Honesty with me and with yourself is a must with me. I do hold a high respect for those dates that I go on, things don't work out for them, and they say something early on. Honesty in the relationship goes a long way especially if I am made aware of boundries in the beginning.
Humor is a must, as well. I appreciate good humor, and taking yourself not too seriously is a very attractive quality to me. The humor I am not really into is stand up comedy. I do clowning occasionally, and have done improv, and will find humor in most situations.
I am now involved with a group in the KGC (Kinetic Grand Championship), and have made some very solid friendships in the Kinetic Universe. I have taken up cycling due to my involvement and love it.
Upon occasion I do dress as a gorilla for a show for Access Humboldt.
Unfortunately, I am not a fan of online dating. Trying to assess a person from a written essay can be way off the mark of who they truly are. Not had too much luck, but hey, I will keep on trying.
Ultimately, what I am looking for, is somebody to share life with. Life in itself is an experience. Someone to talk about my day, or be iinvolved with in that day. I have my busy times and my down times and value both equally. In the long run, if things work out well, a romantic partnership. I am a very generous person, and will give of myself to those I care about and respect. I can get letters of references for that one. I am very willing to support, but need for it to be reciprocated, and follow the guidelines of the "Fifth Element" on respecting my partner" Never without her permission.