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28 • Toronto, Ontario, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–50
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 3:28pm
- 6′ 2″ (1.88m)
- Body type
- Aries, but it doesn’t matter
- Working on masters program
- Seeing Someone
- Mostly monogamous
- Doesn’t want kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
This nerdy academic side of me may make me look like a serious person, but I'm far from being a serious person. Ridiculous and silly, and dare I say funny, are words often use to describe me. Laughing is very important to me. There is time to take things seriously, but life is short so the rest of the time is for smiling and laughing. Therefore, my friends and family are very important to me. I'm a social being (although I do like solitude too) and love to interact with other people for play and work (although time makes it sometimes difficult, as I'm a busy bee). This is why I stayed on here after I met my partner. As I've moved a lot over the past years, I find it's a good way to meet people (whether it stays online or developed into in person friendship). My head is often in the clouds as I have quite the imagination. It's reflected in my geeky love of everything science fictionny and fantasy (tv, movies, video games). I guess my work brings me often to the depressing side of real life so it gives me a chance to escape!
To end this summary, I would say I'm an open minded, queer, environmentalist, radical left-wing, academic wannabee, easy-going, friendly, generous, passionate, talkative québécois!
Beside that, I read a mix of online/paper books, both fiction and academic. I waste some times on netflix, meet up with some friends, write ma blog, cook, go to concert, enjoy life as much as I can basically.
I spend a lot of time thinking about social justice (especially queer, race and indigeneity issues). I think I've evolved a lot on those points in the past years.
Books: life of pie; lord of the rings; dune; harry potter; les trois mousquetaires; 1984; l'achimiste; Ru; la cantatrice chauve.
Movies: star wars; star trek; Le déclin de l'empire américain et Les invasions barbares; j'ai tué ma mère; C.R.A.Z.Y.; pan's labyrinth; le fabuleux destin d'Amélie Poulain; the 5th element; down with love; Elizabeth; a lot of disney movies.
Shows: the westwing; Parks and Recreation; game of thrones; downton abbey; the tudors; Community; White Collar; Ru Paul's Drag Race; Avatar the last airbender; futurama; Will & Grace; Les Bobos, Bazzo.tv.
Music: classical (I would say my favourite piece is Sibelius Violin Concerto); opera; old jazz (Etta James and Nina Simone power!); Edith Piaf; Céline Dion; Madonna; Martha Wainwright; Florence + the machine; Marina and the Diamonds; Scissor Sisters; Pink Martini; dancy pop song for going out and dancing in the shower.
Food: everything, I love love love food as long as I can eat it (vegetarian here). It's impossible to pick. I love trying new thing. Although I'm more of a glutton than a foodie :P
If you feel like chatting, want to connect, meet me, and/or for the hell of it. I'm very friendly (flirty sometimes) and make an effort to answer everyone who writes more than 3 words. Although, please try to be minimally engaging or I will simply stop messaging you or won't answer (so more than just "hey, how are you?" please). I hate it when it feels like your the only one contributing to a conversation.
The "I'm looking for" section above is not indicative of what type of friends I am actually looking for. I'm happy to chat with any non-bigot! All queer people are welcome (as I myself prefer to describe my sexuality as more queer than strictly gay, the word also describes my views on relationships too I guess).
However, if your profile contains something like no fem, only masc, no asian, or any similar indication of bigotry, don't bother sending me a message.
Nota bene: patience is required as I'm not the quickest to reply but I do my best.
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