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My self-summary
Single Dad. Aries. My son is almost 8. Cancer. We live in Venice half a block from the beach.

I am as active as possible with my crazy schedule. I run and bike on the beach.. hike..skate..climb..surf..practice yoga and martial arts. My son is a little gymnist. We go camping whenever possible..Yosemite, Big Sur, Joshua Tree or take a last minute break to Malibu for a night.

I am a hairdresser, work in commercial real estate and design children's clothing (+ very straight;))

You may notice that I am obsessed with music, books, film and art and culture. I play different instruments, and I sing uncontrolably.

I grew up in San Francisco in the inner Richmond/Haight Ashbury area. I have three sisters in the bay area, so we drive up a lot.

I love cooking. Plant based. I haven't committed to vegan yet.. We are at the farmers market every week.

This is kind of personal but I think transparency is warranted.... My son's Mom passed when he was a year old. It was devestating and a very difficult transition. It's been over 7 years and we are happy and complete:-) I have grown so much from this experience..
His Nana lives close by and loves spending time with him so i do have help;)

I'm hoping to meet inspired, interesting people to hang out and create with.

As far as what i'm looking for in a relationship.. Someone with big heart, tough, funny, likes my dry humor, has a wild imagination, who lives in gratitude and appreciation for what she has, lives in the present, embraces the unknown, is passionate and creative in her work, lives to help others, and the planet, communicates well , doesn't harbor resentments, is introspective, shares interests, is curious, loves to read, likes the rosebowl, relatively similar taste in music would be cool, loves animals, and kids.
What I’m doing with my life
Growing. Listening. Loving. Being creative.
I’m really good at
Being authentic. Showing up. Being a Dad. Staying positive. Doing hair. Finding gems at flea markets. Making lists. Making fun of myself..and others. Making salads. Making up words. Mario Kart. Doodling. Untangling my headphones. Recycling. Foot massages
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Beatles, Stones, Zombies, VelvetUnderground, LouReed, Iggy Pop, TheStooges, NeilYoung, TheReplacements, HarryNilsson, BigStar, RoyOrbison, TheCure, FleetwoodMac, GillianWelch, TownsVanZandt, Donovan, Kinks, PublicEnemy, RobertJohnson, MuddyWaters, Ramones, JohnnyThunders, Leadbelly, ModernLovers, ChambersBrothers, Stooges, Dylan, Bowie, T-Rex, Pulp, DeadCanDance, LisaGerard, TommyJames&Shondells, TheSeeds, LeonardCohen, BertJansch, JoeMeek, TameImpala, PatsyCline, LindaRondstadt, HankWilliams, SamCooke, Otis, EverlyBrothers, AlGreen, Temptations, EttaJames, BillieHoliday, NinaHagen, NinaSimone, DollyParton, Carpenters, BuddyHolly, KimFowley, BlindWillieMcTell, SydBarrett, Jimi, Love, WalkerBrothers, FrankiValli, AliceCooper, Troggs, NewYorkDolls, FlaminGroovies, Spacemen3, Sabbath, Zep, Queen, LittleDragon, TerryRiley, TheFall, CrystalCastles, Cold Cave, SkinnyPuppy, SamTheShamAndThePaharoahs, WhiteFence, The OhSees, AnimalCollective, GuidedByVoices, Mummies, Heart, Vaselines, Saints, Zeros, DeadBoys, Clash, LordsOfTheNewChurch, PsychicTV, Jane'sAddiction, GunsNRoses, NWA, Television, DrDre, LinkWray, DelShannon, Elvis, EddieCochran, Otis, GeorgeHarrison, RaviShankar, BuffaloSpringfield, DelShannon, WandaJackson, JohnCale, SuziQuatro, CheapTrick, BeastieBoys, MCEiht, Snoop, JesusAndMaryChain, BeachBoys, Byrds, Band, WillieNelson, MazzyStar, CatStevens, RoxyMusic, Prince, Replacements, Pixies, Smiths, JoyDivision, NewOrder, Neu!, GaryNuman, Berlin, Siouxie&TheBanshees, TelevisionPersonalities, Bauhaus, DM, SistersOfMercy, GoKartMotzart, Felt, Jellyfish, HumanLeague, Cars, JamesBrown, Suicide, ThrobbingGristle, VonHaze, RoyalTrux, Kills, BRMC, SilverApples, SergeGainsbourg, FrancoisHardy, EnnioMorricone, NickDrake, LeeHazelwood, Nico, Outkast, TheMeters, 13thFloorElevators, Animals, Rascals, PrettyThings, TheWho, SmallFaces, SonicYouth, CicconeYouth, HuggyBear, PJHarvey, CCR, IggyPop, PattiSmith, Suede, DwightTwilley, TomPetty&Heartbreakers, TheBeat, Television, Runaways, GunClub, Cramps, X, BrianJonestownMassacre, Warlocks, SlickRick, TheAssociation, Ventures, ToddRundgren, SingaporeSling, MBV, WoodenShjips, BlackAngels, BlackLips, BeachHouse, RadioDept, Broadcast, SigurRos, Slowdive, AmonDuul ll, Ride, TheChurch, NeutralMilkHotel, GrizzlyBear, Verve, Spiritualized, XTC, MyBloodyValentine, Loop, Telescopes, Pastels, TeenageFanclub, YoLaTengo, ArielPink, KateBush, MoodyBlues, Them, TheCrystals, ShangriLas, Shirelles, LorettaLynn, DollyMixture, TelevisionPersonalities, StoneRoses, TheLa's, TheAllahLas, KingTuff, Buzzcocks, Fugazi, NickCave&BadSeeds, Can, CaptainBeefheart, Zappa, Raveonettes, Air, WildNothing, Wilco, ScreaminJayHawkins, WestCoastExperimentalPopGroup, TalkingHeads, TheSweet, DustySpringfield, MilesDavis, Coltrane, Mingus, TheloniousMonk, SUN RA

