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51 F Asheville, NC

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 41–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 17
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids

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My self-summary
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I'm looking for someone who is positive, open-minded, confident, easy to talk to and compassionate toward others. He's young at heart, sexy and passionate about his journey. He can heat me up romantically as well as soothe my soul on difficult days. A great sense of humor will also win some bonus points.

I'm most comfortable connecting with someone who believes in equality and fairness for all. A progressive thinker who encourages social justice and tolerance. If you listen to FOX news, Rush Limbaugh or any other type of right wing conservative nonsense.. we will never be a good fit for each other.

I want to find what I haven't found before. I know it's out there.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Writing is my passion and it pays my bills. I wouldn't have it any other way.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
using my imagination.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile. I use it often.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love reading everything I can get my hands on, but if I had to limit my book collection to just a few, I would hang on to my short story collections. I love Colette, Guy de Maupassant, Raymond Carver, Flannery O'Conner, Jack London, et al. When it comes to music, I love Mumford & Sons, Modest Mouse, Cake, Raconteurs, Dire Straits, Foster the People, Norah Jones, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Rolling Stones -- oh I shouldn't have started listing favorites because there are too many. I like a man who is on the cutting edge of what's hot musically and who introduces me to new songs.

I'm all about downtown Asheville. It has a great vibe. I've lived here my entire life and remember the ghost town days of the late 80s. I love living in a diverse, progressive, creative atmosphere. I enjoy the craft beer scene, the Orange Peel, strolling through ZaPow, or working on my laptop in a fun place that offers wifi.

Strada, Chestnut and Wicked Weed are my current favorite restaurants downtown. Ben's Tune Up has amazing beer garden. Also love Modesto, Mamacita's, and hope to get to Blackbird soon.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids (2)
My Macbook Pro
My smart phone
The Internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What most things would taste like if chickens didn't exist.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
open to whatever possibilities arise.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not a morning person.
You should message me if
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you enjoy traveling, spending time outdoors, discovering new restaurants, laughing as much as possible and making the most of each day. That sounds kind of cliche, I know, but it's true.