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33 M San Francisco, CA

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6′ 3″ (1.91m)
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Working on masters program
Art / Music / Writing
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Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
My personality profile on here makes me sound like a really nice and creative dog. Haha

I have dedicated most of my life to the arts, writing in particular, but also other areas. Learning and growing as a person has been very important to me. But laughing and just being and enjoying are not at all lost on me. I am serious sometimes but also often rather surprisingly silly.

I've lived my life in my own unique way--but of course many people do at least to some degree. My own path has been much more bohemian than professional, but I am trying to find a balance now that I am nearly finished with my master's degree. But in the past I have lived in hostels and motels, on couches and floors, in tiny studios or shared spaces: and also have nearly gone hungry and eaten from food banks or from gift cards people have given me--all the while writing. These experiences have really shaped me, and I appreciate the privileges that I have.

It always seemed to me that I worked to be the best artist I could, and that I thought great art had great meaning. But it wasn't until the past couple years that I realized in many ways what I was doing was (while not at all religious or based on a particular ideology/philosophy/belief) spiritual in the sense of being more directed towards the spirit of people and nature (in a real life more than metaphysical kind of way). I say this because people ask me what I write, and what I have done doesn't really fit easily into categories, and because I think this says a lot about who I am and what I value.

My self some of me. Myself sum of me. Some array of some sum of me.
What I’m doing with my life
Grad school in adult education

Taking pictures with my phone. Wandering the city with a lust for life.
I’m really good at
Coming up with different ideas. Using written words/language in expressive ways. Introducing people to new things. Sometimes cooking. Caring. Being honest. Being kind of naughty.
The first things people usually notice about me
Intensity. Tallness. Tattoos.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Currently reading: Out of Our Minds: Learning to be Creative by Ken Robinson. Books about music making. Books about creativity. Books with pretty pictures. Good poetry and short stories. Myths, folktales. I don't go for anything too sterilized.

Movies: Her, Pasonlini, El Topo, Will Ferrell.
TV Shameless, anything funny, good dramas with an ongoing story.

The Kills. Queens of the Stone Age. Beth Gibbons/Portishead. Bonnie 'Prince' Billy/Will Oldham. Bo Diddley. Chuck Berry. Nick Cave. Billie Holiday. The Doors. PJ Harvey. Charles Mingus. Espers. Cat Power. Leonard Cohen. John Coltrane. Pablo Casals. The Modern Lovers. Nina Simone. The Ramones. The Velvet Underground. Hank Williams Sr. Bob Dylan. Iggy Pop. The Cramps. Nico. Vashti Bunyan. Bach. Devendra Banhart. The New York Dolls. Manitas De Plata. Ella Fitzgerald. Sex Pistols. Dick Dale. Thelonious Monk. Sibelius. Huun-huur Tu. Maria Callas. Black Sabbath. The Knife. Gnarls Barkley. Cee-lo (old stuff). Toumani Diabate. The Doors. Wolf Parade. Jimi Hendrix. The Libertines. Brian Jonestown Massacre. Glenn Gould. Townes Van Zant. Johnny Cash. Joanna Newsom. Beirut. Neutral Milk Hotel. Silver Jews. Songs Ohia. Eivis. Joy division. Shuggie Otis. Okkervil River. Sharon Jones & The Dap Kings. Sigor Ros. Tom Waits. Miles Davis. Patsy Cline. Old recordings of world music that sound almost like they are from another planet. Planetary sounding world music old and new. Other things. Classic American blues and old-time roots recordings. Lots of other people, bands and things. Music from many times and places. Lots of other music too.

Food: Yum.
The six things I could never do without
Music to listen to. Self expression. Intimacy. Humor. Sensuality. Sunshine. Family and a few good friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The best answer for this question.
On a typical Friday night I am
Having dinner, playing guitar, out at an event, watching a movie, going for a walk and talking to other people's dogs.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–37
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You care about people and the arts. You are at least somewhat grounded, and you generally have a positive attitude. You can and do laugh. You want to meet in person.

You feel the feeling. You are moved by the movement.