Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Your average techie-geek with a not-so-average open sexuality.
Also, in a open/flexible/poly
relationship right now, and just
trying to explore the experiences the world has to offer. I'm
looking for someone to connect with as friends and maybe more, who
is comfortable with the fact that I have another partner, the
Cis male, sometimes fluid with gender presentation. I identify as
"queer" but I've always found it difficult to connect with people
using that term alone because everyone has a different idea of what
"queer" is. So on OKC I'm just "Bisexual". They don't really have
checkboxes for "pansexual
" and "polyamorous
"... Update 3/20/14 -
they do now! OKC is awesome.
My favorite subjects to talk about are sex and technology.
Sometimes the intersection of the two, but that usually goes
I've been in the area for a while, but I never really got a chance
to explore it. So I'm looking for people who may be interested in
fun stuff to do around the Bay Area, or just to talk about stuff we
have in common over OKC chat.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
i(work on)Phones. Sometimes this job requires me to travel across
the globe, so I appreciate having Internet friends as much as
I recently completely my Masters in Electrical Engineering
and decided not to stay for a PhD. Working full-time isn't too bad,
I just wish I had more time during the week to do something other
than pass out when I get home.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Organizing things. Logistics
. I love planning. Sometimes
I would have a sexy dream but find that the entire dream is taken
up by the planning of the sexy part, and I wake up before the
action happens. :(
Anything weirder than Settlers of Catan
, I probably
love. Things like Red November, Betrayal and House on the Hill,
BANG! and Space Alert. I recently got Race for the Galaxy
found myself a little addicted to it. I'm also in a Dungeons and
group with my partner. Message me if you want to play!
September 2013 update: Sentinels of the
may be our new favorite game. We even volunteered
with the publishers at PAX-Prime in Seattle...!
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm really tall for an Asian guy. I also have really long, thick
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I haven't had the time to read "books" in a while. I used to like
science-fiction and short stories, but now I just read blog posts
on the Internet.
- Anything with Steampunk elements (They're usually horrible
movies, but I love the aesthetic)
- Thought-provoking Science Fiction, such as "Moon" with Sam
Rock from the 80s. I'm not even ashamed of this.
Anything I grew up with, namely Thai food and Taiwanese street
food. I wish I had more time to cook. :/
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends I care about
Food I grew up with
Technology and Gadgets
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What cool stuff to make/do/watch/drink/eat next.
Why does OKC only allow cats and dogs as pets? I have a tank of
tiny shrimp. Where do I put that?
Is is snowing in Tahoe yet?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually out somewhere in SF doing something fun, in order to
balance out the long hours spent working during the week. Or
playing board games / video games with my friends at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not afraid to die, but I am scared of being alone.
Maybe that, followed closely by: I am in a Dungeons and Dragons
campaign with a group of wonderfully open-minded and sex-positive
individuals. OK, I'm that kind of geek.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to meet someone new and first connect on an intellectual
level before moving onto the physical level.
You are interested in safe, consensual sexual exploration with me,
possibly in a group setting with my current partner.
If you want to carpool to Tahoe to go skiing or snowboarding
Oh yeah, also if you want to play Board Games
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