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el_digital_don

44 M Somerville, MA

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:42pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I live the Cambridge area, but lived in and around the Boston metro area for years now. Live in Porter Sq, work in the computer industry down by South Station. Because I bicycle to work, I enjoy listening to books rather than reading (and when riding my bike, the pedestrians thank me, too).

I am a little geek, a little goofy, very smart, often clever, and occasionally thick. But this all makes for a fun, entertaining package.

I grew up in Tampa, FL with most of my extended family. When my parents divorced, I moved to Maine with my Mom leaving the rest of my family in FL. Went to High School and lived in Bar Harbor, Maine for over 15 years. Just before y2k, I was encouraged to come to Boston to do some contract work and I have been here in the Boston area ever since. While in FL, my South Carolina Baptist Grandmother taught me a thing or two about manners and polite. My stint in Maine taught me how to speak plainly and to the point. (No sense in wastin' werds.) And living here in Boston is somewhere in between. Still get enough strange looks when I say, "Thank you, have a nice day" and holding doors for people. I don't let "them" wear me down. I take in stride by saying on a long elevator ride, "Do the noises in my head bother you?" (Which is reference to "The Gods Must Be Crazy".)

I have found living and working in the city is for me. Walking, bicycling, T'ing around is my speed. Let the cars live in grid lock, I'll zoom down in between.

I am motorcycle guy currently without a motorcycle. My last bike (an '83 Kawasaki LTD 454, belt drive) crushed by a woman in a car on a cell phone. I broke my nose, but otherwise walked away from the accident. A couple years later, I delivered a Virago 800 from Boston to Orlando in the third week of March. It was 38 and drizzling, and by the time I made to Arlington, VA, my face was painful from all the smiling I was doing. I
What I’m doing with my life
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I enjoy leisurely athletic activity, walking/hiking not running, touring not racing, etc. I make the candles I burn and give away. Big movies are for the theater, some movies are good to cuddle at home with. I'm a bit of a gear-head, Android owner after ten years of using Palm,fair pool player, avid bicycle rider, motorcycle rider, regular sailing trips, and into walking, hiking, just being outside!



I moved to Central Sq a couple years ago and I am still finding new places in the area. And I am loving it. I like getting out and watching the world as I am walking somewhere or sitting a having some coffee.



I took up Ballroom Dancing lessons a year ago. I couldn't carry a beat in a bag, I got my left and my right mixed up often, and I have broken two toes with my "stompy" clomping I able gallop out. Sooooo, the group lessons are getting rid of the "stompy" part of my gait (almost light on my feet now), starting to hear the beat at the same time I try to dance(that is coming really slow), kinda "side stepping" (ouchie pun) by memorizing the steps, and overcome one of the few areas were I am self conscious (generally, I am an extrovert). So it is happening little by little. I am so confident at this point, I have been out in public, with no broken toes to report Yippie me!



And, I have been taking the time to do some of the things to take care of myself. I had a long standing, long overdue visit with dental surgeon to remove all four of my impacted wisdom teeth, started the afore mentioned dancing, buying more tickets to live music, live theater performance, etc, Started being a Big Brother all in 2006, and now my "Little" is 15 and is no longer little, but is now a young man..

I’m really good at
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  • Talking up a storm. And, often, even making sense. I love to share stories and knowledge.


  • Enjoying the outdoors sailing (top notch), biking (driving to endanger), and walking (have to slow down to a walk sometime)


  • Great hugger and pretty darn good kisser (from what I have been told


  • Figuring and pondering things out. Lends well to my job in the computer industry, but that is not the only thing. I like tinkering with things to see how they work.


  • Pretty darn good with computers
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have been told over and over again that my eyes have it. Other comments have been my smile and laugh, humor (good and bad), shiny shaved head and energy (lots of energy). Most of the time, I am like the Energizer Bunny. And I have been told that I younger than my age (read: not immature, but kid at heart).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I listen to all sorts of Books on tape on my way to and from. I can't say I can pick one out. I like SciFi (like Asimov, Larry Nivin), but then I need a fix of Fanstasy (like JK Rowling, Orson Scott Card), and then some mindless action (like R Ludlum)

Movies: I am all over SciFi movies like Pitch Black, Star Wars, Star Trek, FireFly. They are guity pleasures. I'll sit thru a "Summer Movie" like Batman Begins, Jurrasic Park, etc if it is hot out. And I like to catch quirky or unusual movies like "Lock, Stock, and Two Smoking Barrels" or "The Gods Must Be Crazy"



Music: Ouph. I gravitate to classic 70s rock. But I have a "sweet tooth" some types of classical. I have a colllection of movie sound tracks (I can almost relive the movie in the theater of my mind as the music plays). Small collection of alternative and house (ya ya, guilty pleasure). Overall, I can enjoy a *wide* range of music, but it depends on the moment. HUMANWINE and Emperor Norton's Stationary Marching Band and Mucca Puzza come to mind as recent live shows.



Food: Food? FOOD??!? Just don't call me "Late for dinner". While I love steak, I don't eat it unless it is really good or I am cooking it. Salads and fresh fruits keep my engine running clean, but I do love the deep dish double cheese with everything pizza, or lasanga, or Indian food so hot it dissolves the stomach lining. Sushi comes to mind.

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
  1. A place that I can call "home base", doesn't have to be much, but a place I can go to regroup and recharge now and again.
  2. My good health, both mental and physical
  3. Serenity
  4. Wallet with ID (we are moving towards a police state yet), just enough cash, and one credit card
  5. Pocket knife, keys (house, bike lock, etc)
  6. Treo 755p (well I can do without but my brain is in there, phone numbers, appointments, MP3s, email, web browser, GPS maps, gosh and oh my)


I keep looking at this list and realize that I could strip away a good deal of the materialistic stuff. NOTE TO DON: You best do that, there are better things than cash.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How things work. I look around and wonder how windy it is outside by looking at the trees. Or wonder where a person is coming from or going to based on what they are carrying. I think about the technology around us. Not the technology that man has made, the technology nature has made.

Useful application of human technology. The less obtrusive, less imposing, more intuitive, the better. I spend time thinking about how my contribution to the computer industry helps, rather than hinders society.

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
All over the map.. Some nights, at home, watching a movie, maybe just vegging out (if it was a hard week), spending time with friends shooting pool, bowling (purely for humorous amusement), noodling on my computer or driving out of the state on some weekend adventure, or just going out and people watching somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I amuse myself with the occasional amusingly specific CraigsList Casual Encounters ads.
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"What could possibly go wrong? "