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eightmileswide

20 F Singapore, Singapore

My Details

Last Online
Jul 11
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Education
Working on university
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm Melissa, but some of my friends call me Miles.

When I'm not in the deep end of the Internet, I plow through Foucault because I am interested in being a good queer.

I also run, and might attempt an ultra marathon next year or the year after!

(INTP, if it matters! I've never tested differently.)
What I’m doing with my life
I was a law student for three semesters, and then I left. If things go my way I'll start again as a sociology and/or lit major in August 2014. In the mean time I'm gainfully employed.

I'm also a co-founder of The G Spot and an active member of The Purple Alliance, both LGBTQ advocacy groups.
I’m really good at
Feedback on my academic writing has been excellent, so it's probably fair to say I'm good at it!
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm tall - 5'6", and 5'9" with my favorite heels on.

Right now I have blue highlights - I like the look, so I'll probably keep it!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I studied Virginia Woolf's novels pretty obsessively when I was doing a research paper in JC (ask me about "Orlando"). I'm also a huge, huge fan of Alfian Sa'at.

The best things that happened to me recently are "Inglorious Basterds", and Murakami's "Kafka on the Shore".

Please talk to me about "Mean Girls".
The six things I could never do without
My running gear (shoes, watch, earpieces). My MacBook Air. My phone. My favorite black dress(es). Coffee. My wombat woolen hoodie.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Queer theory, feminism, local politics, identity, LGBTQ activism in Singapore, education, fat-shaming, eating disorders, disability, allyship, class, race, colonialism, power, gender, narratives of knowledge (related, historiography?), (a)sexuality, sex work, sex positivity, polyamory, sex education. I talk about them quite liberally, it might be the most embarrassing thing about hanging with me.
On a typical Friday night I am
If not at work, then at home Facebooking/Quora-ing. I can't hold more than one drink, I can't dance, and I get sleepy pretty early, so clubbing is wasted on me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a history with an eating disorder (anorexia). I was fourteen, and had a short relapse when I was eighteen. I've since recovered well.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 21–35
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You'd like to discuss techno-utopianism with me; or if you'd like to teach computer science to a luddite - I'm dabbling in these right now and could use guidance, direction, and truckloads of patience.

Please don't ask me about my history with an eating disorder unless you've done your homework.