Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The first thing you should know about me to avoid miscommunication
and issues in the future is that I rent my grandparent's basement.
I am financially and socially independent, but with my
grandfather's deteriorating condition, they need help around the
house and I like to be nearby to help them out.
The second thing you need to know is that I am kinky, and very much
so. If you don't have an interest in more than just a vanilla
relationship, then I don't think we will be very compatible.
Thirdly, I am polyamorous, so don't expect to be the only lady in
my life, whether you become a primary or secondary relationship
depends on how well we mesh and our overall relationship.
I am a relatively optimistic person, and have a number of interests
and hobbies including computers, rope and a burgeoning interest in
photography. I consider myself to be very intelligent and can be
introverted at times. Don't mistake this for shyness, I am very
open and communicative, but sometimes prefer to listen to a
conversation rather than partake in it.
I have recently made a career change in my life and am starting
over as a Millwright, it is a contract based career so when I am
working, it is heavy overtime with few days off, but when I am off
work I have plenty of free time. It's a good balance that I am
enjoying more and more as it allows me a great degree of freedom as
far as my social and vacation time goes.
I identify as heteroflexible, as I do not have issues involving
males into my play, but I am not experienced enough in it to know
whether to consider myself bisexual at this time or not. I do know
that I would not consider my relationship with another man to be a
primary relationship in my life as the emotional attachment could
never be as strong as with a woman. I am very much attracted to the
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have recently become involved in the Edmonton kink community and
try to make it out to most of the events. It's quite satisfying and
I have built up a number of friendships in this time. I plan to
become more active and am already planning a few trips to a few
conventions around north america to expand my knowledge and build
As I have said before, I am also starting my career as a
Millwright, and though I am several years from a journeyman's
ticket, I am enjoying this career thus far.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fixing computer problems, general handiwork and rope. I intend on
becoming even better at rope through practice and a good rope
bottom. I a have just secured a hard point in my ceiling recently
and look forward to practising some basic suspensions in the near
The first things people usually notice about me
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I can appear shy initially, but can quickly come out of my shell
for an interesting conversation or activity. I am usually easy to
get along with and try to avoid drama wherever possible.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Ender's game, The Hobbit, Alice in Wonderland, Calculating
God, The Conqueror's trilogy.
Movies: The Big Lebowski, The Goonies, Gone in 60 Seconds, Fear and
Lothing in Las Vegas.
TV Shows: Family Guy, South Park, Dr Who. I don't watch much
Music: Varied from Heavy Metal to Classical and some Hip Hop and
Techno. Favourites include Eminem, Metric, Killswitch Engage and
several of Beethoven's symphonies.
Food: I have an open palate, but can not live the life of a
vegetarian as I love bacon and a good steak too much to give up on
that. I tend to avoid a lot of breads in my diet when I can.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How can I use whatever I'm looking at or holding in a kinky way.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually out with friends playing with rope or other kinky things,
when I am home I'll put on a movie or TV series and tie myself up.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have had needles in my penis... Like I said, I can be a very open
You should message me if
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You're into kink, or interested in trying. You want to get tied up
or want to learn to tie someone up, or you just want to chat. Being
into kink doesn't necessarily require sex, and I'm always looking
for people to play with, whether or not it leads to anything
You should also message me if you have a geeky side and want to
find a fellow geek to talk with or watch Dr Who with or something.
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