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efkjr

35 M Somerville, MA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:45pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Right, so... See below. This question (prompt, really) is a bit too vague. You can get more specific information below.

If you feel anything is missing, please ask.
What I’m doing with my life
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Recently finished my Ph.D. in Law & Public Policy. Now I work as a full time pre-law advisor, part time lecturer, and part time lawyer. I'm also working on a few research projects for upcoming publications. It's a lot, but I really like it.

I'm also do some photography. If you're interested, I can send you a link to some of my stuff. I like to think I have some skill.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
my job, whatever it happens to be at the time. Right now, that job is teaching undergraduates.... and, well, I'm really good at it. I was also really good at my last job, defending criminals in district court.

I'm also great at knowing the words to songs, but unfortunately, am rendered completely unable to sing them due to some pitch issues. Not that that always stops me, but you won't find me on the microphone at karaoke.

I'm also really good at coming up with sarcastic commentary.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes and my hair, since they're both rather variable. Not to say that I change my eyes, but I switch between contacts and different glasses with some frequency. My hair style is always highly variable. Sometimes it works, others... well. Less so.

I've also been told I have a great smile, but it's hard to see since I usually have a look of disdain on my face. Or at least that's what my friends tell me. I, frankly, tend to dispute that part and focus on the nice smile. But yeah... the look of disdain definitely shows up a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have way too many favorites to list, but here goes:

For Books:

Now that I'm done with my dissertation, I can read for fun again. Lots of things already waiting. Strangely, a lot of those are similar to the dissertation books I just finished. Very excited about some books on privacy and judicial behavior. But I've also got some great fiction lined up. I hear this "Game of Thrones" thing is good. I may read that.

Past favorites include, anything by Dorothy Parker; The Count of Monte Cristo; The Three Musketeers; Les Liaisons Dangereuse; House of Mirth; Me Talk Pretty One Day; Love! Valour! Compassion!; Ender's Game; Eats, Shoots & Leaves; Bastard Out of Carolina; Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy; Rome & Juliet; Hamlet; Lord of the Rings; Wheel of Time. I'm sure there are others. I'm addicted to books, but picking favorites is hard.

For Music:

My roommate often reminds me that my iPod is like a really good retro night. Well, he says retro night. I assume he means a really good one.

But, seriously, some highlights include Cyndi Lauper, Debbie Gibson, ABBA, Madonna, The Carpenters, Nickel Creek, Sarah McLachlan, Tori Amos, Patty Griffin, Bernadette Peters, Erasure, Gregory Douglass, Brian W. Spencer, Indigo Girls, Stephen Sondheim, other musical theater, and other cheesy pop music.

I do like some current stuff, too. I've been enjoying the iTunes Radio feature a lot lately. But don't ask me what they're playing. It's good, but I don't always know what it is.

Movies:

I rarely go to the movies. I don't know why. I love movies. I should go more often. I especially like the Kendall Square Cinema and the movies they tend to show. I've yet to see something bad there.

Some movies I have seen that I loved are: Up, Love Me If You Dare, l'Auberge Espangole, Star Wars IV-VI, Labyrinth, House of Yes, When Harry Met Sally, The Princess Bride, Steel Magnolias, Pretty in Pink, Breakfast Club, Muriel's Wedding, Noises Off!, Saved, Neverending Story, Clue.

TV:

I'm not a huge TV viewer, either. At least I tell myself that. But I do usually have it on for background noise while I'm doing other things. When that's the case, there's a good chance it's Law & Order, in some incarnation. Probably the original or SVU. Rarely CI. If I had BBC-America, I'd watch the UK Version. Constantly. I love the wigs.

Now that "How I Met Your Mother" is over I don't know what to watch. I still have a season left on Downton Abbey. I suppose I could watch that. I've also been watching some web based shows.

For Food:

Chocolate. Anything that I've cooked (I collect cookbooks). Good pizza. 'Bad' Chinese food. Assorted fine teas. Peanut butter. Cheese (but not blue cheese). Pasta.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Books
2. Music
3. Tea
4. Camera
5. Notebooks/writing implements
6. Theater
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Theater I need to see. Traveling I need to do. Books I need to read. Books I need to write. The lack of time necessary in a single day to accomplish these things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm not sure there is a typical Friday. I could be out for a cocktail with some friends, watching a movie, reading a book, or working on an article. Typical is boring, right?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
As much as I loved law school and working on my Ph.D. (and I did! I swear!), sometimes I wish I'd stuck it out as a creative writing major. I suppose there's still time, right?
You should message me if
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you enjoy any of the same books or movies, or if you have a love for theater, particularly musical theater. A love of travel and intellectual conversation is also helpful.

But yeah... message me if you want. I'm not one to tell people what to do with their lives.