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36 M Venice, CA

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Native American, White
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
I'm an single Dad with a brilliant, creative, wild eyed and care-free little dude who is almost 7. We live in Venice half a block from the beach.

I love to run and bike on the beach, hike, surf, swim, skate, climb, practice yoga and martial arts. We go camping whenever possible..Yosemite, Big Sur, Joshua Tree or take a last minute break to Rio Carillo in Malibu for a night.

Bonfires, rainy days, painting, reading and writing stories, poetry, forts, misadventures, researching how to do something, picnics, parks, backyards, lawnchairs, rosebowl, museums, road trips, 30 second super-underground dance parties, riddles, boardgames, absurdity..and whatever mischief can be found.
I am obsessed with music, books, film and art. I play different instruments, and I sing uncontrollably.

I grew up in San Francisco and i miss it a lot. I have three sisters in the bay area, so we drive up quite often.
We eat healthy most of the time..mostly vegetarian. I love to cook. We are at the farmers market every week. Spices are exciting to me.

This is kind of personal but I think transparency in this case is warranted.... My son's beloved Mom passed when he was 14 months old (6 years ago). It's been a difficult transition.. but life happens.. We are doing good, happy and complete, and I have grown SO much from the experience.
His Nana lives close by and loves to spend time with him. She scoops him up Thursday after school and keeps him over the weekend. He loves gardening with her. I'll pick him up Sunday morning for a hike or something fun. So this opens up those evenings for me to go out, or stay home and relax. I've been kind of a homebody lately.

I'm hoping to meet inspired, interesting people in my area just to hang out and create with.

As far as what i'm looking for in a partner:: Someone with a big heart, a wild imagination, spiritual, who lives in gratitude and appreciation for what she has, lives in the present, is passionate and creative in her work whatever that might be, lives to help others and our planet, , communicates well, doesn't harbor resentments, is introspective, believes in magick, the universe as a force, embraces change, enjoys deep and sometimes abstract conversation, shares many of the same interests, reads constantly, has good style, likes the rosebowl, reletively similar taste in music would be cool, and loves animals and kids!
What I’m doing with my life
Growing. Listening. Being creative.
I’m really good at
Being a Dad. Making lists. Showing up. Music. Doing hair. Finding gems at flea markets. Playlists. Making fun of myself..and others. Making salads. Making up words. Doodling. Untangling my headphones. Recycling. Foot massages. Kissing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
("Man overboard!!")

