up in the "boonies" of Indiana but have lived all over. I've had rare opportunities to travel and experience some amazing things in life. I was a Marine, then worked for the State Department, which took me around the world, about 6 years spent abroad. I'm an anarchist at heart, so I happily escaped that world. I believe in personal responsibility. One doesn't just become a dirtbag, it takes a lot of practice; and a lot of men(and women) need to tighten up and get their act together. I'm looking for a mate/life partner/best friend; not just cohabitation. That just doesn't have the same benefits as marriage. Call me old fashioned, no apologies. I believe in keeping your word. Life is hard, lets not kid ourselves, and I personally think it's worth some hard work to have someone by your side when you're an ancient, ugly little turtle-like creature, that remembers how great you once were. Some might say I'm a little eccentric, but I prefer eclectic.
I'm left handed but bat and play guitar right handed.
I've never owned a television.
I've been in love twice.
I'm a youngest child.
I've lived out of a back pack.
I've had the same best friends since pre-school.
I'm equal parts theoretical and practical.
I'm probably the only guy that traded a motorcycle for a bicycle.
I cut my own hair (obviously).
I don't talk a lot, but I communicate well.
I'm happy in a museum or with a chainsaw in the woods.
I like getting my hands dirty but clean up sometimes.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm very happy with my life, it keeps getting better! So far I love being in my 30's, I finally have a thorough understanding of myself and acceptance of others. I'm comfortable in my own skin and don't need to compete with anyone, but I am fiercely competitive with myself. I want to make the most out of each day, like I hope everyone does. I keep my eyes and ears open and try to learn as much as I can. Staying open-minded and appreciative always helps.
I'm gaining new qualications in my career, construction engineering, so that I can begin molding it more closely to the things I'm passionate about.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I like to play devil's advocate, it helps learn new ideas and challenge old ones. I'm also really good at keeping secrets. Pretty good guitar player and athlete. And to be honest, I enjoy causing a bit of chaos on occasion.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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No t.v. in my cave.
I like Mad Men though. Is Magnum P.I. still on?!

I have a small library I'm proud of; fiction, non fiction, how-to. I recently acquired about 5 years of '60's Popular Mechanics that are really cool. Favorite authors are Hemingway and Dumas. I really just love having books around, some of them I might not read for 20 years, but it's nice to know they are there.

I eat everything. I am easily won with a good meal. I garden and hunt, so I think anything I harvest myself tends to taste better.

I love movies, so we would just need to talk about this one.

Music: I'm somewhat true to my demographic, the grungier the better for me. I also listen to some old metal, Indie, classic rock, classical, electronic. There are a few European rock bands I really like but I don't know what they are saying, so I won't vouch for them.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How amazing it is to be a human, and what a strange place this is. And yes okcupid, I do, in fact, spend a lot of time thinking about lunch.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Now that it's winter I like to get a fire going and put on a record and mess around the house, or hang out in the basement and nail some shit together. I like going out to eat and stuff but I love my house. If I knew more people here I would throw parties, but I don't, so I don't.
You should message me if
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You don't need someone to complete you, or feel like you need a boyfriend to validate your existence. You are a fully formed Individual seeking another individual to create a Megatron to kick ass at life. No wet blankets please! I need creativity, opinions, passion, curiosity, confidence, intelligence, and just as important: someone that won't quit, there is no quitting, so smile and lets take on the world!