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21 M Chicago, IL

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:00am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), French (Poorly), Japanese (Okay), Malay (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm cute :) Malaysian Chinese, certified emptyheaded prettyboy, part time New Yorker. Chitown best town, NYC best... C? Fml.

I'm a writer, Math major turned Economics major - I'm completing a BA at the University of Chicago. I think smart is sexy, superficial is annoying. I despise the pretentious and I love surprises; Lady Gaga's Applause is currently my favorite song, I think Ke$ha is a genius- If I become famous one day, I really really hope this doesn't come back to haunt me LOL

I fear regret, and maybe this is why I'm here - Because I want to know that my life can be better, more salient, more relevant. I want to know I disbelieve the existence of true altruism; I want to believe that this world will be left better because I was here. I believe in the simple beauty of ideas but shun ideas because I'm a realist; I think asking society to consider you a rare/beautiful/unique flower is nothing but arrogance in the highest order.

A. I like smart girls, always a turn-on - Though maybe the word I'm looking for isn't 'smart', maybe the word I'm looking for is 'worldly'.

B. No, I'm not the random pakistani guy looking to marry and make 355235890 babies with you.

C. I think it's such a shame that older women don't usually date younger guys.
What I’m doing with my life
fueling my diet soda addiction, traveling a lot, writing a fair bit, messing with people on OkCupid(Not with this profile, lol). Skill toys (yoyos diabolos juggling balls) take up a good portion of my life.

1. I go out on dates, some from OkCupid, others not.
2. I write. Bad fanfictions(No you don't get to look!) and a mediocre blog( for leisure.
3. I run a mock portfolio on Investopedia.
4. I write for The Malaysian Insider ( and The Chicago Maroon, sometimes about love.
5. Responding to questions on -
6. I facilitate for a sex education group on campus known as Tea Time and Sex Chats.
I’m really good at
Being old, apparently. In NYC I met this girl and jokingly I asked her - What year do you think I am in school? She responded 'You must be a grad student, I can tell by the look of despair in your eyes'.

Thinking about my mortality - Did you know that 100% of OkCupid users/water-drinkers/air-breathers will die? Therefore you should not use OkCupid, etc.

Watching movies on 3x - Many argue that it detracts from the experience but I would argue that it in fact enhances it.

I play the guitar, and I'm really passionate about the yoyo. I make no pretences about being fantastically good at any of these things.
The first things people usually notice about me
1. I go to the gym
2. I talk really fast about finance and also like, in general
3. I am like a baby panda I do what I want
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Something something Chuck Palahniuk.
Also, this is the worst thing you will ever read.

Movies: Something something Quentin Tarantino

Shows: I'm really sad that Breaking Bad's over :(

Music: Ask!

Food: Low carb whatever. Entire ecosystems of animals

Games: If you like Metal Gear or Disgaea please marry me. Also I've played through every single Pokemon game and am inching my way through Y right now because I have no time :(
The six things I could never do without
meat meat meat meat meat meat seriously I can eat enough meat to feed an entire African village(No offense if you're actually from an African village)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why vegetables become soft when we boil them
Where almonds come from wtf
are you happy now God
Where we go when we die
Separation of mind and body
what happens if i get old and boring
how to never get boring even if i get old
how it is that people who say they are up for trying new things are so often in reality people who don't try very many new things

1. Why so many older women think that relative youth is a dealbreaker.
2. Why so many girls (Not necessarily on OkCupid) are afraid of asking guys out.
3. Whether I am actually a terrible person, and whether anyone ever feels sorry because they've realized the depth of their wrongs, vis a vis feeling sorry because they got caught.
4. The nature of the unconscious.
5. What it means to be 'exotic'
6. Whether morality is really just relative
7. Why the people who most loudly proclaim that they are 'weird' or 'strange' are so often some of the least interesting people you can possibly find.
On a typical Friday night I am
growing old with other people
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is the most private thing you're probably willing to admit. I meet people on OkCupid too, we should be friends!
Also, I think online dating is a rite of passage. I've met so many interesting people here seriously
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
1. If you believe that we are united by our similarities more than we are divided by our differences. (See: You don't think I'm some stalker who is going to show up outside your house and watch you while you sleep, you like concerts, etc herp derp)

2. You know what you want, and you don't overthink it.

3. You like dogs and you think that cats are an advanced breed of aliens sent to take over the world

4. You're not codependent

5. You think the Okcupid blog is fascinating.

6. You're nice, though cutely-awkward-hipster-ohlala ala zooey deschanel kind of works too :)