50s rocknroll + doo wop, 60s pop and psych, 70s bubblegum, old blues, ragtime, or jazz on a rainy day ..KXLU, KCRW, NPR.. Classical.. Motzart, Bach, Chopin, Beethoven, Stravinsky, Tchaikovsky, Ravel

Henry Miller, Steinbeck, Twain, Poe, Rimbaud, Wilde, TSEliot, Dostiefsky, Nabokov, Novalis, DalaiLama, Blake, BlackElk, Wolfe, Baudelaire, Verlaine, StephenKing, Artaud, JeanJenet, Sun-Tzu, Corso, Murakami, RamDass, Rumi, Heschel, Jabes, Kerouac, Bukowski, Salinger, Ginsberg, Ferlinghetti, KennethYasuda, GeorgesBataille, Neruda, JimCarroll, KenKesey, AynRand, TomWolf, LewisCarroll, Dickens, CSLewis, DrSuess, ShelSilverstein, AldousHuxley, RobertLuisStevenson, JackLondon, KurtVonnegut, Vollmann, JosephConrad, HunterSThompson, OscarZetaAcosta, Palahniuk, GabrielGarciaMarquez, Tolkien, CollinWilson, Iceberg Slim, CornelWest, TennesseeWilliams, Hemmingway, Orwell, Kafka, HGWells, Hesse, Borges, Camus, HPLovecraft, Masoch, Freud, St.JohnPerse, Michaux, HarukiMurakami, MiyamotoMusashi, DorothyAllison, KathyAcker, AldousHuxley, Tolstoy, StephenHawking, RayBradbury, Brautigan, PhillipKDick, LeonardCohen, Lorca, PercyShelley, JohnRechy, TomRobbins, Masoch, ToniMorrison, AliceWalker, RitaMaeBrown, LaurenBecall, Milton, LaVey, Zinn, Giroux, Woody Gutherie, HarperLee, Neitzsche, EdnaStVincentMillay, Ballard, Homer, Proust, AnaisNin, DiPrima, GeorgeBernardShaw, DylanThomas, JackLondon, Plath (yep), AndreBreton, Celine, Burroughs, RichardHell, Heller, LesterBangs, JohnWaters, Frost, Rilke, NationalGeographic, Autobiographies, JustKids-PattiSmith, CrystalChildren, The Lost Book Of Enki, TheWarOfArt, Psychomagic-Jodorowsky, Popism-Warhol ..

