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45 Pittsburgh, PA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35-65
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating, casual sex

My details

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5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
My self-summary
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05/0/14 - I know I have flaked out on contacting at least two perfectly attractive (personality and looks) people who emailed me. I am really sorry. I blame my job, I am working a whole lot with a lot of overtime and stress and I am forgetting about stuff that is not directly related to 1) work 2) basic functions of life (food, shelter, cleaning the cats' litterbox, etc.) Hopefully soon things will calm down to where I actually will be able to make the effort to meet some of you. Until then, if I flake out, forgive me!

10/18/12 - I don't do instant message chatting! I hate it! Also, please use proper English spelling, grammar and punctuation when writing. I'm too old for text-speak.

10/15/12 - To all I haven't written back: I'm sorry. I'm getting a lot of responses. Sometimes you get lost in the shuffle.

I really feel like I should put in here that I am overweight, perhaps you can't tell from the picture but I am. I seem to be getting a lot of "athletic" and "fit" types. I don't fit that description at all!

Nerd Girl all the way.

PS: I'm not really interested in a serious relationship (I'm not really cut out for relationships!) I'm here to look for a bit of fun. If you are looking for marriage and babies you are looking at the wrong profile!

One really important thing, I don't drive but I can get around (taxis if need be)
What I’m doing with my life
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Not so much right now. I have a job and friends and hobbies. I'm reasonably content (as much as anybody really can be)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at knitting, stupid trivia, making glass beads, listening to people, making snarky remarks, naps.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anne Perry and other murder stories, Harry Potter (shut up), Pop Science (Brian Greene, Michio Kaku, etc.), Love and Rockets comics, Books about my crafting interests (Glass work and knitting), oh, do Pathfinder source books and modules count?
Movies: Sense and Sensibility, the Piano, Cabaret
TV: Star Trek; Doctor Who; Warehouse 13; 30 Rock; Community; Judge Judy
Music: Sparks, Gary Numan, 80s Punk and New Wave mostly
Food: All kinds of ethnic (Indian is my favorite)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Ipad,
My Kitties
My Sense of humor
My brain
Star Trek in all its incarnations
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Oy vey. I spend too much time thinking sometimes. I'm one of those people who lives in their head.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I do often see friends for dinner and board games. I'm too damn old for bars/clubs.
You should message me if
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you are not too needy or clingy. I would prefer that you host because my apartment is a mess and I spend too much time here anyway!