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ehowru

29 M Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:51am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Used up
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Foreign-born Oregonian, Chicagoan of 5 years. I'm back on the left coast to build my professional life and establish roots in this fine city.

According to some friends, I'm a social broker, as in I am a common thread between many different people and connect them. This speaks some truth as two of my good friends met one another at one of my game nights and now they're married!

I am a proponent of social gaming, that is getting people to interact directly through games, have conversation, and maybe booze it up if they choose!

Simply put, I am looking for someone with whom to share my life on a physical, mental, and emotional level. Anything less is a compromise I'm not willing to take.

I am humorous, chivalrous, and occasionally brave.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
After knocking out my PhD in chemistry, I'm developing the next generation of microprocessors.

Outside of my professional life, I'm trying to maintain my friendships, making new ones, and working to be a part of a larger community.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
overanalyzing, listening, and giving amateur relationships advice. Dan Savage is one of my heroes.

I'm pretty good at doing and teaching chemistry. I wish I could still play viola as well as I used to.

I've been told I make a mean fried rice, which must come from my dad's side of the family.

I'd say I'm a good gamer, but I'm always learning to be a good winner and loser.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is that I'm tall... for an Asian. Racists.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books:
"If you aren't cute, you might as well be clever."
“All your questions can be answered, if that is what you want. But once you learn your answers, you can never unlearn them.”

Movies:
"You've got red on you."
"You shall not pass!"
"When life gives you lemonades, fuck the lemons and bail."

Shows:
"I'm saying you're a football player, it's in your blood."
"That's racist."
"Your soul?"
"That's racist."
"Your eyes?"
"That's gay."
"That's homophobic."
"That's black."
"That's racist!"
"Damn."

Music:
o/` You say too late to start
Got your heart in a headlock
I don't believe any of it

o/` I don't want to let you know
I drown in your memory

o/` Good times for a change
See the luck I've had could make a good man turn bad

Food:
Samurai Blue
Tamale Boy
Khob Khun
808 Grinds
Taste of Sichuan
Ruby Jewel
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- a purpose in life
- distractions
- delicious food
- restful sleep
- good friends
- good laughs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
past love, the current game that has got me obsessed, and what activities I can do with my friends in the near future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
probably watching a movie, having dinner with a cutie, and/or hosting a game/movie night. I might also just have a quiet night in after a difficult week. Otherwise, I'm probably at work.

Going out, I love trying at someplace new (and tasty) to eat, maybe over a gin and tonic, with something happening afterward.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is that I'm slowly getting jaded with the idea of "love" as time goes on.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 22–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... you're brave, around my age, and you're okay with uncertainty when it comes to relationships and life.

... you're happy to drag me along to do something new for either or both of us.

... you're a 7 or more out of 10. No one's a perfect 10.