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efeldkamp

37 / F / gay / Single

Bayside, California

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Other
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am kind, adventurous, and curious.

My Self-Summary

I absolutely love to be active in the outdoors. I enjoy going hiking in the forest or a walk on the beach almost every day. One of my geekier outdoorsy activities is birdwatching. Send me off with a pair of binos and a bird book and i'm happy for the morning. I have a lovely canine pal and this wonderful pooch is included in as many of my outings as possible. So my car always has dog hair in it.

I am concerned with issues of environmental conservation and the health of our planet. So having a respect and love for our natural world is a quality any future date or mate must share with me. Litter bugs and big suv drivers need not apply

I tend to be a bit left brained, so i am always on the look out for a new creative hobby to help shift me into my right brain once in a while. Hmm maybe another pottery class?

As for my appearance and dress and the way I carry myself, I suppose androgynous would be a good adjective. The butch/femme tags just don't work for me. My friends also describe me as kind and compassionate, funny, witty, loyal, and sensitive with an excellent sense of humor.

I tend to be on the independent side, with the need to do my own thing at times. My job requires that I travel quite a bit so tolerance for frequent absences is a must. Seeing the world and experincing life from another culture's perspective is a gift. My most recent favorite trip was to Kenya, where I went bird (and other critter) watching every morning. Then again that surf trip to Bali, Indonesia in feb was pretty epic too. I long to visit parts of South America again someday and would LOVE to take a significant other along. I might be getting tired of traveling alone. though I do move about the globe with confidence and comfort.

So, that said I really do want to find someone some day who will fit the role of my main side kick and life partner. we'll do so many things togther but be our own people too. Someone who will joke around with me is a must; though i definitely have a serious introspective side as well.

I try to stay positive, work hard, play hard and enjoy what life has to offer. And I really am a kind soul. Sure would love to meet someone who meets my energy, intellectual curiosity sense of adventure and who is also kind and passionate. So shoot me a note if you want to take a hike or some other fun activity.

What I’m doing with my life

Living it! Learning everyday.
Digging deeper

I’m really good at

Treating others with kidness and dignity
living up to my word
kissing
birding
getting addicted to new forms of excerise
being quiet
kissing
logistics
database design
project management
kissing
procrastinating on doing my taxes
making maps
kissing

The first things people usually notice about me

that I'm a dyke :)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I think my fav novel to date is Poisonwood Bible by Barbara Kingsolver. As for non-fiction, I've been reading Pema Chodron alot lately. Currently working on When You Are Engulfed in Flames by David Sedaris.

Movies; I can sit thru just about anything, but don't do lots of movies. I tend to prefer movies that are based on historical fact. though a good thriller is fun too. I also like documentaries about natural wonders and critters, primitive cultures, historical moments, famous dead people and more.

Food: sushi, indian, thai, ethiopian, italian, mexican. Once in awhile I give in to the craving for a local burger, but NEVER fastfood!

The six things I could never do without

Close friendships
a dog in my life
peace and quiet
clean air
easy access to nature (forest, undeveloped beach, etc)
lots of change and new experiences

I spend a lot of time thinking about

my purpose in the universe
my soul
karma
the possibility of life after death (or lack there of)
having a family (to do or not to do?)
why some people harm others

On a typical Friday night I am

no such thing as a typical friday night for me. I could be out to dinner, out for live music, at a fundraiser, chillin on a friends couch for a movie, staying at home for some much needed 'me' time with a good book, on a plane to Egypt, driving south.....could be anything.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

private is private - sorry

You should message me if

you want a really good catch.
And
you think I'm cute ;)
And
you think your cute and a smarty pants
and
you think your a good match (not based on those silly Qs)
and
your not afraid of someone being really nice to you.