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47 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:01pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm a people person and very comfortable in any social situation. Educated but humble; believer in karma; doer of good deeds, whether offering an arm to a blind person in the street or donating some of my time and money to underprivileged children.

To me life is a series of adventures with varying degrees of fun; and through it all I steadfastly remain a genuinely happy person, always making the best of any situation. I appreciate a great sense of humor and irony and I make people laugh easily.

I am amicably divorced, no kids; but I love children and hope to be a dad in the future. I grew up in the nearby suburbs and live on the Upper East Side. My background is finance and accounting and my occupation is business development for a brand management and licensing company. I am lucky to love my job and (most of) my co-workers.

Travel is a necessity in my life. So far I've been to 5 continents and ~ 35 countries and there are still many places I want to see. On my current short list are Morocco; Colombia; Paris (spent one blissful day there) and yet another return to India, my favorite place outside the US.

Some things I really enjoy include seeing live music, scuba diving, taking photos of the places I've been and the people I've met there, trying new ethnic restaurants, and wandering around the City on foot with or without a destination.
What I’m doing with my life
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Learning as much as I can by seeing everything with open eyes, heart and mind. Treating people with respect and hopefully making the world a tiny bit better.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
crossword puzzles
self deprecation
listening to your problems
making breakfast
The first things people usually notice about me
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Salt and pepper hair and goatee.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Hermann Hesse, Tom Robbins, Fitzgerald, Hemingway, Steinbeck, John Irving, Dostoevsky, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Wally Lamb, Thoreau, Mario Vargas Llosa, Steve Martin, Khaled Hosseini, and honorable mention to John Kennedy Toole and Harper Lee for two of my favorite novels if nothing else.

Scorsese, Altman, Coen Brothers, Kubrick, Todd Solondz, Almodovar, Woody Allen, Charlie Kaufman, Deepa Mehta, Inarritu, Francis Ford and Sofia Coppola, Mike Nichols, Mel Brooks, Darren Aronofsky, Tarantino, Paul Thomas Anderson, Wes Anderson, Christopher Guest

Seinfeld, Family Guy, Curb Your Enthusiasm, BBC World News, Louie, Shameless, The Simpsons

Radiohead, Arcade Fire, Bob Marley, Dido, The Beatles, Black Keys, Beastie Boys, Thelonius Monk, Kruder Dorfmeister, Phish, Billie Holiday, Vampire Weekend, Wilco, Air, Johnny Cash, Joy Division, Broken Bells, Regina Spektor, Willie Nelson, The Clash, los Aterciopelados, Sonic Youth, The Doors, Snoop Dogg, p.j. harvey, Bob Dylan, the National, Pearl Jam, Jay-Z, Lucinda Williams, Gorillaz, James, Manu Chao

I like all food and am a decent cook. Haven't eaten fast food in 20+ years. I enjoy a glass of wine or a beer with dinner most nights.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
living close to a coastline
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the unfair distribution of wealth in the world
subway etiquette
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying good food and wine...
or having a couple of beers at the bar with friends....
or checking out a band, film, play, or sporting event...
or just staying in and watching a movie.