Beatles, Stones, Zombies, VelvetUnderground, LouReed, NeilYoung, HarryNilsson, BigStar, RoyOrbison, TheCure, FleetwoodMac, DjangoReinhardt, MilesDavis, BoDiddley, TownsVanZandt, Donovan, Kinks, PublicEnemy, RobertJohnson, MuddyWaters, LittleRichard, Ramones, Creation, BlueCeer, JohnnyThunders, Leadbelly, AlJolson, RichieValens, ModernLovers, ChambersBrothers, Stooges, Dylan, Bowie, T-Rex, Pulp, GaryNuman, TommyJamesandtheShondells, TheSeeds, LeonardCohen, BertJansch, JoeMeek, PatsyCline, LindaRondstadt, SkipSpence, HankWilliams, SamCooke, EverlyBrothers, Temptations, EttaJames, BillieHoliday, NinaHagen, NinaSimone, BobbyDarin, DollyParton, Carpenters, BuddyHolly, GGAllin, KimFowley, BlindWillieMcTell, SydBarrett, Jimi, StatusQuo, Love, WalkerBrothers, FrankiValli, AliceCooper, Troggs, NewYorkDolls, FlaminGroovies, Spacemen3, Sabbath, Goblin, LedZeppelin, Queen, Parliment, Mudhoney, DeadMoon, Zappa, Can, LittleDragon, TerryRiley, CrystalCastles, Plasmatics, UFO, JamesWhite, Plastics, StrawberrySwitchblade, Pandoras, Kingsmen, GrizzlyBear, PandaBear, AnimalCollective, TheGrowlers, RealEstate, GuidedByVoices, Mummies, PointerSisters, Heart, Vaselines, Saints, Zeros, DeadBoys, Clash, LordsOfTheNewChurch, PsychicTV, Bananarama, Jane'sAddiction, GunsNRoses, Television, DrDre, LinkWray, GeneVincent, DelShannon, Elvis, EddieCochran, Otis, CaptainBeefheart, GeorgeHarrison, BuffaloSpringfield, DelShannon, WandaJackson, JohnCale, SuziQuatro, PleasureSeekers, CheapTrick, Slayer, BeastieBoys, ElectricWizzard, MCEiht, Snoop, JesusAndMaryChain, BeachBoys, Byrds, Band, WillieNelson, MazzyStar, Opal, ReddKross, FlamingLips, CatStevens, RoxyMusic, Prince, Replacements, Pixies, Smiths, JoyDivision, NewOrder, Neu!, DeadCanDance, Berlin, Siouxie&TheBanshees, TelevisionPersonalities, Bauhaus, Devo, DepecheMode, SistersOfMercy, GoKartMotzart, Felt, Jellyfish, HumanLeague, Cars, JamesBrown, Suicide, ThrobbingGristle, VonHaze, Swans, SwellMaps, SilverApples, SunRa, SergeGainsbourg, ArthurBrown, FrancoisHardy, SylvieVartan, JaquesDutronc, Chantel Goya, EnnioMorricone, JohnZorn, NickDrake, LeeHazelwood, Nico, Outkast, RickJames, Meters, 13thFloorElevators, Animals, Rascals, PrettyThings, SonicYouth, BikiniKill, LeTigre, HuggyBear, PJHarvey, CCR, IggyPop, PattiSmith, Suede, DwightTwilleyBand, TomPetty+Heartbreakers, TheBeat, Television, Runaways, GunClub, Cramps, X, BrianJonestownMassacre, Warlocks, SlickRick, TheAssociation, TheClique, Astronauts, Ventures, ToddRundgren, SingaporeSling, MBV, WoodenShjips, BlackAngels, BlackLips, APlaceToBurryStrangers, BeachHouse, Blouse, OhSees, RadioDept., Broadcast, SigurRos, Slowdive, SerenaManeesh, AmonDuul, Ride, TheChurch, NeutralMilkHotel, Verve, Spiritualized, XTC, MyBloodyValentine, Loop, Telescopes, Pastels, TeenageFanclub, YoLaTengo, ArielPink, KateBush, MoodyBlues, TheCrystals, ShangriLas, Shirelles, MaryWells, GTOs, LorettaLynn, SmallFaces, DollyMixture, Raincoats, BillyChildish, StoneRoses, La's, AllahLa's,, KingTuff, Buzzcocks, Fugazi, NickCave+BadSeeds, Can, Magma, Raveonettes, Air, WildNothing, Wilco, ScreaminJayHawkins, ShadowsOfKnight, BurtBacherach, FredNeil, GlenCambell, WestCoastExperimentalPopGroup, Kraftwork, Chrome, Easybeats, ACDC, Sweet, MilesDavis, Coltrane, Mingus, TheloniousMonk, SUN RA

old blues , ragtime, or jazz on a rainy day .. KXLU, KCRW, Classical.. Motzart, Bach, Beethoven, Stravinsky, Tchaikovsky, Ravel

