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55 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 29
Black, Native American, White, Other
Relationship Type
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Other and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Well traveled; sensual, affectionate, monogamous (when committed); spiritual; meditation; regularly enjoy exercise, friends and adventure - both the dramatic AND the simple; determined to become as wise as possible; love to LAUGH and figure out fun/interesting things to do.

I am an adult that likes to have BIG fun. I have broad interests and love to indulge/surprise my partner. I like/am open to new experiences AND routines (exercise, favorite vacation spots, etc.)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Internet entrepreneur; executive; entertainment law; public service/policy; exercise; reducing stress; spending quality time with friends; philanthropy; always trying to grow...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Helping to solve problems; calming down a stressful/negative situation (I don't panic)

Making you laugh (clever and silly humor)

Weekend getaways
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I look younger than I am; smart
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Food: Really good wine & organic/independent farm grown preferred; I am not a meat & potatoes guy; I am basically a pescaterian (fish/seafood) and a bit of a foodie...u can eat anything. I am not a missionary of any kind i.e. you do you ;)

Activities: Beach, mountains, sailing, flying, general exercise (heavy calisthenics/yoga); of course, occasional camping. I love outdoors ...and a dancefloor

Play/Theatre: My favorite acting art form but don't go enough. Did more when I lived in NYC.

Music: Live music of ALL kinds; I LOVE dancing to Deep House (but not techno), hip hop, reggae, African Beat, salsa (love the music/not great dancer), Chill/lounge, even including 80s new wave (from British to B-52s to Talking Heads etc...u get it); indie rock

Books: Usually for content not author; biographies; history; international intrigue; mysteries; social insight, current events

Movies: International intrigue/spy; Mysteries; Foreign; and yes, I will see big budget blockbusters (But not so often)

TV/Cable: The Wire, True Detective (Season One), Netflix House of Cards

Art: Contemporary/modern-paintings, sculpture, photography; also non-Western; I was on the board of an SF museum (amongst some other civic Boards)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
trust; deep friendship; respect; laughing (occasionally out-loud/belly laugh); passion for something; exercise; frankness; love; music (9)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The planet as a whole; Travel. I have circled the globe 10x (extended: Tokyo, Singapore, London, India, Paris); and how to lead the life I want to...preferably with a partner ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Often dinner (likely in SF or OAK or Marin) with friends then drinks/movie/comedy/dancing; or at home watching BBC, PBS (often Charlie Rose), TCM, MHz Foreign Mysteries Channel, Netflix
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a widower. My wife passed in 2003. Together 10 years. We did not have kids.

Anything else you'll have to ask me :)
You should message me if
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You like someone that has friends/travels in different race/class/sexual orientation/generational/ethnic/religious circles and can be themselves throughout.


You want to meet a guy who has done a bit, is very active, is NOT boring, is athletic, is not so judgmental when it comes to others, and likes fun/belly laughing!

Finally, I don't have kids and not sure that will happen for me in this life. I am 'Uncle David' to many. Your kids are welcome (looking forward, after we know about us)