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eightand_ahalf

44 / M / Straight / Single

Brooklyn, New York

His Details

Last Online
Today – 3:32am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English, Turkish (Poorly), Arabic (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm the kind of guy who really doesn't like writing self-summaries. I teach and write, I have a cat, I live in Brooklyn. Let's talk more when we meet.
What I’m doing with my life
On a good day, teaching, writing, editing, and maybe cooking.
I’m really good at
Remembering lyrics. Arguing about movies. Teaching literature. Knowing what to order in any restaurant. Talking to kids.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, my nose, and the fact that I speak too quickly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
In no particular order, and just as a start, Nick Flynn, Balzac, Junot Diaz, Raymond Carver, Yeats, Kenneth Koch, Frantz Fanon; 8 1/2 (no shit), Godard, Kieslowski, Coen Brothers, Godfather 1 and 2; Breaking Bad, Top Chef, Louie, Mad Men; Pixies, The Clash, Magnetic Fields; Japanese, Turkish, Italian, Vietnamese, Ethiopian........

I'm generally reading multiple things at the same time, right now that would be: re-reading Moustafa Bayoumi's How Does It Feel to Be a Problem? (I'm teaching that), Ovid's Metamorphosis (teaching that too), Anna Karenina (bedside book, my first time reading it)

Liking the new season of Mad Men and the occasional episode of Louie on Netflix.

Musical taste is eclectic to the point of ridiculousness. The two things I've been listening to alternately (and obsessively) this week are these: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SK75WCcUDkM and http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MzMZGL-Z2E4. Should give some idea.
The six things I could never do without
books
bread
email
movies
long walks
water water water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Deadlines, student papers, food, and these days, my purpose in life.
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't really have typical Fridays but I try not to be at crowded bars.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ask me in person.

(No, that's a snarky answer. How about this: I used to play bass in cover bands that specialized in what an ex once described as "white guy drinking music." But that's not really private or embarrassing. OK, forget it, just ask me in person...)

OK: I've been thrown out of 2 different countries. You can ask me more about that one.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Message me if you are kind, with a great sense of humor, open to new experiences, care about the world, and like deep thoughts and also very silly ones.