Steinbeck, Twain, Poe, Rimbaud, Henry Miller, Wilde, TSEliot, Dostiefsky, Nabavov, DalaiLama, Blake, BlackElk, Wolfe, Baudelaire, Verlaine, StephenKing, Artaud, JeanJenet, Sun-tzu, Corso, Murakami, RamDass, Rumi, Heschel, Jabes, Kerouac, Bukowski, Salinger, Ginsberg, Ferlinghetti, KennethYasuda, GeorgesBataille, Neruda, JimCarroll, KenKesey, AynRand, TomWolf, LewisCarroll, Dickens, CSLewis, DrSuess, ShelSilverstein, AldousHuxley, RobertLuisStevenson, JackLondon, KurtVonnegut, Vollmann, JosephConrad, HunterSThompson, OscarZetaAcosta, CollinWilson, Iceberg Slim, TennesseeWilliams, Hemmingway, Orwell, Kafka, HGWells, Hesse, Borges, Camus, HPLovecraft, Masoch, St.JohnPerse, Michaux, HarukiMurakami, MiyamotoMusashi, AldousHuxley, Tolstoy, StephenHawking, Brautigan, PhillipKDick, LeonardCohen, Lorca, PercyShelley, Rechy, Robbins, Masoch, ToniMorrison, Lovecraft, Milton, Zinn, Woody Gutherie, HarperLee, Neitzsche, EdnaStVincentMillay, Ballard, Homer, Proust, DiPrima, DylanThomas, JackLondon, Plath (yep), AndreBreton, Celine, Burroughs, RichardHell, Heller, LesterBangs, Frost, Rilke, NationalGeographic, Autobiographies, JustKids-PattiSmith, CrystalChildren, The Lost Book Of Enki, WarOfArt, Psychomagic, Popism

Kubrick, Lynch, Polanski, Jodorowsky, Godard, Cassavettes, Fellini, Wood, Hitchcock, Argento, MichelangeloAntonioni, Aldrich, Scorsese, Coppola, Corman, DePalma, Raimi, Romero, TobeHooper, Kurosawa, HenriGeorgesClouzot, JoelCohen, Brothers Quay, Jarmuch, Newmeyer, Gilliam, Guest, RobReiner, VanSant, TodSollandz, HarmonyCorine, Bertolucci, Herzog, Rossellini, Nabakov, KennethAnger, PTAnderson, WesAnderson, JimHenson, DennisHopper, Waters, Price, RussMeyer, Steckler, KenRussel, Carax, SamPeckinpah, LarsVonTrier, AbelFerrara, OrsenWells, Chaplin, WoodyAllen, Altman, Cronenberg, OliverStone, Warhol, CityOfGod, GreyGardens, BlueVelvet, ElTopo, ClintEastwood, Xanadu, Harold&Maude, Adaptation, Badlands, Sirius, MarxBros. ,PaulNewman, WarrenBeatty, BelaLugosi, BetteDavis, PeterSellars, BillMurrey, FredWillard, CriterionCollection..
My son likes AdventureTime, RegularShow, Uncle Grandpa, SpiritedAway, Ponyo, anything HayaoMiyazaki.

Sienfeld, Three'sCompany, MiamiVice, DarkShadows, FawltyTowers, GoldenGirls, CosbyShow, Roseanne, Columbo, TwinPeaks, X-files, TalesFromTheDarkside, TrueDetective, AmericanHorrorStory, Curb, FreshPrince, BreakingBad, GameOfThrones, Portlandia, BillMaher, TEDTalks, SurvivorMan, MyStrangeAddiction, TwilightZone, SpaceGhost, Lavern&Shirley..

Food:: Pho

Art:: Degenerate

Ansel Adams
The six things I could never do without
Why just six?
Son/love, friends/family, animals/nature, laughter/fun, clouds/roadtrips, rain/music, beach/naps/chairs, tea/coffee/books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Release/letting go of judgements and focusing my energy on the positive
My Son Owen
My sisters
The appocolypse
Friends, family..strangers
Nachos from RealFoodDaily
Endangered species/saving animals
How insane this world is
How we are all connected
Space time continuum
Black holes
Vortex cabinets
What if's..
Places I want to go
The earth without humans
Deep sea
I wish I was raised by wolves
Coast redwoods
How i can be better
Where I parked
What's for dinner
Tree houses
Who ate the raisens??
Unusual film/story ideas
Fantasia has no boundries
On a typical Friday night I am
Dinner with friends
Playing music with friends
Evening bike rides
Home. Book. Tea
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I study Ninjutsu.

I can't blow a bubble yet.

UPDATE: I still can't blow a bubble, yet..
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 18–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Extra points if you ride an 80s road bike or skate.

Hopefully you won't have a picture with a mustache. Tiger pics are always cool..and yoga poses on top of a mountain.. uhuh..toootaly ;-)