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75 M Fayetteville, AR

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–83
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:27am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
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OKCupid's president and co-founder:

Matchmaker, Matchmaker, Make Me A Spreadsheet | FiveThirtyEight:

Do you believe in critical thinking?

The Economic Price of Colleges’ Failures -

How empathetic are you?:

Can You Read People's Emotions? -

Advice (not necessarily endorsed by me):

Read This Before You Write Your Dating Profile -

Here's One Guy's Insanely Long List Of Dating Dealbreakers:

Some are worse than others, and a couple indicate serious pathology:

-you stand in entrances and exits to check for something in your bag/on your phone

-you needlessly kill spiders

But down to brass tacks:

Let's get the generics out of the way. I, along with everyone else, like dining out, watching movies, cuddling, and taking long walks in the sunshine to enjoy the flowers or--as available--the sparkling snow. I too want to live life to the fullest. So that information distinguishes me in no way from everyone else.

I'm interested in ideas. And I'd like some stimulating company to show me things I haven't seen, teach me things I don't know, bring me books I haven't read, describe movies I haven't seen, introduce me to plays I haven't watched and music I haven't heard.
What I’m doing with my life
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My interests include current affairs, environmental activism, social justice, inequality, business, economics, open-source software, sustainability, biodiversity, literature, and creative writing.

By the way. I don't Twitter:

Twitter use linked to infidelity and divorce -- ScienceDaily:

On the hazards of dating in Seattle:

'Arlene said that she was once contacted by a Microsoft programmer on OKCupid who required that she read Neuromancer before “he would consider taking me out on a date. He was not joking.”'

Amazon Is Killing My Sex Life | Dame Magazine:
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I bake pretty good sourdough bread. I developed my own starter from ordinary yeast I got at the grocery store. I'd use some of the dough, bakers call it the "sponge," to start successive batches without adding additional yeast. After about the third iteration the sponge had picked up bacteria from the flour that turned it the requisite sour. Tasty!
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm pretty inconspicuous, an introvert until people get to know me, which doesn't happen at all readily. More accurately, I'm an introvert forever. But there's an excellent article on the topic. Have a look; you might be an introvert too.

Caring for Your Introvert
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Obligatory reading: The New York Times.

And lately, The Atlantic:

The Rise of the DIY Abortion in Texas - Erica Hellerstein - The Atlantic:

Favorite blog: Naked Capitalism

Not a porn site, but a banking/business/credit blog

Presently reading: "Paris Stories" by Mavis Gallant.

Last movie watched: The Grand Budapest Hotel. Loved it! But I usually watch movies long after they're released. Foreign films are in short supply in Fayetteville--which I deplore.

Here's a movie not to be missed: "Keeping Mum," (2005). LOVE dark comedy!

I like "Separate Lies," (2005) for the way its plot unfolds. Unexpected revelations cause the viewer to have to modify his understanding of the story as it proceeds. That structure seems to me better than a bunch of confusing flashbacks and flashforwards that seem to be de rigueur in most movies these days.

I'm pretty omnivorous, but maybe lean a little toward Thai, Mexican, and Chinese food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Daughter 1
Daughter 2
raspberry sherbet
Bean burritos
Kombucha tea
Lapsang Souchong tea.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
He that lives in hope
Dances without music.
--George Herbert

What does it mean?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having barbecue at Whole Hog Cafe.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a member of the human race.
You should message me if
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You'd be interested in taking a walk on the Scull Creek or Frisco Trail, going to a movie, having coffee.