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31 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–34
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:38am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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i was born and raised in brooklyn. im self deprecating and confident and self aware and i try to be funny - though im probably the one who laughs hardest at my jokes. i guess id say i have a big personality.
What I’m doing with my life
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i recently made a move into local government and i am active in the community in brooklyn where i live. im very much invested in my work. im serious about what i do, but i dont take myself so seriously.
I’m really good at
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connecting with people. i also know my way around brooklyn.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my curly hair and big glasses
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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i read mostly nonfiction. i like reading books about new york and progressive policy stuff. i dont think im as dorky as that sounds, but i may be in denial.

i usually have wnyc on in the background. i've got love for solomon burke and wilson pickett and nina simone and jonathan richman and especially gregory porter. i can usually find something i'm psyched to see at bam. i seriously love good food. i try to show up to as many places as i can with some dessert offering, because dessert breeds joy.
The six things I could never do without
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newspapers. caffeine. dessert. stoops. mountains. politics.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the little errands i can never quite seem to find time to take care of
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
im probably grabbing drinks or grub around bk with friends or working or just catching my breath at home or babysitting my nephew and letting my sister and brother in law get out for dinner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i somehow end up crying at an inordinate percentage of movies i watch on planes. i dont otherwise cry at movies, but planes have a weird way of getting me.
You should message me if
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you're alright.