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30 Birmingham, UK Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
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My details

Last online
Apr 6
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Science / Engineering
Has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Some people might say I'm a bit of a gamer, these people would be anyone who has spent any significant amout of time with me. Primarily consoles, although in my opinion 1st person games should only be played on PC.

The problem with mentioning certain games currently being played is that I have to keep updating the damn thing. Oh well. Right now I am savouring the anticipation from owning but not yet playing Assassins Creed 2 & am playing Mini Ninjas instead. I really enjoyed the 1st AC (despite the repetative nature, or maybe because of it, who knows) & have been looking forward to 2 since I 1st saw the short advert for it, it sent a chill through me.

One of my ex-housemates has a projector, I can't describe how amazing it is to play games projected onto the wall. Heats the room up a bit though.

This is version 3.1 of my profile, & yet everytime I seem to talk about games more than anything else.

Just for the record, I normally go by another name.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.

(Computer Aided Design, not Ctrl+Alt+Del, although I do enjoy that webcomic very much)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The Art thing, the Music thing, the Reading thing (although I supose that's less 'good at' more 'do alot')....procrastinating? that one's not a plus point is it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have recently started letting myself go into bookshops again. When I was in my 1st 2 years at University I tended to go into Waterstones on my free periods, eveytime I would come out with atleast one book. I think I have got over that now.

Music is a complicated one, & is best left to be asked/answered at your discretion.

I'd like to recomend the film Trolljegeren.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no specific order:

Music, Computers, Books, Sex, Games, Cars.

(A couple of the reserves are Art, Curiosity & Sleep)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Not a lot of time, but right now I am wondering whether its terrible to change your answers to questions when you realise you got them wrong.


That damn progress bar, top left. How the hell am I supposed to get to 1000 words, it is making the gamer in me twitch
.... Must .... 100% ....

So now the progress bar is gone, I didn't get to 100%, and that is even worse!

Edit: Completion bar is back & telling me I have to rate 100 people. First of all, I wish it told me how many of the 100 I've done & secondly I'm not sure how I feel about the fact that my task has changed (although this one is probably more achievable than the last)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It wasn't that long ago that I was in edwards no.8 every Friday, unfortunately that burned down.

Now it seems that there are few things to do on a Friday, but then, there are other days.

NB. Sadly by now it was a long time ago.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think it is ridiculous to assume we are alone in the Universe.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Alright. I have had enough of people I have zero interest in sending me messages. Whilst looks are most certainly not everything, I am particular. Time to be needlessly specific. Talk to me if any 3 or more of the following describe you.

- Tall
- Slim
- Blonde
- Tattoos
- Piercings
- Long hair
- A penchant for Gaming
- An enjoyment of Festivals
- An inclination towards the Alternative

(Wonder if this will be off putting for those to whom it shouldn't...)

(...or perhaps not putting off enough of them.)