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ef74

35 / M / straight / Single

Fremont, California

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Ethnicity
Other
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Other
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Russian (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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I am Spontaneous, Clever, and Sarcastic.

My Self-Summary

Well, I guess this is the part where I tell all the available bachelorettes what a great catch I am; PICK ME, PICK ME!!!

I love to have fun, who doesn't, so I'm sure that makes me a fun loving guy. When I'm not sitting in front of the computer trying to convince you to date me, I'm probably on the computer doing something else, or enjoying the outdoors playing tennis, riding my bike or motorcycle if the weather's nice, playing at one of many snowboard parks in tahoe, water skiing or wakeboarding, hittin the gym, dancing, making music, playing with cute little fuzzy critters, spending time with friends and family, and the many other things I didn't mention since this isn't a novel. I'm honest, faithful, caring, and don't like to play head games. I'm also kind, generous, and love helping people who aren't just trying to take advantage. I'm easy to please, and can make the best out of any situation. I don't really watch tv. Most of the shows are pretty annoying, and seem to only be there to babysit tards, although I'm known to occasionally stream episodes of scrubs online, and a few other shows that I actually consider funny or enlightening, like the history channel.

I'd like to find a sweet, witty, drama free chick with a good heart, an open mind, who loves to laugh. If you think we might be a good fit, hit me up.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm doing my high tech hustle, ballin binary bits. It's easy money, and pretty fun, especially since it can be used to mess with people in so many ways. I've been working for mostly startups, trying to collect as much stock as I can in the process, and hope they don't go belly up.

When I'm not being a computer nerd or playing with cool high tech gadgets, I'm relaxing, visiting family and friends, finding new and improved ways to entertain myself, and usually end up entertaining others in the process as a bonus. I've been making music on and off in my home studio for the last decade, and actually have enough material for a full album, but haven't taken the time to put it all together and finish it up yet. I sometimes bust flows on stage, and even talk smack at emcee battles. It's pretty funny, even found myself on youtube.

I don't have a problem being single, and am a happy person regardless, but having someone by my side would definitely complete things. Time is ticking, and I'm not getting any younger, although I refuse to just settle for anything that comes my way, unless I feel in my heart that it's the right thing. I'd rather be alone and happy, than be with someone who makes me miserable.

That pretty much sums things up. If you wanna know more, just ask.

I’m really good at

Figuring things out. Tickling the G-spot. I'm pretty handy too.

The first things people usually notice about me

I don't know, perhaps you can tell me.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Hacking Exposed Live, Desktop Audio Technology, Automating Unix and Linux Administration, Linux Server Hacks, The Database Hackers Handbook, Animal Farm, ...

Movies: Office Space, Grandmas Boy, Antz, Just Friends, Fist of the Northstar, Road Trip, Waterboy, Super Troopers, ...

Music: I like pretty much anything with a good beat and positive, clever, and/or entertaining lyrics. I mostly listen to reggae, underground hip hop, acid jaz, trip hop, dubstep, drum & bass, jungle, ... Not too much into radio music however, or at least not mainstream radio music. I like some house, but can't really stand tweaker techno.

Food: I like spicy food. Some of my favorites are Mexican, Indian, Japanese, Thai, Middle Eastern, Greek, and I'm open to pretty much anything else.

The six things I could never do without

1). The Internet 2). Sleep 3). Toothbrush/Toothpaste 4). Water and Food would probably be important 5). Music/Dancing 6). Exercise

I spend a lot of time thinking about

World Events. How so much ignorance can be continuously pumped through the airwaves? Miseducated and unparented youth. Why so many people put on a fake front to try and fit into a certain group? Why some of the most religious people I have ever met have also been the most racist, cruel, and violent?

On a typical Friday night I am

Making music. Going out. Visiting friends and family.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I like to wear woman's underwear........................................­​... on my head!!!

You should message me if

I can wear yours, you think you're my soul mate, you're bored and need somebody to talk to, you share some common interests and want an activity partner, or if you just feel like it.