Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am lucky and wise. My life is good and to complain would be
privileged nonsense. I am fortunate to be on this spinning spheroid
in the infinite expanse of the universe experiencing this life now.
It will not be wasted. Let's play!
Check it out: NBC put me on TV.
I recently graduated and was on the news for my thesis work. The
project engaged thousands of people with healing, forgiveness, and
transformation. Woop, woop! Not my first time on the news, nor
I desire intelligent and strong women. I love physical touch, am
wonderful at it, and believe it improves over time. I have been in
mono-, poly-, and open relationships that were wonderful and find
value in each. Clarity and communication are two keys to any
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Positively changing the world within my growing sphere of
Learning, art making, community building, elevation through
engagement, travel, loving, friends, and fun.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm renown for hugs and handling stressful situations.
I brought a stranger to tears with a hug and kicked down the wall
of a collapsing building to save my small group from injury - in
The first things people usually notice about me
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Colorful spiraling ringlets in twin tails.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Tool and Zeppelin are my favorites, but I love music from across
the globe... music is in my soul, especially jazz and hip-hop. I
love to play the drums. Also: dancing (yay, dancing).
Fight Club, Finding Nemo, Tombstone, Matrix, Glory, Se7en,
Inception, Moulin Rouge, Coming to America... this list goes
Shows I enjoy and don't watch often: The Daily Show, Star Trek:
TNG, Gordon Ramsey's Kitchen Nightmares (UK Version), Robot
Chicken, South Park, Adventure Time, How It's Made,
Oryx and Crake; Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep.
Mexican & Indian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Society, community, art, poverty, justice, activism, feminism,
equality, connectivity, the "other," relationships, sex, structure,
aesthetics, snuggling, new places, silver linings.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Socializing (I love the exchange of ideas and gathering with
friends, board games, going out, music-making, dancing).
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you think this is beautiful and weird (spoiler: it's
the end of an opera).
...you are a badass who adventures anywhere.
...you think critically and ask questions.
...you feel respect, consent, and "enthusiastic yeses" are
...and you're a great kisser.
Who are you looking for?
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