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28 M Shanghai, China

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 3
6′ 9″ (2.06m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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If you want to imagine me, imagine a man waving his arms while making a point about something, possibly over a beer and definitely with a friend. Either that or someone failing to speak Chinese, again gesturing wildly.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I recently discovered, much to my surprise, that I enjoy exercising for extremely long periods of time. I'm not sure if I'm better than this than other people, or just more stubborn, but my new found love has taken me kayaking across the Gulf of Thailand, through a Vietnamese jungle and cycling across Europe. I spend a lot of time thinking about what I will do next, walking The Wall currently top of my list.

I spent 4 years doing all types of ballroom dancing, from salsa to swing. If anyone will let me take them here then you have a date.

I can practically cook risotto in my sleep.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I would love to say that it's my English accent, or blue-grey eyes, or deep and insightful views on the topic of the day. It isn't.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.

Recently I read almost all of H.P. Lovecraft, and it was awesome. I became almost addicted to his dark world and rich prose. I'm a little sad that I didn't save some stories for later, to savour in another time and place.

Christopher Hitchens could have written a recipe for baked beans and I'd want to read it. Everything he touches is as brilliant as the man himself, and I'm currently working my way through his essays. He also says that it's o.k. for me to regard 1984 as highly as I do, so I love him for that as well.

Infinite Jest is the best book I've ever read, by quite a margin.


I adore films that are a little over the top, beautiful to look at and, probably, if I'm honest, not as clever as I think they are. Examples; Amadeus, The Prestige, Labyrinth


This this and this
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I am never without reading material. I have on a few occasions carried a back up book, in case I finished the one I was reading at the time.

I have been with the same battered, scratched and much loved iPod for a while now, and am still excited that I can get lots of albums into my pocket.

If I go more than a few days without talking to someone I start to lose it. Other people are great.

I really like marshmallows, but could probably do without. They do make me smile.

The BBC.

A bedside lamp makes me happier than most things. To be able to put down my book, roll over and turn of the light without having to get out of bed is about as good as life gets.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I am currently trying to get a paper published on the problem of evil, so I spend more time than I should thinking about that. Otherwise it's sustainability, feminism, game theory and where/with who I'll be eating this evening. Predominately the latter.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
bent over an ever growing stack of filing cards with Chinese characters on them, trying not to think about how far off literacy is.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I never finished Sandman.
You should message me if
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You can link me to something I would wonder at.

You'll let me take you somewhere I haven't been before.

You also worry that your writing has to follow the rule of three.