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41 M Renton, WA

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  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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Last Online
Yesterday – 8:19pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Graduated from two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I am first and foremost an artist, father, and spiritually aware. Currently I live and work at a mission downtown Seattle helping out with donation pickup and delivery, maintaining the facilities, and feeding and housing the homeless. I'm very much working toward making a difference in this world and improving my spiritual well being while reducing my tendency for selfish behavior, there is much too much of that going around these days. I've worked at the mission for seven months now and I believe I've accomplished what I set out to do, time to move on. I'd like to stay in Seattle proper and have a house with a working studio, we'll see what happens. My painting has been gaining attention and I'm kind of excited to see where that goes. I'm in no hurry for a relationship, but it doesn't hurt to put myself out there, you never know when the right person might take a turn into your life. It reminds me of one of my favorite quotes, from Dr. Seuss "We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone who's weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love."

Edit: As of September 23 I'm now living and working in Renton, yay! It's not Seattle, but it's a very lovely neighborhood and great for walking, although the hills are kicking my butt when I go jogging...
What I’m doing with my life
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I've always been an artist, since I could pick up a crayon. I've been in many directions with it; painting, sculpting, ceramics, etc. If there is a form of art, I've tried it. I'm at the point in my life where I need to focus my efforts in a single direction. I've decided to go in the direction of theatre. The last couple of years I've been doing special effects makeup, beauty makeup, set design, costume design and the like. I love working with my hands and improvising with limited materials. At first I felt I wanted to get involved with film production, but since then I've worked on several productions (Shrek the musical, Sweeny Todd, Fahrenheit 451, Les Miserables, Spamalot) and have fallen in love with theatre. It uses all the various talents I have and I believe it's the path for my life.
I’m really good at
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Anything I set my mind to.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height, I'm 6'3". My curly hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like any well written book, but I tend toward science fiction. My favorite authors would have to be Ursula K. Leguin, Orson Scott Card, Arthur C. Clarke, Kim Stanley Robinson, Dan Simmons, among others. Oddly enough, anything written by George Lucas, in my opinion, is complete rubbish.

I also enjoy well written TV series, Game of Thrones, Modern Family, MasterChef, Breaking Bad, Battlestar Galactica, House (RIP), The Office (also RIP), etc...

My music taste tends toward the mellow side, I'm starting to dig some electronica with soaring choruses while I'm painting, it really matches well with the weird things I paint, aggro/depressing/shallow music is out, and that seems to encompass rap, country, and Justin Bieber.

I love to cook, to varying degrees of success, and will try any cuisine at least once, there aren't many I haven't tried already.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hot tea with lemon and honey
A great novel
My trusty laptop
Fresh fruit

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be of service. And my next painting.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading, painting, cooking, watching a movie, taking a walk, and hopefully sometime soon enjoying good company.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a recovering alcoholic and I attend AA meetings every day, and for the rest of my life. My sobriety comes before all because without it, nothing in life is worthwhile. This doesn't mean you can't drink, I'm totally fine with that, it's just not an option for me. If this immediately turns you off, then we are certainly not meant to be together. And might I suggest a little more open mindedness in the future, people do change when they honestly want to.
You should message me if
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You want a man who lives by the principles of Honesty, Hope, Faith, Courage, Integrity, Willingness, Humility, Love, Justice, Perseverance, Spirituality, and Service.