Kubrick, Lynch, Polanski, Jodorowsky, Godard, Cassavettes, Fellini, Wood, Hitchcock, Argento, MichelangeloAntonioni, Aldrich, Scorsese, Coppola, Corman, DePalma, Raimi, Romero, TobeHooper, Kurosawa, HenriGeorgesClouzot, JoelCohen, Brothers Quay, Jarmuch, Newmeyer, Gilliam, Guest, RobReiner, VanSant, TodSollandz, HarmonyCorine, Bertolucci, Herzog, Rossellini, Nabakov, Tarkovsky, KennethAnger, PTAnderson, WesAnderson, JimHenson, DennisHopper, Waters, Price, RussMeyer, Steckler, KenRussel, Carax, SamPeckinpah, LarsVonTrier, AbelFerrara, OrsenWells, Chaplin, WoodyAllen, Altman, Cronenberg, OliverStone, Warhol, CityOfGod, GreyGardens, BlueVelvet, ElTopo, ClintEastwood, Xanadu, GreyGardens, AdventuresOfPippiLongstocking, UNICO, Harold&Maude, Adaptation, Badlands, MarxBros. ,PaulNewman, WarrenBeatty, BelaLugosi, BetteDavis, PeterSellars, BillMurrey, FredWillard, CriterionCollection.. Earthlings, Food Inc, Sirius,
My son likes AdventureTime, RegularShow, Uncle Grandpa, SpiritedAway, Ponyo, anything HayaoMiyazaki.

Seinfeld, Three'sCompany, MiamiVice, FreshPrince, UnravelingTheCosmos, DarkShadows, FawltyTowers, GoldenGirls, AnneOfGreenGables, CosbyShow, Roseanne, Columbo, TwinPeaks, X-files, TalesFromTheDarkside, TrueDetective, AmericanHorrorStory, Curb, BreakingBad, GameOfThrones, Orange/Black, BillMaher, TEDTalks, SurvivorMan, MyStrangeAddiction, TwilightZone, SpaceGhost, Lavern&Shirley..

Food:: Pho, Japanese Indian

Art:: Degenerate

Ansel Adams
The six things I could never do without
My Son, dreams, love, friends, fam, animals, nature, laughter, blue skies, clouds, rain, music, roadtrips, beach, sunglasses, picnics, bonfires, pillows, tea/coffee/books (the smell of used bookstores), jokes, absurdity..
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Truth/lies i tell myself
My childhood in SF
Letting go of thoughts
My son
My sisters
The appocolypse
Friends, family, strangers
How insane this world is
How fucked up our political system is
How we are all connected
Where is my car parked?
Why am I still single?? 😿
Black holes
Vortex cabinets
What if's..
Places I want to go
The earth without humans🌱
Deep sea
I wish I was raised by wolves
Coast redwoods
How i can be better
What's for dinner
Tree houses
Who ate the raisens??
Unusual film/story ideas
Fantasia has no boundries
On a typical Friday night I am
Dinner with friends
Playing music with friends
Bike rides
Home. Book. Tea
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I study a unusual martial art called Bujinkan.

I can't blow a bubble ..yet
You should message me if
You aren't flakey.. Once in awhile is not a problem;)

💥Bonus points if you ride an 80s road bike or can skate.